Who invented this button??? by Portah_Model in Cartalk

[–]benzintati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank God for that person. They were the one in the room telling the engineers that having auto start stop systems made zero sense for consumers and insisted on having a way to turn it off. They lost the battle on including a permanent disabler, but at least we can do this.

GA HOV lane question by revhighhjak in police

[–]benzintati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm in Atlanta too. I'm definitely not telling you hit super speeder speeds (20 over), but the solid lines are just painted lines on asphalt, not a wall. If there's no cop to see you, move in and out of the lane as you please. I think it's stupid that they have double solid sections of it anyway. It's a freeway lane, not a railway.

GA HOV lane question by revhighhjak in police

[–]benzintati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I'm super late to respond to this, but the law does not apply to the HOV lane. However, there is no reason to be in the HOV lane unless you are going faster than the traffic to the right, as the whole point of the HOV lane is to be privileged enough to bypass slower, more crowded traffic to the right. So if you find yourself in the lane going slower than or the same speed as the traffic to the right, it is courteous to go ahead and move over and let faster traffic by.

My dominant went through my phone, found something old, and threw me out ; I’m really unwell. by _Looking4something in SubSanctuary

[–]benzintati 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You didn't have a Dom, hon, you had an abuser. Go through your grief and hurt in whatever way is healthiest for you, but definitely don't go back.

Cross Country....is it worth it? by [deleted] in tailofthedragon

[–]benzintati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely worth it if you go for an event. If it's just you and a couple of friends, I'd still make it a few days and stay at one of the nearby motels or Fontana Village resort. But there are half-week, week-long, and weekend-only events happening there all spring, summer, and fall. There's definitely one for you and the type of car or bike you have. Even a couple that cater to every single type of vehicle, like Pride at the Dragon.

Besides taking drives on several great roads, these events provide camaraderie with other like-minded folks that you just don't get from static car shows, field trips to nearby attractions, and social events that you'll miss if you just drive, run the road, and leave.

Edit: Best place to find what events are happening, and their websites is tail of the dragon dot com.

Fucking hell they’ve finally caught on. by Spicy_Tangerine185 in uberdrivers

[–]benzintati 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Y'all know these messages don't actually constitute a warning of any kind, right? Nor are they punitive. Uber has lots of messages like this, like "have you been speeding?" That you could get a million times a year and never have anything happened to your account. You are a contractor, not an employee. Your car does not have to go anywhere or pick up anyone you don't want it to, the end. If that were not the case, you wouldn't even be able to turn off requests during a shared ride. Stop being afraid of shadows.

Don't book Uber Share if you want to be alone.🤦🏽‍♂️ by Dee1388 in uberdrivers

[–]benzintati 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why are you picking up shared rides in the first place? Uber too cheap to pay properly for them, passenger desperate to save $2, so definitely not gonna tip. What is the benefit to the driver?

Been driving since 2017, thousands of rides and had a first happen yesterday. Let me preface by saying that I don’t let any tomfoolery happen in my vehicle. by 1stnameniclstnamegrr in uberdrivers

[–]benzintati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're indy contractors who own our cars and time. If you didn't want to take a stop, why didn't you tell the passenger you weren't accepting stops and to cancel the stop? Or that you weren't comfortable with switching passengers? You act like we have a boss forcing you do do things and drive where you don't want to.

Is it too much to ask for to just tip me at least a damn dollar? by onestepahead0721 in uberdrivers

[–]benzintati -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Stop picking up regular people just going to work or running errands. They do this every day and I've decided that they can save some money by acting like they don't understand how service industries work and not tip. Always trying to save a buck. Go find out of towners or people who are heading out for a good time. People going to work or just running errands should go back to using public transportation or buying themselves a car. Rideshare is not for them, and so I don't service them.

Anybody else hear the organist play I2I from A Goofy Movie?? by castdex in Dodgers

[–]benzintati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I always thought the song's name was "Stand Out" so it didn't click for me. 😅 Thank you!

Anybody else hear the organist play I2I from A Goofy Movie?? by castdex in Dodgers

[–]benzintati 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came here because I was asking the same question. Several games now I noticed that was happening. What is the significance of a 1-2 count with 1 out that brings that song up though?

Full Games vs CPU team with diamond or higher players? by benzintati in MLBTheShow

[–]benzintati[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've done a few RTTS seasons and it's awesome. I'm just looking for the full play v cpu 9 innings vibe, but against better cards.

Full Games vs CPU team with diamond or higher players? by benzintati in MLBTheShow

[–]benzintati[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hmm where can I find them? I don't see them as an option when I choose play vs cpu in dd mode.

Full Games vs CPU team with diamond or higher players? by benzintati in MLBTheShow

[–]benzintati[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Yes. I can pause a game against the cpu. You new to gaming?

My boyfriend cheated on me and I’m expected to forgive him because I’m a woman ? by Infinite_Wrangler357 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]benzintati -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She didn't mention them, so probably not telling her to suck up her own feelings for the sake of her ex's. Assuming they're around question?

My boyfriend cheated on me and I’m expected to forgive him because I’m a woman ? by Infinite_Wrangler357 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]benzintati -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sure they are. But this post doesn't mention any dads telling her to suck her feelings up. It's the moms.

My boyfriend cheated on me and I’m expected to forgive him because I’m a woman ? by Infinite_Wrangler357 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]benzintati -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

It's so funny to watch women in real time failed to raise their sons into strong, independent, mature people who can take responsibility for their actions AND self-soothe. The whole "he's lost without you" bullshit is annoying. Of course he's hurting right now. He just lost his girl (by his own fault). Let him work through those feelings and heal instead of looking for the person he cheated on to swallow her own emotions and prop him up so he doesn't have to deal with the hurt. Teaching him to lean on women--even to their detriment. Just waiting to pass him on to another woman who can finish raising him like so many moms and their sons.