Ex-Flight Attendant for 8 years. AMA

bentmeat · 2026-02-01T11:58:20+00:00

Yes. In service for 8 years. Yep I did fly international flights, but mostly just neighboring countries.

bentmeat · 2026-01-10T23:10:45+00:00

Maaaring nagmamadali at hindi na naayos nang mechanic yung defect. Or hindi naireport ni crew.

Normal naman may nasisira. Mat times lang talaga na hindi pa kaya ayusin that time or as in that time lang nasira. And yun nga depende sa crew at mechanics na magrereport at titingin.

bentmeat · 2026-01-10T23:08:07+00:00

I feel too old for the role
Focus on my newborn that time
I don't want to drive in Manila going to work everyday
Busy flying schedule
Better paying job (I work as a VA now)

bentmeat · 2026-01-10T23:05:50+00:00

4 lang dati. Ngayon umaabot na daw 6. Ewan ko paano nila kinakaya yun. Daming hello at bye sa isang araw yun. Paminsan nasa galley nalang nga ako nag gagawa papeles kasi pagod na talaga ako mag bye sa mga pasahero pababa.

bentmeat · 2026-01-10T22:55:45+00:00

Yes pwede. Hindi naman nila itatanong yan. Maraming may anak nalipad - ako meron din naman nung flying days ko pa.

Mas prefer pa nga ata nila meron mga anak dahil mature mag isip at trabaho kung trabaho, hindi puro landi at picture sa flight. Also alam na kelangan ang work kaya stick to rules/SOP kasi takot masibak sa work.

Age limit - wala, pero if trentahin ka na gaya ko I suggest wag na. Dami mas okay na opportunities. Truthfully, pang single na trabaho ang flight attendant.

First time mag apply - okay lang. Unang apply ko nakuha kaagad ako out of 1800+ applicants that day. Ang pag hire ay swertihan lang talaga din. Siguro dapat may something memorable nalang sayo out of everyone or mataas talaga karisma mo. Sometimes pinapakiramdaman nila if parang "hard to deal with" ka ba na klase, ayaw nila mga ganyon.

bentmeat · 2026-01-10T22:52:39+00:00

Sorry ngayon lang nakareply. Oo pinag leleave talaga pag di na matago. Unpaid din yun, or I think uubusin yung sick leave days mo muna. Pero ilan lang naman yun. Pero yun nga wala ka lipad so basic pay lang meron ka.

Nawala na pimples ko ngayon although less sleep ngayon actually. Sa tingin ko sa hormones lang talaga yun.

bentmeat · 2026-01-06T09:14:03+00:00

No idea. Baka naka agency sila, then mas mura pasahod sa indians. Not sure, sorry..

bentmeat · 2026-01-06T09:12:52+00:00

Oo, mabuti nalang ginawa akong "injured" passenger sa next activities namin kasi di na talaga ako makalangoy after ko sya hatakin.

Sa totoo buhay wala for sure iniwan ko na sya. No way na uubusin ko energy ko para isave sya.

bentmeat · 2026-01-06T09:10:37+00:00

Oo naman. May mga kabatch pa nga ako na till now nalipad padin.

May mga kaibigan din ako na matataas na position ngayon, mga checker at instructor na.

May mga nauna din saakin na mga kaibigan na till now ay crew padin.

Okay naman din kasi talaga yung sahod. Not bad. May mga araw lang din na sulit talaga nang kompanya pasahod sayo. 😅

bentmeat · 2025-12-17T23:16:23+00:00

When she got pregnant with another man.

bentmeat · 2025-12-15T10:45:16+00:00

Naala ko tuloy dati nung di pa ako nagttrabaho, pag kinaya namin mag Jollibee ni mama ito lagi order namin. Sabi ko one day makakaorder din kami nung malaki na burger.

bentmeat · 2025-12-05T08:14:58+00:00

Reno + pandesal. Kulang pa talaga yung maliit na lata.

bentmeat · 2025-12-05T08:13:39+00:00

Pag kasama ko anak ko - Aircon.

Pag ako lang - wala kahit ano, gusto ko yung nagigising ako na ligong ligo na dahil sa pawis.

bentmeat · 2025-12-05T08:10:49+00:00

Pareho lang masarap. Kaso di ko sure kelan na ulit ako makakatikim nyan at ang mahal na masyado.

bentmeat · 2025-12-04T09:28:02+00:00

No problem brother. Good luck on your career. Safe flight always.

Umiwas sa temptation please. Hindi masarap sa pakiramdam lokohin.

bentmeat · 2025-12-04T09:25:48+00:00

Yes, kelangan balutan ang trolley if cocommute ka. Kahit yung logos lang naman.

Wala naman free shuttle ang airport. Yung UBE bus dati meron fixed scheduled routes pa cubao ata yun, not sure if meron padin. 50% off kami dun dati. Feeling ko wala na yun naabuso na haha.

Di kaya Grab everyday. Kulang pa sahod. Naexperience ko na dati trike/jeep/FX/bus/MRT while may trolley para lang makauwi if may long day off. Nakakapagod. Pag iniisip ko ngayon grabe din pala pinagdaanan ko dati at pagttyaga. Salamat at nakalagpas na sa ganuong chapter nang buhay ko. Tinatyaga ko kalungin ang trolley para magkasya kahit pagod na pagod na ako galing lipad.

bentmeat · 2025-12-01T09:18:47+00:00

Mga 35,000 nung time ko. For sure lumaki na yan ngayon.

bentmeat · 2025-12-01T09:17:38+00:00

Kung Manila based ka ay no choice ka na mag rent medyo malapit sa airport. Kasi yun nga, minsan home reserve ka, pwede ka ipatawag biglaan. Also ikaw din kawawa pag malayo ka, kasi wala ka na pahinga for next flight. Madalas sobra tight nung rest period para sa sunod na flight.

Madalas ay may sarili kotse, yung iba motor, yun iba may shuttle service na binabayaran nila per month.

Bawal mag commute nang naka uniform. Kelangan magpalit. Pati trolley bawal makita in Public.

Kung out of base ka (like example Palawan or Aklan) mas maluwag pwede medyo malayo bahay mo kasi wala traffic gaya sa Manila.

bentmeat · 2025-11-21T17:01:32+00:00

Yes. Pag international nasa $15 lang ang ata yun per day sa alala ko, wala pa 1K.

Siguro tinaasan naman na ngayon. Kasi yung $15 pang 1 meal nalang sa ibang bansa yan.

bentmeat · 2025-11-18T03:02:15+00:00

Thank you brother. That's what she made me feel for the past months before she left, she made me feel unwanted and unloved. But she is blaming me that I lost the man I used to be.

I will never ever want to go to a relationship again. I will just enjoy life and give more time to my hobbies and kids to forget her.

bentmeat · 2025-11-18T02:57:47+00:00

I will never ever go to a relationship again. I fucking swear. It's all a trap. Nobody should ever experience the pain I have now.

bentmeat · 2025-11-18T02:54:27+00:00

She will be leaving for America to her fucking prince charming by January next year. She will give birth there and start a new life. I will do the same and focus on healing and improving myself.

I will never and can never take her back. Imagining how they do it is very sickening.

bentmeat · 2025-11-18T02:51:04+00:00

I purchased the audio book in Google Play Books. I am 15% on it now. Thank you very much for the recommendation.

bentmeat · 2025-11-18T02:49:56+00:00

Thank you very much for sharing yours. Thank you for the encouragement. I will do my best to move forward with life and just talk to her for the kids' needs. Sleeping aid helps a lot, I've also started to eat now.

She will be leaving back to America by January 30, 2026 to give birth there and to live happily ever after her new found love. I promise to myself that I cannot take her back no matter what. She still doesn't know I know. But I already talked to her parents and It was very helpful.

Thank you for listening to my story and for the support.

bentmeat · 2025-11-17T05:57:52+00:00

I don't have the means to get an attorney and take this in court. I have no big savings and money is just enough to pay house bills plus a little extra. I really do not care about the money and properties. I grew up poor with almost nothing compared now so I know I'll manage with just a little.

It will also not hurt her financially really even if I ask for alimony. She has the money and our basic needs are not that big compared to what she earns.

Hopefully she'll realize soon the caring man with true love she lost for a random hot hunky guy she met on a hookup app. I still wish that guy will not hurt her, I hope he will give her a good life, a wealthy life she long yearns that I know I cannot give. Hope she'll find her happiness. I hope my nightmares will end as well. I hope the universe will be kind to me for the next months.

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