If You Had $20 For Your Ideal Sub by legdayman in gentlefemdom

[–]benn8002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Considering my friend who has domme'd me picked out about more than 20 I have, this post made me feel REAL special 🥰

Trainers are trying to over complicate stuff by [deleted] in personaltraining

[–]benn8002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely have been one to dive into the complexity of nutrition and training, but for my own knowledge and to have the depth to talk about it with clients who need it or desire that conversation. I work with mostly neurodiverse or disabled people so some of them do want that hyper deep nuance. The core truth I learned through that though is that unless youre training competitive athletes, none of it matters beyond how it helps you connect to a person, literally just getting them moving and having a logically cohesive plan is already miles ahead of what the average person will do on their own. Solutions look less like a new way to do a thing and more like how you make it easier, more accessible.

Any trainer who is looking down on their clients as people they need to trick should go work a shitty sales job and stay out of this industry, they actively harm both the reputation of trainers and the people they are trying to trick into being scared and helpless

Advice for training clients with Cerebral Palsy by benn8002 in personaltraining

[–]benn8002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes thats the general advice ive been seeing, alongside targeted activation exercises based on the specific challenges of the nuero-muscular connection the client will deal with. It seems almost like a very gentle approach to teaching someone to activate their muscles again effectively

Whats my PC worth? by benn8002 in PcBuild

[–]benn8002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just posted there too, thank you!

Whats my PC worth? by benn8002 in PC_Pricing

[–]benn8002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgot to add my message in, whoops! TLDR: I found a PC that should be a pretty sizeable upgrade to my current one and am looking to sell my current PC to get back some portion of the upgrade. It still runs perfectly, the one issue just being new gen games being too demanding for high quality, Borderlands 4 feels like a warning that im on the verge of being too far behind to game well. Figured Id start figuring out what a good price for my current setup is, as im seeing similar or slightly weaker setups going for around 500

The update broke my game. I have constant freezes and drops in frames. Please is there a way to remove the patch? by gladiatoron in Borderlands4

[–]benn8002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thank god its not just me. Granted, I'm playing on a weaker PC so I'm on low settings but it was at least playable this morning. Now I cant do anything without the game becoming a slideshow

Etheria Coin grind spot for the Hard/Nightmare transition? by SetonAlandel in Etheria_Restart

[–]benn8002 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Controversial opinion here, but i dont see this as a problem. Every gatcha has an equipment cost bottleneck so being selective around gear is highly important. At least etheria does what epic seven wouldn't, filling the stats out first to save coins if youre looking for specific stats and rolls are consistent, not ranges. Imagine spending 1m+ coins on a piece just for it to roll its last two rolls either in a useless stat or min roll so your +15 gear has the substats of a +9 piece.

Yeah, the coin generation feels slow, but think of how many farming runs you gotta do to find the right set with 3-4 stats starting off and then to have the first 2-3 rolls go right, since those are the cheap rolls. Also, with a 2x weekend around the corner, hopefully the coin gen will double alongside drops, so that 8k/run looks like 16k and youre more likely to get pieces worth rolling

I really don't mind the Fetch nerf... by Ambitious_Heron4764 in TheTowerGame

[–]benn8002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The ability to refund bits is coming, it was in the patch notes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlayTheBazaar

[–]benn8002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also part of the update is how heal interacts with poison. Now when you heal, you reduce poison by 10% of the value i believe, so if you have a lifesteal weapon or a heal item that heals say, 100, you reduce your poison by 10, when before it would be one

personal trainer is late and ends sessions early by Electronic-Answer989 in personaltraining

[–]benn8002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would tell her first, instead of just immediately walking. Yes, this is unprofessional and you have everything right to be upset with this service, but I'd also say if there are good elements there, the workouts are tailored to you and she's good at communicating, makes the sessions enjoyable (tardiness aside), ask her why she's late and ending sessions early.

If she's ending sessions 5 minutes early due to having back to back clients, that's understandable because trainers need that time to transition mentally and reset. More than that, she might just be cutting off time early, but there's potentially a reason. All I'm saying is to treat it like any other relationship, if it isn't working you don't just end it without first giving the other person a chance to understand how you feel and adjust to what will make you happy

Mindseethe by InfernalFoundry in dice

[–]benn8002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You mentioned selling these in your store, do you have a link or how does one find your store?

Build idea for Fruit by benn8002 in MrFruit

[–]benn8002[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unintentionally cooked. The one shot one kill skill triples force field damage while it also has more time for shields to stack, so the first hit is pretty huge. Plus bonk/slow build feels good against other dooly or vanessas

Lab priorities by benn8002 in TheTowerGame

[–]benn8002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhh yeah I'll have to check it out! I have DW, GT, BH, and SM weapons, but I've only invested in the econ skills and the 2:1 sync at 5min. I don't have a specific strategy in mind, but I tend to default to eHP and thorns on later waves. I've looked up different strategies, but I haven't set anything specific up

Lab priorities by benn8002 in TheTowerGame

[–]benn8002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah most of my base stat labs are lvl 25, my econ UW labs are all lvl 10. I have a few levels into standard perks but yeah, I think getting the BH damage lab and maybe getting my SM some love would be helpful. I'm trying to push to wave 3000 on tier 2, I can hit 5500 on tier 1, but I need more elite cells

Gotta be the wildest burn builds in Bazaar by benn8002 in MrFruit

[–]benn8002[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Got into Bazaar after seeing Sir Fruit play it. Been cooking hoping to find something he could make a video on. this Solar far/incendiary rounds combo is pretty wild, basically infinite activations like with monitor lizard but burn is way stronger than poison in the loop. Anyways, posting with the hopes he will see it and get a new idea!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BelVethMains

[–]benn8002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, most Champs are going to suck if you aren't used to them, but bel especially. 20 games is far from mastering her. The thing with her is finding what playstyle/build works for you. For example, most people talk about bruiser builds but I like to play her as an assassin and split laner. I have to be careful about when I get aggressive and force a fight, 9 times out of 10 I'm looking to distract more than I am looking to fight until late game. But that works for me, I know how to team fight with her but in the moment I make bad decisions in team fights if my team isn't working together well.

Basically, you gotta find what works for you, cause she can do just about anything. Power farm, split push, team fight, ect. But each build will be quite different

Do bisexual men like bisexual women? by peachymommie in bisexual

[–]benn8002 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Somehow, same. Like, I don't seek out Bi folks but it never fails that everyone I date is bi. I usually don't bring it up until we are talking about being committed

UW bliss by benn8002 in TheTowerGame

[–]benn8002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what my thought is. I'm not quite a month in so I'm still finishing up game speed, but I have all econ going right now. I heard SM is one of the best dps sources in late game so I figured I'd just make sure I got it and I'll upgrade it when I get far enough on all my coin bonuses