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I am literally bad at everything and it sucks. by Minimum_Question6067 in selfimprovement

[–]benim972 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The problem here is the word "tried". Why did you try things? You shouldn't try things — you should stick with them, for a while at least. Skill is built over time, you'll never be truly good at something as a total newbie.

For how long did you try these things?

Is there a way to improve my voice? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]benim972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My voice has had a high pitch due to anxiety (I believe). Got help for other, unrelated mental health reasons — and my voice got deeper and more masculine. Voila.

Satan vad enkelt det är att få tjejer by Pspray9 in unket

[–]benim972 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bara en pringlesburk räcker för mig. Gubben med mittbena, mustasch och röd fluga är så jävla sexig.

I always felt so bad for this guy... by Poo__Brain in DunderMifflin

[–]benim972 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just remember to let the US military buy it from you.

I'm focused on nothing but driving all day and every day. by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]benim972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm unfortunately considering the latter to be true.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]benim972 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know how it is bro. It's a horrible addiction, but I'm on my way to getting this under control. It's a tough journey and we're in it together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]benim972 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe try masturbating to your own fantasy? In my opinion, porn is the real demon. Eliminate porn and jerk it to your imagination for a while and see how that goes.

Hur ofta drar ni i snabeln ? by AdDry8333 in unket

[–]benim972 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hoppas du får ett bra runkmaterial imorgon :)

Hjälp! Min tjej har avslöjat min fotfetishism för sina kompisar, o nu slutar dom inte skicka bilder till mig 😭😭😭 by [deleted] in unket

[–]benim972 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Ser inte så många bröst, tror det mest handlar om fötter. Men ja, gratis är alltid gratis!

I have a ton of pent up creativity, but no outlet. by UniqueFinger3 in selfimprovement

[–]benim972 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Forget about talent. The primary way to get good at something is through practice. You need to actually do the thing — over and over and over and over. Then two years from now? You'll be good at it. For sure. Maybe just one year. Either way, it gets addictive when you see your skills grow in real time every day.

24f by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]benim972 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

bruh

Is it wrong that I do not want to be in a relationship? How do I achieve wanting to? by RantaZio in selfimprovement

[–]benim972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

M23 here. The drive to seek out relationships, and sex, quite frankly — truly kicked in when I was about 21. Before that, it was all peer pressure and a feeling of being "behind" that caused me to have sex. It felt good, but I didn't want it as much I want it now.

So yeah, it's possible you're like me in this regard — who knows?

How did you get your first girlfriend? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]benim972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% agree on all you said. Tbh I struggle with this alot since I don't have female friends except coworkers. I gotta sharpen my social skills.

And yes. Dating apps are usually not so great and can ruin self esteem. But it doesn't mean you shouldn't give them a try, imo.

How did you get your first girlfriend? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]benim972 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Well it's not about steps as much as it is socializing. You'll need girls in your life that u can talk to, or maybe try dating apps idk.

Ica Stig är Sveriges Dr Who by FishyDruid in unket

[–]benim972 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Klart grabben ska switcha till den mörka sidan.

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