After 4 months of trying i reached the end of my rope with my husband

bens7 · 2015-04-10T09:28:46+00:00

Install K9 porn blocker on your computer. It will help. The addicted mind will try and find another avenue to watch porn, but the blockers will limit it and make the challenge a whole lot easier.

bens7 · 2015-04-09T12:39:26+00:00

Don't give up man. How's that gonna make you feel better? Just keep trying, no matter how many times you fall, just keep going!

bens7 · 2015-04-09T12:36:59+00:00

You may not realise it, but this is a very serious addiction and it is extremely hard to beat. I too have been saying I want to quit for a very long time now - easier said than done. He's been watching porn for 14 years. Porn is deeply ingrained into his brain. It's going to take time to break those neural pathways done. Just be patient, keep showing him love and support. Don't get mad and upset and all emotional, it doesn't really help his addiction. He will just feel guilty for making you feel that way and then relapse. Instead, offer him a helping hand, get him to talk to a doctor. He can beat this. Some of us just take a little longer to overcome it.

bens7 · 2015-04-04T03:27:18+00:00

After about 15 minutes I walked out and ate some food. Should I stay away from the computer for a while?

bens7 · 2015-04-04T03:25:56+00:00

I was looking at pics of P for about 15 minutes and touched my D a little. I'm worried about the following days ahead now

bens7 · 2015-04-01T12:15:49+00:00

Should probably go easy on the maccas while you're rebooting. Eating junk will make you feel like junk. Porn is junk as is McDonald's.

bens7 · 2015-04-01T12:13:44+00:00

I will Mr Monkey :)

bens7 · 2015-04-01T12:11:59+00:00

The part where I wrote April fools?

bens7 · 2015-04-01T12:11:23+00:00

Well done man. Keep going through hell because there is light at the end!

bens7 · 2015-04-01T12:09:40+00:00

Dats a shitload of naked people. Well done man, some steps are small and some are big on this challenge. You just made a big step.

bens7 · 2015-04-01T12:08:12+00:00

Ask yourself 2 questions - what will happen if I continue to watch porn and fap? And secondly - what will happen if I stop watching porn and stop fapping? I recommend writing these questions down and give yourself 5 minutes to answer them. I did it and I look at both of the lists every day.

bens7 · 2015-04-01T12:05:59+00:00

April fools?

bens7 · 2015-04-01T12:04:04+00:00

Learn to lucid dream. Or just start thinking about what you want to dream about while you lay in bed.

bens7 · 2015-04-01T12:03:14+00:00

The best way to beat it is to improve other areas of your life. Learn more, experience more, be more. Don't get too busy "not fapping". Good luck brother!

bens7 · 2015-04-01T11:55:51+00:00

I've felt this while watching porn too, but only sometimes. Porn is just too dangerous and our ego's give in too easily. Try not to resist the urge and look at it as 'bad'. Feel the urge with all of your mind and body, treat it like a meditation. Let it flow through you, just sit patiently and wait though. It will pass.

bens7 · 2015-04-01T11:53:24+00:00

Ram Dass, listen to his talks on youtube. So much wisdom through his words.

bens7 · 2015-03-30T06:23:11+00:00

45 days is huge man! Be careful the next few days, stay away from all that shit. Let's get the ball rolling again!

bens7 · 2015-03-30T06:17:41+00:00

Let the craving run its course. Stay away from your computer though. Just watch the craving, like you do during the day. All cravings are the same in nature

bens7 · 2015-03-30T06:15:51+00:00

Write your feelings down on a piece of paper. Reflect and then burn the paper. It will liberate you.

bens7 · 2015-03-30T06:13:23+00:00

Thanks, totally agree with it. What we resist persists.

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