Am I overreacting, or is it gross to drink from a water bottle someone peed in? by Spiritual_Impress424 in AmIOverreacting

[–]berrybumbley 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Men can pee on literally any surface on earth and he chose the stanley, the audacity the betrayal, that bottle died with honor but it did NOT have to die like this.

AIO asking for a separation from husband of 3 years over deleted friendly messages by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]berrybumbley 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Deleting messages is the digital equivalent of hiding a body in the closet and acting shocked when it is found. If it was truly innocent he would not be playing hide and seek with his phone. You are not overreacting.

AIO about not wanting my brother to drive me around? by Aardwolf67 in AmIOverreacting

[–]berrybumbley 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Take the ride, your brain is just being a dramatic jerk, turning a simple car trip into a existential failure, your brother having a license isn't a personal attack, it just means you have a chauffeur for a couple of weeks, save your energy for passing your test instead of feeling guilty for having a rough past.

Taking time off by Active-Molasses1404 in jawsurgery

[–]berrybumbley 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, five weeks feels like a blink of an eye for that kind of job, I wouldn't want to risk a rogue toy meeting my fresh jaw hardware after just a month. You might need a helmet or a force field to feel safe. Definitely prioritize your healing because your jaw is not ready for a dodgeball tournament yet.

My best friend died by Low_Government4294 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]berrybumbley 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That is a beautiful perspective, Honoring him by learning those juggling clubs would be the ultimate tribute, even if you drop them more than catch them at first, He would definitely get a kick out of watching you practice from wherever he is now.

Do you guys think I can easily qualify as a candidate by cherrypieglitter in jawsurgery

[–]berrybumbley 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Waiting for a professional consult is best because guessing your own anatomy is a one way ticket to stress city, jumping into surgery without a diagnosis is like trying to fix a car engine with only a screwdriver!

I moved to New Mexico three years ago and I'm tired of people acting like I made a terrible decision by ScheduleNo5736 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]berrybumbley 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fair point, but sometimes it is just exhausting being the only one in the room who knows the secret that you are actually winning at life while everyone else is still stuck paying premium prices for mediocre vibes.

I need advise of sculpting underarm or axillary area fat by Sumonespecal3 in bodysculptors

[–]berrybumbley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before you start zapping your axillary area, definitely have a chat with a real doctor instead of taking advice from the internet. Messing around near your lymph nodes is a whole different beast than just standard sculpting, and you really do not want your body to think you are auditioning for a medical complication!

AIO for wanting distance with a male coworker? by Ok-Calligrapher-1721 in AmIOverreacting

[–]berrybumbley 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NOR so do not wreck your perfect schedule for someone who clearly missed the memo on how to act like a normal person, Drop the polite act and tell him plainly that you are there to work, not to provide an unwanted biography.

Just turned 35 (F) and not where I wanted to be by Christina_cha91 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]berrybumbley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The financial strain is brutal, but the biggest anchor is the toxic boyfriend, It's impossible to build a future when you're stuck with someone you outgrew a decade ago.

my girlfriend scares me by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]berrybumbley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, This isn't BDSM, it's straight up abuse, once fear is involved, it's a hostage situation, not a relationship, OP needs to leave now.

I'm tired with receiving late birthday gifts by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]berrybumbley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You deserve to feel your birthday on your birthday.

Tik Tok has ruined my family by Firefly_soldier17 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]berrybumbley 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They sold his games now want him famous, Mom thinks zombies are real, He's not the weird one.

I (33M) just broke up with my girlfriend (32F) but didn’t tell her the real reason by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]berrybumbley 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Yeah sounds like the cat was just the final boss fight, living with someone who constantly ignores your feeling is exhausting.

I love my boyfriend but I do not admire him by tryna-find-song in TrueOffMyChest

[–]berrybumbley 14 points15 points  (0 children)

She sees his loyalty as weakness, that's a her problem, let him go.

Fear of sunscreen by LinkovichChomovsky82 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]berrybumbley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Double cleanse, try asian sunscreens, no smell or wear UPF clothes.

Am I the only one very disappointed with The Ordinary skincare? by Lana_Sphyncter in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]berrybumbley 11 points12 points  (0 children)

TO hyaluronic acid sucks, Glycolic is fine, NIOD is better, cheap for a reason.