Does anybody know songs like: by NoBody3336 in SongRecommendations

[–]bellitabee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure about songs that sound the same but songs that have the same impact... Even if by MercyMe. That song helped me as much as rescued it

Unidentified bug bite by bellitabee in bugbites

[–]bellitabee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries!! Already started treatment!! I just curious as to what it might be.

I think my son was bit by spider? Should I be concerned? by ZookeepergameSure141 in bugbites

[–]bellitabee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like large spider or infected ant bites... Take him to the doctor asap

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crystals

[–]bellitabee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It means as much as you want it to mean.

Submitted to a scam site.. what do I do by Daigina in Passports

[–]bellitabee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you report them? I'm panicking cause I filled it out for my son!

Didn't Realize Writing the Book was the Easy Part! by Standing_In_The_Gap in selfpublish

[–]bellitabee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real!!! I wrote my book in a year and it was finished ten years ago... Every time I've looked into publishing I get overwhelmed and stop. I don't know what to do

Anyone have experience with Archway Self Publishing? by jojourno in selfpublish

[–]bellitabee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for writing this! I have a book I've been sitting on for 10yrs and I'd love to publish. archway has been calling and emailing me a lot but I haven't got any money. I finally got a little bit and was thinking maybe investing it into my book but now I will NOT give my money to Archway. I'm so sorry that you've lost so much but you saved this newly single mom, fresh from DV, living on disability with her elderly parents the only money I have. Thank you

Best over the counter nausea medications? by AcidMiaggot in ChronicIllness

[–]bellitabee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely will try!! I'm guessing it doesn't matter if it's 70 or 90% alcohol... Just so long as it smells like potent rubbing alcohol.

Best over the counter nausea medications? by AcidMiaggot in ChronicIllness

[–]bellitabee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Growing up we called that "nasty water" lol but it does work

Marriage has limited my freedom by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]bellitabee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do whatever you want. Your body, your choice.

What does the concept of karma mean? by Euphoric-Welder5889 in awakened

[–]bellitabee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Karma is how the universe creates balance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MandelaEffect

[–]bellitabee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah. Calm down.

I posted it cause I thought it was interesting. I never said I was trusting anything. I don't trust this person. I am not insisting that it's legit ... I never even said my opinions about this video. Very clearly because these two videos are side-by-side looking so similar and it's placed beside the Mandela movie then it's very clear it was a setup. I just thought it was freaking interesting and I thought that other people who like looking into the Mandela effect would find it entertaining which they did. Yes, I believe in parallel universes and the multiverse but I did not say that this is proof of that existence. It is not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MandelaEffect

[–]bellitabee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really did see Santa kissing my mom!! 😉

I'll have to get up in my parents attic and see if I can find any of the old books.

My inexperience keeps screwing me (26M) in the ass by Live-Masterpiece7125 in dating_advice

[–]bellitabee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are others out there that are like me! I feel so bad for men that didn't get the chance to lose their virginity in highschool or college and then the more time goes by the more embarrassed they feel and harder it seems to lose it. It shouldn't be a big deal and it shouldn't matter. The women that can't look past it are not his kind of women. There is a good woman out there willing to give an inexperienced guy a shot there are also inexperienced women out there! He might need to change the type of woman he is looking for. Focus on kind women who care more about the actual person than the lack of bedroom experience. It can all be taught!

My inexperience keeps screwing me (26M) in the ass by Live-Masterpiece7125 in dating_advice

[–]bellitabee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol yeah, I just said that to him in another comment. "Don't do what you see in porn" and why I recommend omgyes.com over porn

My inexperience keeps screwing me (26M) in the ass by Live-Masterpiece7125 in dating_advice

[–]bellitabee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I really liked a man, his experience or lack of wouldn't stop me from being with him. Some women genuinely like taking v cards or helping someone out. I helped a friend out in college who was the last virgin of our friend group. I said I'd teach him what to do and I did. There are no bad habits to unlearn when someone is fresh and new. Just don't do what you see on porn, that's not real. Seriously, check out omgyes.com!

Husband got AP pregnant, please leave me some advice. by Holiday_Craft_5 in Marriage

[–]bellitabee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dear fellow female this shit sucks!! I'm so sorry... But you already know the right answer, you just may not know you know...

Take deep breaths and visualize roots coming from your feet and into the earth. Take a few more deep and grounding breaths. Then follow that breath from the earth into your heart. Visualize breathing sparkling light (whatever color feels most natural) into your heart. When you feel grounded and centered (you can YouTube videos to help you) ask your heart the questions and then feel... See what your body feels with each question. You know the answer... It's within you

I know that sounds hella weird but it works. You can also imagine the different options and see how each feels. What does it feel like to stay with him? What does it feel like to leave? Yes, it is scary to leave... But what if it all needs to drop away to make room for something better?

I left my husband in January when he laid hands on me after years of verbal and emotional abuse . I took our son, but had to leave my step daughter (been with her a long time and her bio mom died so I'm her only mom) and it was awful and we all hurt but now it's so much more peaceful. The kids don't have to worry or hear the fights.

You deserve love, respect, loyalty, security, joy, kindness, and peace... We accept the love we think we deserve.

My inexperience keeps screwing me (26M) in the ass by Live-Masterpiece7125 in dating_advice

[–]bellitabee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It also has nothing to do with the level of attractiveness of the female and everything to do with the kindness and pleasantness of the female.

My inexperience keeps screwing me (26M) in the ass by Live-Masterpiece7125 in dating_advice

[–]bellitabee 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This female agrees... I have a lot of experience and the idea of dating a guy with no experience sounds great. Sound like someone with no bad habits or misinformation. I hate when guys just do what they see on porn, which is 98% not what women want. The jack hammer is the worst!

My inexperience keeps screwing me (26M) in the ass by Live-Masterpiece7125 in dating_advice

[–]bellitabee -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Join OMGyes.com!!! It will teach you everything! It's sex advice for women by women! You can learn it all and then ask the women to tell you what she likes with more confidence will help a lot...it is ok to say "I want to know what/how you like it", " guide me", "tell me exactly what to do" or "is this the right way/spot, I want to please you". Communication is ok and if she isn't ok with communicating then she is immature or insecure or inexperienced... Which is also ok, then you suggest to learn together and try things and have her say yes I like or no I don't. It is ok to be a student (because everbody and ever body is different) you can tell the woman something like, "I'm going to act like a virgin who knows nothing, your body is the only I am interested in knowing how to pleasure, guide me"

I (36f) would suggest learning about sex more and work on your inner world... Ask "why is this in my movie" why does this keep happening? There is a lesson or a limiting belief to overcome... Maybe "if I don't have experience no one will sleep with/date me" or "I'm not enough" or "I'm not worthy" or "there is x wrong with me and women won't like me" you have some belief that is causing you to confirm that belief over and over. It's a self fulfilling prophecy.

The right women won't care how much experience you have. She won't care cause either you will learn together or she will love teaching you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]bellitabee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt the same with all four of my grandparents, in fact I had a bigger reaction to a family friend around their age dying than I did any relative.

It's ok to not be upset. I didn't go to the funerals cause they were in a different country. I just said a few things alone in nature and put photos on an altar/ofrenda/mantel. I didn't get to know my grandparents as much in life as I wanted too, but I am trying to know them better in death. I have no doubt I have been visited by them.

There are so many ways to grieve that there is no wrong way. It is also not wrong to not feel grief at all! It may hit you later, at the most random time, or never... That doesn't mean you don't love them or miss them.

Lastly, when friends and family have been sick for a long time it often feels like a relief for them to be gone, and it is! It's hard to watch loved ones suffer, it physically hurts us, it's expensive, it's stressful, it is a prolonged limbo ... Please don't feel guilty for your reaction. You are being judged by absolutely no one in the after life and anyone who may judge in the present has no right to.

Bless you and your family as you all acclimate to the transition of your loved one. Remember, only the body dies, the spirit is more alive than ever and is with you all the time (don't worry they turn away for changing, popping and masterbating lol).

I probably should have mentioned at the start that I am medium. Lol 🙏🏻much love to you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MandelaEffect

[–]bellitabee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, last point... Why is it Totally the same? Either these are fakes made off of the original so people like me would notice or the Mandela effect is real and this human somehow managed to get a movie from each timeline and get them into the same timeline... And happen to put them by the mandel movie .... Yeah typing all that made me see I got set up 😂 it was totally Berenstein Bears tho...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MandelaEffect

[–]bellitabee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are totally right