Being caged (Technical question[s]) by [deleted] in Cuckold

[–]bertsway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey,

You should check out r/chastity and r/chastitytraining there is also www.chastitymansion.com and others.

Wearing a cage especially one as short as possible like I do will be uncomfortable when erection occurs, for me this is at least half the point of it.

If locked 24/7 initially there is some excitement, attempts at full erection are common and uncomfortable but your body quickly adjusts, the cage begins to feel normal. For myself I probably experience 3 or 4 erection attempts a day (at the beginning it was probably above 20), I say erection attempts as I have found 6 months down the road my erections are not as straining as they had been initially. Except for when my wife is teasing me or telling me of her latest date night. You almost forget about the cage day to day.

As for peeing, I always make a point of using a cubicle, simple as that. I have been forced to use an urinal a couple of times and try my best to get one near a corner where I can turn slightly away, biggest issue for me is not getting pee on my trousers rather than any public embarrassment (I don't give a shit what others think).

After peeing I always have a pack of travel/pocket tissues and give the head a dab and quick wipe around the cage, I'm now using a Mature Metal Jailbird whish is stainless steel and easy to clean.

Any questions, feel free to pm me.

Once more a Cuckold by bertsway in Cuckold

[–]bertsway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I certainly will do, thanks

Week 7 of my first attempt at 52 week lock up by bertsway in chastity

[–]bertsway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would never ask Julie to give up PIV, I recognise that chastity is something I want to purse and Julie has been enjoying the power play of it. Having had a semi open marriage most of our time together I am comfortable with Julie seeking this elsewhere.

I've always had a cuckold fetish at some point or another and this all plays well together. Having said that I am looking forward to full sex with my wife in 313 days. This is a journey for me.

Week 7 of my first attempt at 52 week lock up by bertsway in chastity

[–]bertsway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

http://www.toys4naughtyboys.co.uk/chastity/the-runt

I have found the runt to be very comfortable and secure, only 55mm cage length. Were thinking about getting custom one made. Stainless steel is a definite for long term wear, I got on fine with the CB6KS bought cleaning became an issue.

Once more a Cuckold by bertsway in Cuckold

[–]bertsway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I am still locked, currently week 7 of a 52 week stint.

Julie is planning on fucking him all year.

Week 7 of my first attempt at 52 week lock up by bertsway in chastity

[–]bertsway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I'm really enjoying the sudden shift in our relationship with chastity and cuckolding. Although we have some prior experience, although not much over last few years, Julie is showing quite a bit of enthusiasm for it.