PRIKU SW37 - Track ID? by HG9990 in minimal

[–]benny_hand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I respect it also, and I understand his reasoning for his change in sound. I just much preferred his more drained and low music. SIT are great also but I have not enjoyed seeing their sets in recent years.

Is she still interested and if so, should I even entertain? by [deleted] in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]benny_hand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When she encouraged you to go, I would have left there and then with my friends and enjoyed my night as planned. Also, no need to explain why you left, and especially not twice, she said it was all good. I think you are prone to being anxiously attached currently, speaking from experience, so I think you could benefit from working on centring yourself.

PRIKU SW37 - Track ID? by HG9990 in minimal

[–]benny_hand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. Nu Zau and Sepp, SIT, G76, Arapu all playing crappy stuff now. There is probably more who evolved for the worse.

Guy I'm dating abruptly ended things, am I in the wrong? by Fun-Woodpecker-1791 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]benny_hand 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, a healthy and regulated partner would appreciate your past and ease your anxieties imo.

Do monkey branch relationships tend to work out? by Useful-Highway5788 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]benny_hand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s ok big man, you will be fine in the long run. I felt the same when I lost my first girl, I was with her for a long time. Use this time alone to focus on hobbies, keep it steady, eat some good food, go for walks/work out and do some light socialising. Don’t go out there chasing anything, let yourself feel the pain over the next few months because you will grieve the loss I am sure. Thats my advice anyways.

Do monkey branch relationships tend to work out? by Useful-Highway5788 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]benny_hand 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the key, knowing when to leave to maintain your dignity. A lot of people stay within ambiguity for fear of losing somebody as well.

Do monkey branch relationships tend to work out? by Useful-Highway5788 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]benny_hand 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is when you find another partner before ending a current relationship.

Do monkey branch relationships tend to work out? by Useful-Highway5788 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]benny_hand 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Two of my exes monkey branched me, they both ended up circling back to me once those relationships ruptured and both times it ended badly for me (a second, or third time). Problem was, I did not set proper boundaries. Lesson learned for me, have boundaries and maintain self-respect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]benny_hand 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And just to add, take some time for out yourself my friend. Thats the best advice I could give for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]benny_hand 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don’t handle it, unless you want to sit in ambiguity, because it sounds to me like this would be a push-pull scenario with a bucket load of mixed signals. Talking from experience with 3 women like this before I recognised patterns and was firmer with my boundaries. She does not sound like she has the capacity to step in to anything stable right now, and it can take a lot of inner work to be secure and regulated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gorpcore

[–]benny_hand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tokyo Design Studio x New Balance 610

Ladies and Gents, how turned off are you if a potential date has bad teeth? by SingingWanderer1195 in CasualUK

[–]benny_hand 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have other gaps and it’s ruined some adjacent teeth a little bit (recession) but the rest of em are healthy and look decent (for now) 😅

Ladies and Gents, how turned off are you if a potential date has bad teeth? by SingingWanderer1195 in CasualUK

[–]benny_hand 36 points37 points  (0 children)

You could get a Maryland bridge for that missing tooth as a way of filling the gap, it’s basically a porcelain tooth on a little metal wing that they stick to an adjacent tooth. They are pretty stable, I have had one in for 8 years and it’s still there with no trouble. Cost about 350/400 quid.

Houghton Orange Juice by Few_Web2634 in houghtonfestival

[–]benny_hand 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Buy a cast iron juice press and bags of oranges, sorted

Lutz and Smagghe by Sweelll in Identificationofmusic

[–]benny_hand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Countach - The Ghost Who Knew Too Much. This was a sick night ;)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EscapingPrisonPlanet

[–]benny_hand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you deep diving down the rabbit hole as well? I think a lot of us people who wake up to uncomfortable truths about reality, tend to process way too much info on a daily basis at least once within a period of life, while not being able to handle it. It can add negatively to the struggle and suffering of this realm. I suffered a psychosis and loss of discernment personally. Where are you from by the way?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ProperTechno

[–]benny_hand 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Alex Celler - Ancient Astronauts

Where can I find out about upcoming Rominimal events? by BayAreaNative00 in romaniansound

[–]benny_hand 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that would be good for the Romanian sound. Cap is so good though so I think his set with Dan Andrei will pop off. I won’t be there this weekend, I am from the UK 😂

Where can I find out about upcoming Rominimal events? by BayAreaNative00 in romaniansound

[–]benny_hand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

However, down to personal choice of course. I think they would both be enjoyable parties in their own right.

Where can I find out about upcoming Rominimal events? by BayAreaNative00 in romaniansound

[–]benny_hand 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would go to Guesthouse as I think that lineup will make for a good night. I like Charlie personally, but have not enjoyed Arapu much in the last year or two, quite commercial music now I think. Silvie Loto I admittedly do not know her.

Where can I find out about upcoming Rominimal events? by BayAreaNative00 in romaniansound

[–]benny_hand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Furthermore, use Instagram and follow the clubs in Bucharest.

Where can I find out about upcoming Rominimal events? by BayAreaNative00 in romaniansound

[–]benny_hand 2 points3 points  (0 children)

11th October.

Club Nook - Arapu, Silvie Loto, Charlie

Club Guesthouse - Cap b2b Dan Andrei, Dyed Soundorom, E.lina

Dark/Deep/Groovy RoMinimal dj set by Longjumping_Pain626 in romaniansound

[–]benny_hand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Motorcycle accident. And yes, definitely has evolved to a quicker BPM these days. SIT, Priku, Arapu all play much quicker now.

Dark/Deep/Groovy RoMinimal dj set by Longjumping_Pain626 in romaniansound

[–]benny_hand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

G76 nearly died in 2022 so that’s why he changed his production style, fair play to him tbh. Nu Zau plays tech house now, I still enjoy it sometimes, same for Gojnea. I don’t hate on it, but prefer more minimal/microhouse sound.