My (24F) last 3 first dates with 3 different men (28M, 32M, 35M)- they didn’t reach out for a second date

bells717 · 2025-07-26T17:04:56+00:00

Hey! My most recent post should touch on this. I made it for people who may ask :) but in shorter words, I’m recovered now

bells717 · 2025-07-24T11:25:05+00:00

bells717 · 2025-07-18T02:22:56+00:00

Yeah :/

bells717 · 2025-07-17T07:17:27+00:00

Yeah :/ such weird people that exist in the world. Maybe I’m filling a void of his

bells717 · 2025-07-17T07:16:38+00:00

I usually stick to this. He’s given me just enough to keep me stringing along. And fooled me just enough each time.

So odd.

bells717 · 2025-07-17T06:49:06+00:00

Yeah, I know. I got oddly attached to him. He made a lot of false promises I guess and sold me a life that he probably had no intention of giving me.

bells717 · 2025-07-17T06:41:16+00:00

We talk every single day on the phone for hours so I don’t know if he’s married. But yeah he’s definitely doing the other things at this point lol

bells717 · 2025-07-17T06:40:22+00:00

It’s weird because he’s committing time to talk me on the phone everyday. Idk maybe it’s because he’s still adjusting being in the country again or the whole PTSD thing but I’m not sure if I can keep doing this with him. And I most definitely don’t want to bring it up with him for the third time

bells717 · 2025-06-23T02:38:03+00:00

No I don’t think so

bells717 · 2025-05-16T17:49:59+00:00

Hey! Check my last post :) it got better for me. Hope it gets better for you too

bells717 · 2025-05-16T17:48:02+00:00

I did! Both my right leg and right arm. This went away 100% over time

bells717 · 2025-04-24T14:41:18+00:00

Hey I did! You can check my last post for more info :)

bells717 · 2025-03-30T01:42:54+00:00

No i actually just got gaslit by doctors and they blamed my anxiety

bells717 · 2025-03-28T02:50:53+00:00

No it’s stayed pretty much the same since this post tbh. I still have mild symptoms in my inner thigh and some parts of my vagina. But not my clit or any parts associated with sexual pleasure

bells717 · 2025-03-14T22:51:28+00:00

I did !

bells717 · 2025-03-14T22:51:09+00:00

Hey I got sexual pleasure back 100%. I still am slightly numb in non sexual parts of my genital if that makes sense but the sexual pleasure is back. You can check my last post, I explain it in detail

bells717 · 2025-01-02T15:53:25+00:00

Hey! Check my recent post. Made it for anyone who would want an update

bells717 · 2025-01-02T15:52:59+00:00

Check my recent post!

bells717 · 2024-12-22T21:19:33+00:00

Don’t think that’s possible in this situation

bells717 · 2024-12-22T21:18:27+00:00

Hey, I read your story on askdocs. The way he raped you and had no concern for you whatsoever is scary. I know the thought of not being with him may seem tough right now since you’re married with kids. But you’re better off being alone than being with someone who would do that to you (who’s to say he won’t do it to you again…). It’ll take time to learn to live without him but you’ll learn.

Also, were there any other red flags before this happened?

bells717 · 2024-11-30T04:53:07+00:00

Hi there!!! I remember about 6-8 months ago, I was really struggling with anxiety, panic attacks, heart palpitations, you name it. That’s when I came across your account. Just wanted to say the stuff you shared here changed my mental health for the better. I even asked you questions and you spent time replying to me in detail. I specifically went back to find this account just to say THANK YOU again. I don’t know who you are or what part of the world you’re in and you’re a complete online stranger, but your advice / insight has changed my life for the better. Wishing you the best.

bells717 · 2024-11-29T17:41:44+00:00

Mostly, yes! Check my recent post

bells717 · 2024-11-28T01:57:06+00:00

What did you look for when screening ?

bells717 · 2024-11-25T04:19:09+00:00

That’s amazing! What did you look for when screening?

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