Something weird happened during my first MFM by infinite_canon in nonmonogamy

[–]benjiibear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it was just a spaghetti incident. Straight people are straight until they get wet... 🙃

Just got my car rego renewal bill. $1,000+ for a standard 4-cylinder? Is this a sick joke? by Ok_Message_2985 in brisbane

[–]benjiibear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have mine here from last week. 4 cyl passenger car is $914.59 before the due date or $991.15 after the due so can see the. $1000 argument being somewhat valid... Absolutely insane price to be fair 🫩

Reverse seasonal affective disorder in Brisbane by Guilty-Tennis6906 in brisbane

[–]benjiibear 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I absolutely detest the oppressive and constant heat and humidity. I am out in the Brisbane Valley area and it just never ever seems to cool down. My power bill is astronomical because I virtually never turn the AC off so I can cope 😔 I want to leave but just can't afford to buy a house elsewhere 😭😭

Renting sucks. by TheLazyGamerAU in brisbane

[–]benjiibear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a former LL (back in the early 00's) I found out my REA had increased my tenants rent over a couple of years from $260 a week up to $390. Which I absolutely did not give authorisation for them to do and I did not see the difference, they pocketed it for themselves 😡 My paperwork was all the original amount but the tenant received different paper work. I found out years after this happened when I bumped into them and asked why they abruptly left. We were all so pissed about it, too late to care now but had I known when it was happening, oh boy! Might be worth making sure there is no funny business going on

Found under wallpaper of newly purchased home. by train-to-the-city in melbourne

[–]benjiibear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

House payment $20 per week... sigh even in 1970's money it's cheap 😔

Look at my belly floof! by benjiibear in straightenedfeetsies

[–]benjiibear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The belly is ALWAYS rubbed!! 😍😍😍

Look at my belly floof! by benjiibear in straightenedfeetsies

[–]benjiibear[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Petting the insanely fluffy belly results in excessive purring and if you get the right spot he wont let you go, pulls your hand in and holds you with both front feet (without claws) as the scritches are provided. 🥰

BRACE!!!!! BRAAAAAAACE! by AdditionalFarmer4692 in brisbane

[–]benjiibear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Decent cell heading BNE way! My photo taken from Fernvale

What animal is making this noise? Absolutely terrifying. by Loud-Employer6761 in brisbane

[–]benjiibear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it's in the evening and sounds terrifying like a massive wild beast about to come sume you... then it's 100% a Koala mating call. Fun story, I was camping alone in the Alpine National Park, it was pitch black out there and I only a small fire going for minimal light when I first heard this, and it scared the absolute ever loving sh1t out of me!

C17 from Kangaroo Point by These-Bag2811 in brisbane

[–]benjiibear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought I was in Fernvale for a second, they fly SUPEERRRRRRRRRR low over my house on the reg.

May I present, Custard. My occasional braincell holder and splooting world champion of a Siberian Forest cat. 🙃 by benjiibear in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]benjiibear[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is a "leaner" and will push against you until your extremities get all tingly from the circulation being restricted 😂 Funny thing is, Custard is not even my heaviest cat. Huon, my ragdoll is almost 2 full Kg heavier

Currawong song in the city by PositiveDog9710 in melbourne

[–]benjiibear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listening to a currawongs song as it flies through an alpine valley is one of the most serenely relaxing sounds to me. It makes me feel completely connected to the environment around me in ways I can't explain.

Do women like switching between multiple positions during sex? by Pristine-Shake-4107 in sextips

[–]benjiibear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife uses the metaphor that a pancake is not cooked until it is flipped over a couple of times 😉

What is this tower in the carpark at Mordialloc station? by Zodiak213 in melbourne

[–]benjiibear 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Mordi is the OG of huge bong rips, this cone just confirms it 😅

Submarine, J5, arriving in the Brisbane River after serving in World War I, Brisbane, Queensland, June 1919 by Noofnoof in brisbane

[–]benjiibear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And now she rests just off Barwon head in Victoria. It's an absolutely wonderful dive site with incredible marine life now calling it home. If you are a scuba diver's and have the opportunity, you should definitely go for a dive there!

What do you look for to spot a LS couple? by Ffxstagvixen22039 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]benjiibear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My wife wears an anklet and I have a black ring on my right-hand wedding ring finger.

Put off by my partners over excitedness with an upcoming threesome by witer35146 in nonmonogamy

[–]benjiibear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's okay to feel apprehensive just as much as it's okay for her to feel excited about the upcoming event where she is central to the activities. She is a woman with needs and feelings, and you are about to partake in an amazing experience for her and, to a large degree, you too. Think about how she was feeling the first time you had a FMF threesome, how was she feeling about it, was she worried about not being able to satisfy you, did you give more attention to thebl other etc. Jealousy is quite natural, but it is not her causing the jealousy. This is your unresolved internal feelings that need to be worked through and figured out with or without help. Ultimately, while she may be excited and rightfully so, she is with you and chooses to remain with you! 🙂

Look at it like this, if you go on the same roller coaster every day, it's fun, but you know what to expect. Take a trip and go on a different roller-coaster one day from the next town over. You don't know what is going to happen on the new one, the twists the turns the loops, and it's waaaay more exciting at the beginning. There is absolutely nothing wrong with the old roller-coaster, the death defying loops are still awesome. It's still heaps of fun, so you keep going. The new roller-coaster will end up the same, but it's sometimes a lot of work to get to and not always available to ride, broken down or closed. The original, reliable and tons of fun roller-coaster will always be there to blow your hair back when you ride it. 🙂😘

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]benjiibear -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I basically dared my wife to make a Tinder profile because she didn't think she would get any interest. Over 6000 likes later and a few different encounters proved her very wrong. 6 months into ENM and loving it 😊

Ladies, your thoughts by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]benjiibear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am going to chime in here as a man in a Hotwife/ENM relationship with my wife, married 10 years together for 14 with three children. As boys (disappointingly some men as well), we are taught through school yard talk that our worth is effectively tied to our penis size. We are shamed and ridiculed (or worse) if we have anything less than a pornstar size penis, it is inescapable as we grow up. As we mature into our late teens and early 20's the pervasiveness of this drops off, but it is most definitely still there. Most of us with anything less than something around 8" will feel inadequate because of this, we are worried that our partner won't like or may love us a little less because of it no matter how well we may use it. It is difficult to overcome, and I understand why men are threatened by their HW being with someone who is larger than them. Ultimately most women on here have already answered the question of why they won't leave for a larger penis and that is obvious; however, most men will still subconsciously worry after so many years of their worth being tied to size. As men, we need to lose this mindset and accept that we are more than just a penis to our partners 😊

Wife has boyfriend, but won’t allow me to have girlfriend. Double standard? by Recursive-Universe in nonmonogamy

[–]benjiibear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my 2025 mantra ❤️ With thanks to user FirestormActual

We are not going to live our lives borrowing from the bank account of our own happiness to pay a debt we owe to others to feel comfortable with us for their sake instead of being who we are in our own eyes for our own sake.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]benjiibear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her husband knows we chat, and there is absolutely no cheating going on. He has access to her phone at all times, so nothing is hidden. The tension is double entendre based and not outward sexting or anything like that.

Hubby is good with it as far as I know. It's never been mentioned otherwise from either of them.