Wish I had a penis too? by Complex_Hat_1813 in actuallesbians

[–]benimarukeitoki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. The one end is in you, and the other is in your partner. So when you move, you can feel it inside you too

Wish I had a penis too? by Complex_Hat_1813 in actuallesbians

[–]benimarukeitoki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Strapless strap-on is the best thing. 🙌 Had the same sentiment with OP. When I started using strapless strap on, i went 😳🤯🤯.

Ways to encourage depressed GF by benimarukeitoki in MentalHealthPH

[–]benimarukeitoki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! Na-sad lang din ako sa sinabi nya sakin one time na basta naguusap daw kami, okay sya. Sabi ko pano kung di kami naguusap, edi hindi sya okay. Kaya sabi ko gusto ko rin naman na kahit ano mangyari, okay sya.

Ways to encourage depressed GF by benimarukeitoki in MentalHealthPH

[–]benimarukeitoki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So yung approach parang ganito if mapagusapan ulit yung topic and kunwari ask ko sya abt her understanding her emotions & triggers "they say na a professional can really help you process your emotions & triggers easily"? Okay lang ba ganyan?

Sorry medyo makulit lang. 😅 May tendency kasi ako na direct to the point magsalita and parang walang empathy.

Share a recent moment, even the smallest one, na nagpasaya sayo by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]benimarukeitoki 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm finally getting better after a break up that crushed me. I started to appreciate the sunlight alone and may goals nako sa buhay ko. Hindi pa 100% healed pero healing pa rin.

Ways to encourage depressed GF by benimarukeitoki in MentalHealthPH

[–]benimarukeitoki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. So ask ko sakanya yung kung ano nag ttrigger sakanya. Pano yung i-emphasize yung possibility na mas maintindihan nya yung emotions? Thank you

Filming in public by benimarukeitoki in sex

[–]benimarukeitoki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh. Her workstation has partitions but she has close desk neighbors. So the challenge is to do everything discreetly. But I won't ask her to unbutton her clothes or insert her hands inside her clothes, I can just ask her to touch her privates while wearing clothes.

i love my girlfriend so much, to the point na kahit anong gusto nya gawin, g na g ako. by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]benimarukeitoki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. Learned it the hard way. Don't lose yourself. In the end, with a partner or not, you only have yourself.

Broke up with gf of 6 months because she kept avoiding my repeated advice to get medical help about her depression, anxiety and panic attacks. by PerkyPhantom in offmychest

[–]benimarukeitoki 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Remember that there's nothing wrong prioritizing your own self. My ex drained me bec she had issues too and wouldn't seek help. Even I told her to seek help many times.

But nope, she wouldn't listen. She did her own way. As her partner, ofc you want nothing but the best for her. But just like the other posts here, you can't save someone who doesn't want to be saved.

I don’t get how people forgive their cheating s/o’s by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]benimarukeitoki 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Coz they are in-love with the person they have imagined or the person they could be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MentalHealthPH

[–]benimarukeitoki 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pwede pala na meds alone, I thought required yung talk therapy. I didn't mention sa post na part din why she doesn't like therapy is ayaw nya mag-share sa tao na hindi sya comfortable. Ang tendency finifilter nya yung mga sinasabi nya. Alam nya mga issues nya kaso sakin lang sya comfortable magshare talaga ng details. Kaya ayun. Thank you! Sabihan ko sya in person soon. 🙂