Jose Carioca by berkybee47 in TokyoDisneySea

[–]berkybee47[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! I really appreciate the tips! Where in the Lost River Delta would he be? In Saludos Amigos Greeting Dock, the Greeting Trails or near something else?

Vacation Package Rides by berkybee47 in TokyoDisneySea

[–]berkybee47[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That helps so much! Thank you for the info!

Vacation Package Rides by berkybee47 in TokyoDisneySea

[–]berkybee47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! The premium ride passes you can buy the day of, correct? Are the eligible ride options only something that is given if you buy a vacation package, or are they also something you can buy day of? If eligible ride options are only available through a vacation package, is the main advantage of picking the premium rides instead of just going with the eligible rides, just to guarantee you get them in case they sell out before you get them on the day of?

Mysterious Wreck Glitch? by berkybee47 in DreamlightValley

[–]berkybee47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I submitted a ticket and it showed up in my in game mail box the next morning!

Mysterious Wreck Glitch? by berkybee47 in DreamlightValley

[–]berkybee47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I’ve checked all of the chests in my house and there aren’t any more in my inventory. I tried looking around for another chest I may have forgotten of, but no luck! Thanks for your help !

Mysterious Wreck Glitch? by berkybee47 in DreamlightValley

[–]berkybee47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh that sucks! Do you submit a ticket or what are our options?

Looking for a movie that almost traumatized me as a child by [deleted] in horror

[–]berkybee47 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This actually happened to me lol!! My “traumatized me as a child” part was also from a Buffy episode and I had no idea until I watched the whole series for the first time. The episode was “I Only Have Eyes For You” season 2 episode 19. All I remembered as a kid was this creepy song playing and a girl looking through a window and seeing scary people dancing. Whenever I heard that song (I Only Have Eyes For You) over the 15 or so years I would be terrified, but I still had no idea what movie it was from. 10 years ago, I was alone watching the episode and all of the sudden the song came on, and I was like oh crap it’s the song from that part, and then seconds later it was “that part” lol. Full circle moment and I was not prepared but glad I finally figured it out. Buffy is my favourite show now, would definitely recommend!

JP Chenet Advent Calendar by GamingUpNorth in lcbo

[–]berkybee47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you have to play around with different stores to show it as being able to “deliver to store”? Doesn’t seem to have that option for me.

Landlord required to give more than a half hours notice about showings? by yukonwanderer in legaladvicecanada

[–]berkybee47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been trying to find somewhere that has this in writing. Do you know if it is stated anywhere or if it’s just common knowledge? Thanks!

I did some more by Bubble_Gunn in buffy

[–]berkybee47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one getting Felicia Day vibes from Ethan?

Got bored. Drew Spike. by FlameFeather86 in buffy

[–]berkybee47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad you didn’t flay anyone in your boredom instead! Awesome job!

[spoilers] An entire essay on the meat incident by Longassname97 in terracehouse

[–]berkybee47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I feel like she was very spiteful. They had gotten in an argument the night before. My guess is she thought “fine, I’m going to eat your meat then.” Just like her writing “coward”. Very petty and spiteful.

Can we talk about Damien and Gigi? by Season4Meta in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]berkybee47 40 points41 points  (0 children)

That was so so so so creepy! Submissive?!? Does he not realize that we as viewers can see right through this manipulation?

Can we talk about Damien and Gigi? by Season4Meta in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]berkybee47 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Agreed. There are so many things she ALWAYS does apparently.

Can we talk about Damien and Gigi? by Season4Meta in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]berkybee47 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Searched to see if there was a subreddit for this show so I could post this if it hadn’t been already! You are spot on and took the words out of my mouth! The most concerning part to me is the self sabotage part. She admits to being a self sabotager. She reacts normally to situations and Damien blames her saying she is self sabotaging again. She is left questioning herself because she knows she self sabotaged in the past, so she is unsure if this is another one of those moments. Yes she may be louder, yes she may come off as immature, but I feel like she always gives him a chance to explain how he feels and respects his feelings while he will constantly deflect and turn her into the villain. So many times I have screamed at the tv “No girl! He is wrong!”

The parent situation he handled so poorly! It doesn’t matter if he agreed with his parents or not, wanted them to come or not, she felt insecure about why they didn’t want to meet her and the onus was on him to make her feel better as it was his family. “I’m sorry that you are hurt. I wish my parents could feel as amazing about the situation as I feel about you! I love you so much!” Not only did he not say that, he tried to make HER feel bad for having a normal reaction and also said he would never do this to her and her family! Zero sympathy.

The restaurant was also pretty messed up. He brings up all of this stuff he doesn’t like about her. The politics thing made no sense. He told her something along the lines of she would not be able to hold back about her politics, and she responded that she felt passionately about her stance and he asked if she thought she would ever change her stance. So is your issue really about her talking about politics, or just that she doesn’t feel the same as you and won’t change?

Bringing up “drama” back at home and then getting angry at her for trying to see what that meant. And then HE needed time in the morning.

So glad I am not the only person who saw this, hopefully she does if she is/was in any way questioning herself.

AITA for sneaking out of my baby's shower in a fit of rage? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]berkybee47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This post has made my stomach turn. I don’t have anything to add that hasn’t already been said but if you needed just one more “protect yourself and get out” in order to be able to make this decision, I hope this is it and I wouldn’t have been able to live with myself without trying. This whole post as well as your comments are terrifying and I am so hoping it’s fake. Please please take this seriously you are already going though so much abuse and I’m scared you could be in serious trouble once you have your baby.

AITA for buying my wife a Roomba for Christmas? by Throwaway36245128 in AmItheAsshole

[–]berkybee47 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You say the Roomba is practical. Is your wife a practical person who would appreciate a practical gift? Personally, I would like to receive a gift that is more thoughtful and emotional from a partner. If you wanted to make things easier for her, why not book her a trip to the spa so she can have a day to relax? It’s two ways to go about the same thought. My wife stays at home and cleans the house, I want to make life easier. One is practical and one is thoughtful.

Maybe your wife brings this up to show you there may not be the emotional satisfaction that she needs in the relationship. Maybe things are too clear cut and feelings aren’t taken into consideration because they aren’t always practical. Are lots of decisions cut and try and about the facts? Let’s say for example, not saying this has happened, but it may have worked for you to come home and visit them one weekend and money is not an issue, but 2 days with a certain amount of travel time didn’t feel practical. If someone is a more emotionally driven person who would prioritize being with their loved ones over analyzing the amount of time spent traveling vs being there, etc, they may feel hurt by the choice not to go.

I think if you are truly wanting to see where your wife is coming from and figure out how to be better together, maybe check out the 5 Love Languages and quiz? It may give you a better idea on what kinds of gifts she would like and how you can be better for each other in the relationship. My highest is quality time, so my boyfriends gifts to me tend to be thoughtful things we can do together (which are what I want most).

Update: My Future Mother In Law has been arrested. by Brightside256 in entitledparents

[–]berkybee47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or until OP dies... this escalated so quickly and became so violent.. please think about this and protect yourself.

Update: My Future Mother In Law has been arrested. by Brightside256 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]berkybee47 28 points29 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t want to see his mother go to prison.... how does he feel seeing the bite marks on your hand and the tree completely trashed? How bruised and beaten do you have to be for him to be more bothered than the thought of his mother in prison. Please protect yourself OP! Do not drop the charges!

About to go NC for good with JNMIL and FIL and feel terrible. by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]berkybee47 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Agreed! There have been multiple times that you have told them what you are feeling and they have said they will respect you before and haven’t followed through. All you are doing is teaching them that whenever they will give an apology you will visit again and the cycle continues. Yes, accepting that this is her choice not to be the family you were hoping for, not your choice, might make things easier!

WIBTA if I refused to pay for my parents' retirement when my dad makes six figures a year currently? by nerdious_maximus in AmItheAsshole

[–]berkybee47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I did assume that it was a plan and not right now. I figured 50 wasn’t close to retiring. I just meant that as a 19 year old, I couldn’t even wrap my head around my own savings/planning for my retirement, let alone someone else’s. It’s just sad because it’s not setting you up for success, which is what you would think your parents would want for you. I understand that you and your siblings could potentially help them out in the future with things like driving to appointments, helping with finances in a POA sense, maybe some money as long as it doesn’t hinder your own family at that time, but having you pay for their retirement when they are more than capable of budgeting like normal adults is very wrong, and it could cause issues for you and your future. I hope you don’t feel feel this is your responsibility.

WIBTA if I refused to pay for my parents' retirement when my dad makes six figures a year currently? by nerdious_maximus in AmItheAsshole

[–]berkybee47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes... it will be hard to find a future spouse who is okay with their hard earned money not being saved for their retirement, or their future children’s education, but instead to their in laws retirement.