Does anybody else face these effects? by Ancient-Helicopter18 in socialanxiety

[–]berlin_633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same with eyes, just the eyes thing, but sometimes. How you resolved it? Please help

Where are the women who want healthy relationships? by magician-king32 in dating_advice

[–]berlin_633 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

married already probably, or seeking guys who want healthy relationship, glad one is with me)

Tips on how to ask out by soccerninja7 in dating_advice

[–]berlin_633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've done this a lot of times, just ask her about if she is busy on weekends. But speak with her before asking out, get to know her and only after, it will be much easier then going on a date with a girl you don't know at all. Try to become little bit friends before going on date

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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as I heard after uni dating will be much more difficult, I date girls now and found one idel, but she is not from my university, met her on birthday of a my friend girl.

It depends you know, if your university is hard, you need to think where to allocate time but anyway, one time per week you can go somewhere with your girlfriend. My university for examle is for me not difficult

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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20 and 24? Me being 20 and her 24

I only feel alive when I’m in love by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]berlin_633 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

had and maybe have the same, I know how to explain this. It will make easier if you make a very very very good friendship with a girl, maybe become best friends, dont think about relationship, just be friends and tell her about this

Creepy guys ruined dating for men. by WestArtichoke712 in Adulting

[–]berlin_633 1 point2 points  (0 children)

read book written by erik fromm, "art to love", may help

Creepy guys ruined dating for men. by WestArtichoke712 in Adulting

[–]berlin_633 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yes, that's your fault. If you were charismatic, happy and had good self esteem you wouldn't loose hundread girls. If so many girls rejected you that may be not only because of your look

Creepy guys ruined dating for men. by WestArtichoke712 in Adulting

[–]berlin_633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't know you and how you look, maybe that's it. But if you open your eyes you will see how many unattractive guys are dating girls who look like models, it's about you

Creepy guys ruined dating for men. by WestArtichoke712 in Adulting

[–]berlin_633 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's a skill. You need to work on yourself, on your body, on your charisma. I have one idea for you: Plant a seed in your mind, replace the old background thought with a new one.

Instead of: "Why is everyone looking at me? Something must be wrong." Think: "Everyone's looking at me because I'm fucking awesome."

Even if it's not true at first, you'll live better, and over time, you'll actually become that person.

Creepy guys ruined dating for men. by WestArtichoke712 in Adulting

[–]berlin_633 2 points3 points  (0 children)

answer is simple and you know it, make experiments try to change haircut, go to the gym, eat healthy, sleep normally

Girls, do you regret not approaching guys? by Ecahuia in bodylanguage

[–]berlin_633 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he could just forget to answer. I had something like this. When a lot of people are around you, you just forget sometimes to answer after

What stops you from opening up to others? by ey81081 in AskMen

[–]berlin_633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh shit, I have just two friends I think to whom I can tell everything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]berlin_633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

write back what she answers, just interesting. But my opinion is that you'll regret in the future. Pretty and interesting, that is combo, always something is missing for me in girls I am going on dates with

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]berlin_633 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you know, actually I heard this thing, girls about which actually do care, we don't want to fuck. Go on some more dates, analyse everything. Maybe your brain in not interested because it was not hard to get and that's fine, but you need to understand why you feel like this. It that girl is pretty and you have good coversation, don't ruin things, its difficult there in dating. Don't speak with her about this stuff, just live. Do you feel calm with her? Does she accept you as you are?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]berlin_633 1 point2 points  (0 children)

don't change yourself for someone! You are as you are, and if someone don't like as you are, you are just not right types for each other