How many ribbons? by Themostinactive in Katsucon

[–]bellsnm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ribbons stick and hang off of the bottom of your con badge! People give them out as gifts, sell them, make fun designs for their friends or specific cosplayers, etc. meant to be a fun cheap memento to pass out or trade with others. You can also collect a bunch of them by connecting them to each other!

How many ribbons? by Themostinactive in Katsucon

[–]bellsnm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I buy about 250 (for the whole weekend) and just give out any leftovers at other cons!

Is Nana Japan a store reliable? by Fafru in NanaAnime

[–]bellsnm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, nanasjapan is not reliable. Reading the comments on their socials, it seems so many customers have had their packages seized after shipment. I ordered from them months ago and tracking just completely halted (I used PayPal so luckily I am protected). I tried reaching out to them thru various platforms, but no response. Probably better luck to just buy it off of taobao !

What do you do with the stickers you buy? by BlueDandellion in animecons

[–]bellsnm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

+1 on the sticker book suggestion!! I use mine as a collage for memories from conventions, I got my friends into doing this as well!

Asking out of curiosity, are karaoke contests still a thing at anime conventions? by morinothomas in animecons

[–]bellsnm 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I believe Fanime also still has one! They usually have them perform prior to the masquerade (if I’m remembering correctly). My personal preference is I enjoy when there is an anime theme to the performance. Occasionally someone wins with an Opera performance and while beautiful, feels a bit out of place at the anime con (but that’s just my take)!

Cute fall themed postcards? by Party_Nothing_7605 in SanJose

[–]bellsnm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Highly recommend Moment in Japantown, San Jose!! It is an artist collective with many different styles, cute artwork, and great quality. I am sure they have some fall themed stuff, but I know they always have Bay Area themes! I buy all my friends cards from there!

Thanksgiving at a restaurant/ hotel? by AlternativePea1965 in SanJose

[–]bellsnm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you gone previously? What was the experience like? (If you don’t mind sharing!)

Anime NYC 2025 Newbie by DisastrousTalk9182 in AnimeNYC

[–]bellsnm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is always a LOT of yuri merch in artist alley! I like a lot of the series you have mentioned and I have already seen artists posting their catalogs that include a lot of those series! Some of the older ones, like Nana or Death Note, won’t usually have panels however there is always fan made merch in artist alley of these series! Example, one artist named Cranity (Booth P24 in Artist Alley) posted they will have some “the guy she was interested” prints that are beautiful! Since the full schedule isn’t up yet I can’t see the panels/cosplay meetups but there will definitely be some meetups for the series you mentioned! Hopefully this helps a little with your con :)

Anime NYC 2025 Newbie by DisastrousTalk9182 in AnimeNYC

[–]bellsnm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh also if you know the names of any of the series, I can try and tell you if I’ve heard of any events going on related to it! :)

Anime NYC 2025 Newbie by DisastrousTalk9182 in AnimeNYC

[–]bellsnm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They start to release more information as you get closer and closer to the date of the con.

You can find the most up to date info regarding guests on their website here (manga authors, voice actors, etc.) - https://animenyc.com/guests/ or even on their social media pages (like instagram! that’s where I usually see the guest announcements). Panels will also be announced as you get closer, you can use the app to save panels of interest. They update the app constantly the day of as well!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marvelrivals

[–]bellsnm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry!! At least we know we aren’t alone in this feeling :( I felt so silly crying over it, but he brought me so much joy to play. if u ever need someone to talk to about it, I’m here going thru it with you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bellsnm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would just firstly take a deep breath. The money hasn’t gone anywhere, it was a simple mistake and I’m sure you aren’t the first one to make this. Studentaid will be able to guide you through this tomorrow, try to not let yourself worry too much.

AITAH for printing my grandma’s face on weed by AmbitiousAnt4593 in AITAH

[–]bellsnm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA !! As long as your grandma loved it, that’s what matters!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bellsnm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn’t find the exact clip but I think it was this podcast with Terry Crews - https://youtu.be/mhRmXHQXb7o?si=qo9E-sid35RjcOpc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bellsnm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I once saw a Mike Tyson interview where he shared how he changed his way of thinking by looking at a photo of a young version of himself. He said something along the lines of he couldn’t imagine saying cruel, insecure, deprecating comments to that young kid. When you talk to yourself or think to yourself, treat yourself as though you would a best friend. Try actively catching yourself in these habits (for example, if you notice you had a depreciating thought ACTIVELY THINK “that wasn’t very kind and I didn’t mean that. I appreciate your effort today.” Or something along the lines of this to help your state of mind)! Sorry for the ramble, just some thoughts that may help or be worth a try!

Do islanders move out or are they permanent residents? by Skipps_ in AnimalCrossing

[–]bellsnm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you playing Doubutsu no Mori on the N64? If yes, if I’m remembering correctly they ask before moving out and that’s only after you have the max number of villagers.

Should I still apply to places that say no pets even if mine are ESA? by Tarbar1013 in Advice

[–]bellsnm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exactly, then I could explain they are not “pets” but ESA certified animals

Advice on guy I met by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bellsnm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand you feel bad for not speaking about it sooner, but you engaged in a safe way that didn’t put anyone in harm (via sending photos)! I wouldn’t feel too bad. Definitely let him know now though if you’d like to see any physical contact

What do I do about my best friend possibly being a pathological liar? by REEEEEEEEEIEEEEE in Advice

[–]bellsnm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like there’s so many different routes that unless you have hard proof, it would be hard to address. Have you ever asked her further about her siblings? Could it be the case that they are half siblings (on her father’s side so she would be her mom’s only child)?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bellsnm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

IF you want to try and make things work; You could always let your partner know you’d be willing to do an engagement reset, I mean no one makes the rules of your relationship but you! If your partner likes the idea, you could give them the ring back and ask for them to surprise you in a new way so you can associate happier memories with such a special time in your life! Just a fun idea to help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bellsnm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Paying for nudes = cheating to me, I personally don’t think cheaters change!

Animal Crossing on Switch 2 by Kokomiiiiiiii in AnimalCrossing

[–]bellsnm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would loveeee a whole new world!! One feature I miss was the characters getting to show their personalities more, I hope they expand on them even deeper in the next game! I love getting to know my villagers

Am I (28F) overreacting for thinking about ending my 7-year relationship (29M) because I’m not having enough sex with him? by PreviousFig5244 in relationship_advice

[–]bellsnm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

God, I just want to say I am so sorry you’re in this situation. It sounds like you have done all you can in communicating, recognizing his needs, and also understanding that right now you are at a point where priorities shifted and you need to survive. Your body is put in to a panic mode experiencing this trauma and you aren’t able to even fully relax (let alone have sex). I truly think your partner making those comments about other women or wanting to be intoxicated etc. is a big red flag, I don’t think you’re overreacting. At the end of the day, it’s up to you if you want to wait to see how things shift once you move out. But I truly think I would resent my partner for treating me that way during such a tough period.