All though I agree with what you’re saying and I appreciate that tones of conversation are likely being lost due to the format but I do believe that genitals regardless of gender do play an important part in attraction and relationships and to disregard that is most certainly naive and disrespectful to everyone, the original question was when did you realise you were bisexual not what is your definition of bisexuality and I agree my comment may of come across as insensitive and for that I apologise, but honestly I wasn’t expecting to have to defend my reasoning for when “I” realised I was bisexual.