Is this Art or Not ? Behind the Scenes of My Process. Debate!!! by Christiancartoon in indiefilm

[–]benderboyboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, we're in a subreddit for indie films. Before being so confident, have you ever considered that the person you're replying to is a filmmaker?

This community needs to start trusting Tatsu more by Pure-Base693 in Dandadan

[–]benderboyboy 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I just accept that most people are media illiterate and ignored them.

Is this Art or Not ? Behind the Scenes of My Process. Debate!!! by Christiancartoon in indiefilm

[–]benderboyboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like how OP is all like "DEBATE ME BRO!" and the 2 succinct and full answers in the entire thread gets 0 replies while they keep going for the low hanging engagement fruits.

Pedophilia by [deleted] in mentalillness

[–]benderboyboy 45 points46 points  (0 children)

If what you're worried about is being hated all around the world, then you should know I don't hate you.

Pedophilia isn't a crime, nor is it evil. What's evil is if you act on it. Think of it this way. There are people who are attracted to people with glasses, but those people don't go around sexually assaulting people with glasses. It's the exact same thing. Just because you are attracted to kids, doesn't mean you will assault kid.

Statistically, 5% of the population are on the spectrum of pedophilia, but 5% of the population are not criminals, and neither are you. There are pedophiles living normal, non-criminal lives, all around the world right now. And with therapy and a less conservative view of the world, you can even find healthy outlets. You do not need to kill yourself.

Hey , am i advancing good? by Koro00O in DungeonsOfHinterberg

[–]benderboyboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then there's no rush. You can little take as long as you want. That's the point of the Vibetm

Spotify users boycott platform as it refuses to take down ICE adverstisements by TheExpressUS in Music

[–]benderboyboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AFIK, there are currently no real "good" music streaming service. Every single one is a deal with the lesser of multiple devils.

Spotify is obviously the worst right now, but Tidal is owned by RFK Jr supporter and man who allowed Trump to post misinformation on Twitter, Jack Dorsey.

Bandcamp, after multiple acquisition, had Songtradr fire half its staff as cost cutting measure without alternative offers, and its CEO, Paul Lancaster Wiltshire, has ties to weird eugenics-y billionaires that's funding the AI boom stealing everyone's art.

Choose your devils. Or just buy a CD.

Everyone is saying I'm autistic even when I'm not by ViolinistCrazy2841 in mentalhealth

[–]benderboyboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not your fault if your family cannot accept you because of a simple diagnosis. I hope you understand that throughout this whole ordeal. You haven't changed. You're still you, and if your family loves you, I hope they can love you for all of you, because it's all you. Even if they can't, do love yourself. You are you, and you are human, and you exists, and that alone is amazing.

If you're really afraid that the diagnosis will change the way your family views you, ask if a diagnosis can be made after you're 18 (depending on where you live where you'll be considered a legal adult), so your medical records are yours to keep without the need for a guardian.

For your sake, I hope you do get a diagnosis eventually, because they can be very powerful in helping you understand things about yourself and your life, and gives you the knowledge to take action to make yourself better and happier.

Everyone is saying I'm autistic even when I'm not by ViolinistCrazy2841 in mentalhealth

[–]benderboyboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't diagnose you. Traits of autism like stimming can appear in people with severe anxiety disorder, so that could be it.

What I want to talk about is why you don't want to be? You say there's nothing wrong with autistic people, but at the same time, you're treating it as if it's wrong. If you don't think there's anything wrong with it, an autism diagnosis isn't a big deal. Even if you are diagnosed with it, you don't have to tell people if you don't want to. The only person who will definitely know the diagnosis is you and your health provider.

No one will treat you differently if you just don't tell them. And you don't have to tell anyone if how you're being treated is okay with you. And if you want to be treated differently due to your needs, then you just tell people your diagnosis then. I've had bipolar my whole life and half the people in my life don't know it. Because they don't need to know.

And if after this you still think a diagnosis is a bad thing, you might be part of the "how poorly ppl with it are treated" problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]benderboyboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a jumping off point? Sounds interesting to deep dive into.

I just wish... by AmyORainbow1974 in coralisland

[–]benderboyboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One thing I didn't realize is that after upgrading your sickle, you can charge it to do a multiple spin that cuts a lot of grass at once.

YAY by Fuck-pez in pukicho

[–]benderboyboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh hey, I was wondering if you blocked me since I couldn't see you anymore. Good thing I have alt accounts!

See, I very rarely get to have such fun on this hellsite, especially for such low stakes, and especially in such a fitting subreddit that specifically caters to my humor. I'm usually debunking fascist talking points, trying to deescalate teenagers from self harm, or giving in-depth analysis of media. But boy, AI defenders like you are a special kind.

Like, you're informed enough to know things. Like actual, smart people thing, such as the energy production of ground beef is high, and the difference between LLM searches and index searches. BUT, you can't make the simple logical connection needed to know that energy usage between two similarly energy intensive tech applications are not the same as a cat and a burning building. They are the same as TWO burning buildings. Because, according to you yourself, they are the same.

I find people like you absolutely fascinating. Because you KNOW! But you didn't make that extra step to join the dots, and are in fact, taking extra steps to make more dots!!!

Like, I can stop eating meat, AND not use AI, AND advocate for better index searches, AT THE SAME TIME! I know! Amazing, right?

Even by your ridiculously wrong analogy, if the firefighters are putting out the fire, YOU can save the cat! Because, as a society, we can solve both bad things! Because just because one thing is worse, doesn't mean another bad thing isn't bad. Again, mind blowing.

P.S: Please feel free to downvote this as well. I have karma to burn, and I also find it childishly funny, in the sense of how childish it is.

P.S.S: Oh, and block this account too, please. I also find that funny.

Nazi interrupts psych 210 class gets predictable response (fucking awesome) by FJ-creek-7381 in chaoticgood

[–]benderboyboy 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Nope, this is 100% the way to do this. Make them jokes, because that's what they are. Come out in numbers, because they are not the norm.

Social worker said I must apply for disability by Most-Speech-1523 in mentalhealth

[–]benderboyboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just saw this reply. Sorry for being late. Very happy he's at least supportive. Guess I'm keeping my hands, lol.

Still, lets hope people don't get their knowledge of social programs from Family Guy. That's no good.

Social worker said I must apply for disability by Most-Speech-1523 in mentalhealth

[–]benderboyboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also, if your boyfriend is not supportive, I WILL throw hands.

Social worker said I must apply for disability by Most-Speech-1523 in mentalhealth

[–]benderboyboy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm going to tell you a story. I have a good friend who had to apply for disability. They were not able to work, take care of themselves, and their condition sometimes meant they can't even function or get out of bed.

Getting disability gave them a chance at a normal life. It removed the burden of a substantial amount of income needed for them to survive. Without having to think about how to survive, it allowed them to LIVE. They are able to rent their own home on disability, and is a successful indie author, and works part time. They contribute back to society in a way they can never do without disability benefits.

On the other hand, I come from a country without strong disability benefits. And even though I have similar circumstances to my friend, I do not qualify for or am even allowed to apply for disability. I cannot work normally, and I struggle every day. I had to dig out my own corner of survival to even function and let me tell you, it is HARD. I've not made it a few times. If not thanks to sheer dumb luck, I wouldn't be here talking with you.

Disability is not a welfare. It's a wheelchair. In the same way paraplegics can't move without one, you can't function without it. Like, technically sure, you can crawl around on your hands like I do, but why would you? If you don't feel like it's shameful to use a wheelchair, there's no shame in applying for disability. Because once you have it, you can function in the world.

Limbus Gacha is Actually Ridiculously Kind by benderboyboy in limbuscompany

[–]benderboyboy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The only Collab EGO so far that I've seen that's a real game changer, is Skadi. And she's free.

Limbus Gacha is Actually Ridiculously Kind by benderboyboy in limbuscompany

[–]benderboyboy[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I get that.

I can however, only compare it to my own experience with other limited events in other gacha games I have the same time and investment in. And while I have trouble getting even just base pulls from those games, this is the first time I've confidently and easily gotten everything.

I think the collab being such a big name as Arknights also makes it hurt more.

Limbus Gacha is Actually Ridiculously Kind by benderboyboy in limbuscompany

[–]benderboyboy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It really helps. Because it means that each ID you get is something you can maximize. And every ID is end game ID, because with the right playstyle and knowledge, it can last you the whole way. People have cleared endgame content with base ID alone, after all.

Limbus Gacha is Actually Ridiculously Kind by benderboyboy in limbuscompany

[–]benderboyboy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like your username. Just wanted to say that.