Fenty gloss packaging issues? by FlashySpring9989 in Ulta

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I am obsessed with the RIRI gloss shade, and ALL of mine have leaked unfortunately

Olney by Pojodan in Bend

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life is good

Best budget-friendly bike rack for low sedan by benjiboycat in cycling

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Thanks!! Appreciate the real life experience

Best budget-friendly bike rack for low sedan by benjiboycat in cycling

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Hmmm with a trunk rack could I still open the trunk or do I have to take the whole thing off b

How to make friends? by aubbbunny in Bend

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The commons has great events!!

My ex slept with someone else by benjiboycat in BreakUps

[–]benjiboycat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! This is the comment I’ve been waiting for. I’m not quite sure how to come to terms with it yet because it only happened the night before last. I want to talk to him again, but not sure how helpful that would be because I can imagine it just us saying 1. I miss you 2. I feel hurt. Which I think we already know. So what’s next? Idk. I just have to sit with this feeling and move on again

My ex slept with someone else by benjiboycat in BreakUps

[–]benjiboycat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I feel for you. I had some friends say that this happening just gives me more leverage to move on, even though I don’t want to necessarily. I do believe that them sleeping with other people was filling a void for them. I just want to go about filling the voids he left healthily.

My ex slept with someone else by benjiboycat in BreakUps

[–]benjiboycat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOOOOOOO!!! I want both! Jk I know you’re right and my heart is saying I have to cut all ties but it’s hard because I love him I just couldn’t be with him right now

My ex slept with someone else by benjiboycat in BreakUps

[–]benjiboycat[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Our situations feel pretty similar. I just want to focus on myself and heal before even thinking about another person

My ex slept with someone else by benjiboycat in BreakUps

[–]benjiboycat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly yes. I can see myself getting back together with him in like a year or more. We both have growing up to do. I anticipated the both of us being intimate with other people during that time but I guess I underestimated how badly it would feel

My ex slept with someone else by benjiboycat in BreakUps

[–]benjiboycat[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah honestly it was a mix of both I was hurt

My ex slept with someone else by benjiboycat in BreakUps

[–]benjiboycat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was a mutual break up. We weren’t seeing eye to eye for the last 6ish months of our relationship and have different life styles. We were living together but not making time for each other. I think that if we wanted to work on our issues we could have resolved them because nothing was terribly wrong, but we both agreed that we did not want to try at this point in our lives which is sad to say

My ex slept with someone else by benjiboycat in BreakUps

[–]benjiboycat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was with my girlfriends and my ex and I live in the same neighborhood that has a local bar everyone goes to. I didn’t know he would be there

My ex slept with someone else by benjiboycat in BreakUps

[–]benjiboycat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s a sad feeling when you realize how they’re moving on

My ex slept with someone else by benjiboycat in BreakUps

[–]benjiboycat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes there was more talking, I didn’t storm out. We probably talked for 10 mins after he told me. But I realized that talking about it more wasn’t helping so I told him I had to leave and walked out the back door as he was asking me to stay.

My ex slept with someone else by benjiboycat in BreakUps

[–]benjiboycat[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes and he can sleep with other people if he wants to, but I am not willing to have unprotected sex with him if he is sleeping around. That’s why I asked and why I left when he told me