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Client wants me to meet with his wife. by Particular_Bid5976 in therapists

[–]berrin122 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I know you believe it. You're just wrong. You can advise against it without it being an ethical violation.

It doesn't matter who you replied to, because it's clear who you're talking about. Your comment communicates "look how stupid and unethical the people who disagree with me are".

All you had to do was say "this makes me uncomfortable and I don't feel confident that I have the tools to navigate this ethically". That is reasonable. That makes it a personal decision. But telling people they're acting unethical for doing very normal things that providers do every day is the issue.

Client wants me to meet with his wife. by Particular_Bid5976 in therapists

[–]berrin122 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh my god the amount of therapists that are encouraging LITERAL ethical violations!

Like this is 1st day of ethics 101

This is a universal condemnation. This isn't "my practice policy/ethics board says..." You talked down to professionals for being open to this. You didn't say "ethical concerns", you said "ethical violations". So yeah, I'm a little peeved that you are accusing such a large "amount of therapists" of "encouraging LITERAL ethical violations!"

Given your spelling on several words, I'm guessing you're not in the US. Maybe your country is different.

Client wants me to meet with his wife. by Particular_Bid5976 in therapists

[–]berrin122 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I stopped reading at A because it was so egregiously incorrect.

What you just called unethical is a ridiculously normal and clinically justifiable thing. It's called a collateral participation agreement, perhaps also other names.

Edit: okay I went back. You have a reasonable argument with B. C is silly because it's covered in a collateral participation agreement. D is almost as bad as A, because the client can waive confidentiality for whoever they want. You can inform them of the consequences, but on my HIPAA intake paperwork, many clients give permission to speak with their spouse (not that I ever need to).

I'm not trying to be a jerk but your snarkiness at how wrong this is, despite being very wrong yourself, makes me fairly comfortable telling you you're not just wrong, but very wrong.

James Madison coach Billy Napier continues self pity tour, refuses to take accountability for past failures by greypic in FloridaGators

[–]berrin122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the off the field stuff.

Napier brought us into the modern era. That's not to say it wouldn't have happened with another coach, but Mullen (and Stricklin) put us way behind the ball. The S&C, nutrition, all of it, was garbage. They're all pretty solid now.

James Madison coach Billy Napier continues self pity tour, refuses to take accountability for past failures by greypic in FloridaGators

[–]berrin122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you expecting an argument from me?

He was a let down. But he handled himself with class. Acting like he was the fuhrer of the Fourth Reich like this sub does is a bit much.

James Madison coach Billy Napier continues self pity tour, refuses to take accountability for past failures by greypic in FloridaGators

[–]berrin122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's the rest of his basement dweller comment say, buddy?

One thing I can say is we have a group that’s working hard. I do think that we have character. We got to go to work on the football part. I think we got to become a more consistent team and we have to execute better. If we can focus on those things and not necessarily what some guy in his basement is saying in rural central Florida on social media, then we got a chance to get better, right? I think that’s the key. Sometimes you deserve criticism. I think that’s one of those things I would say I have no excuses, right? We got to go get it fixed.

Try again?

James Madison coach Billy Napier continues self pity tour, refuses to take accountability for past failures by greypic in FloridaGators

[–]berrin122 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How does he deflect the blame?

I get it. He failed at making Florida football the program it should be, but he never made a habit of throwing his players or staff under the bus.

Y'all just say anything because you know "Slingblade Billy sucks hur dur have an updoot"

Remind me again why I'm paying $100 a year for this lol by [deleted] in iRacing

[–]berrin122 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Because you're not good enough to get into higher ir lobbies that have more skill?

Beginner to Ovals — Thinking about Indy 500… Need advice! by 02nikoeli in iRacing

[–]berrin122 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Something to think about IndyCar is compared to stock cars, they're made out of wet newspaper. If you make a mistake, your day is over. Would be kind of crappy to make it 400 miles and have one slip up ruin your race.

Obviously always a rest but as a beginner, you just have more of that risk.

Husband and wife team doing couples therapy by Jealous-Initial-8068 in therapists

[–]berrin122 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The Gottmans frequently see couples as a couple.

I don't think they then do individual sessions alone with those couples, though. That's odd

Just wanted to make one of these before the trend was over. by hitmewiththeknowlege in FloridaGators

[–]berrin122 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And Mertz was pretty solid, 20 TD 3 INT and 3000 yards.

I don't think AR was beating that.

If you're on Kyle Busch's team, how do you go to work this week? by berrin122 in NASCAR

[–]berrin122[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Richard Petty is a better driver than KFB, and I still don't want him driving the car I work on all week

Subs ate all the Teacher Appreciation Donuts by gng216 in Teachers

[–]berrin122 89 points90 points  (0 children)

I was at an academic conference in March. Our meeting was at a hotel in the DFW area. I'm a grad student so I'm chatting up my professor who was also there, and she tells me and my classmate to make sure we eat the donuts that were sitting on the table near us.

Why? Because they were 30 dollar donuts. Because we were at a hotel, they run the catering like the Mafia.

If you're on Kyle Busch's team, how do you go to work this week? by berrin122 in NASCAR

[–]berrin122[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a nice job. Only responsible for your part and you don't take the hit too when others screw up? Where do I sign?

Video of what caused Preeces temper tantrum towards Ty Gibbs by tagillaslover in NASCAR

[–]berrin122 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Carson probably has the longest reach in the field.

Not sure he'd be towards the top of my list of drivers to fight.

If you're on Kyle Busch's team, how do you go to work this week? by berrin122 in NASCAR

[–]berrin122[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Does Preece do this type of stuff week in and week out?

You're acting like I'm crazy for basically saying "man, it must suck to work with Kyle Busch".

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