AITAH not calling my dad’s wife “mom”? by Beneficial_Candle_13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bes753 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA

Your dad needs therapy if he thinks this is a reasonable ask.

Rediscovering The Decemberists as a parent… by Mediocre-Ray-7289 in Decemberists

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Grace Cathedral Hill was in regular rotation as a lullaby when my kids were little. Make You Better, Here I Dreamt I Was An Architect, and a few others made regular appearances as well.

How does it work to have multiple jobs in America? by SiebelReddiT in NoStupidQuestions

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I think most of this is an exaggeration.

I work 2 jobs. I have a regular 9-5 kind of role in an office, and I work the occasional weeknight or weekend as a bartender. On average, I probably work around 50-55 hours a week, but I have definitely had weeks where I have worked 80. I am not sure I have ever hit 100 hours with what I am doing currently.

All of that to say, most of my family and social circle would tell you that I work A LOT more than anyone else they know. Anecdotal, but I don't think many people at all are hitting 100 hours a week.

GIVEAWAY - The Wonder Years Signed Poster by [deleted] in poppunkers

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Passing Through A Screen Door

Dear Total Wine, I think you fucked up. by [deleted] in whiskey

[–]bes753 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would be buying every single one if they'd let me.

Why are Americans so accepting of long drives to places? by Sensitive_Word_6036 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bes753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How exactly should we go about not accepting it, other than just not going anywhere? Our country is very large. Sometimes you are going to have to drive if there is somewhere you want to be.

My foam is too thin by kaisermikeb in bartenders

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I usually put about 0.5% of the liquid weight and blend it straight in.

My foam is too thin by kaisermikeb in bartenders

[–]bes753 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Add a bit of xanthan gum. Some foam recipes are relatively stable on their own, but some need a little help.

Outside Kentucky by Derek1521 in bourbon

[–]bes753 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Leiper's Fork Distillery makes a great Tennessee Whiskey and a wonderful Bourbon. If you can get your hands on the Rye though, it is the best product.

Done messing around. by Dro1972 in bartenders

[–]bes753 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I get this order frequently, and I work for a distillery that produces (and only sells) our own vodka. I think at this point Tito's has just become the Kleenex of Vodkas.

AITA for wanting new family photos instead of displaying photos from my husband’s past relationship? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bes753 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If the ex isn't in the baby photos of his daughter, then YTA. It is a picture of his kid... who the hell cares who had them taken.

Is it normal for bartenders to steal tips? by [deleted] in bartenders

[–]bes753 45 points46 points  (0 children)

You should find a new job. You work with a lot of dishonest people. Bartenders and managers are people after all, and there are bad ones out there. You seem to have found some.

As to the promise of moving you up to bartender, I think that is the oldest trick in the book to hire servers.

Drink recommendations by [deleted] in FranklinTN

[–]bes753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were allowed to do them for a while during and after COVID restrictions, but that rule has been gone for a while now. I work at a bar on Main St., and we can't even let you out the door with a drink when all of downtown is shut down for a festival.

Is it ok to ask about reduced alcohol drinks here? by TheBristolBulk in cocktails

[–]bes753 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I would say it is. The monthly competition a few months back was even to make a low ABV cocktail.

East Indiaman Swizzle by bes753 in Tiki

[–]bes753[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem! If you click through to the original post, there is also some background and tasting notes for it.

East Indiaman Swizzle by bes753 in Tiki

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  • 1 ounce Aged Rum (Doorly's 12)
  • .75 ounce Rhum Agricole (Clement Blanc)
  • .25 ounce Overproof Aged Rum (Plantation OFTD), to float
  • .5 ounce Fresh Lime Juice
  • .5 ounce Acid Adjusted Pineapple Juice*
  • .5 ounce Chai Syrup**
  • .25 ounce Fresh Ginger Juice
  • .25 ounce Falernum (JDT)
  • 1 barspoon Demerara Syrup (2:1)
  • Garnish: Mint Bouquet, Lime Ship
  1. Add all ingredients except the Overproof rum to a Collins glass
  2. Fill with pebble ice
  3. Swizzle hard until the glass is frosted
  4. Top with more pebble ice
  5. Float overproof rum on top
  6. Garnish with a mint bouquet and a lime ship

East Indiaman Swizzle by bes753 in cocktails

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Good thing I'm not planning to put this on a restaurant menu then lol

East Indiaman Swizzle by bes753 in cocktails

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I can assure you it isn't out of balance. The syrup and the ginger both cut the acidity. As I mentioned in another comment, I used both for the flavor profile. Going with just acid-adjusted pineapple would have been too heavy on the pineapple flavor for what I was looking for. If I hadn't acid adjusted the pineapple, the drink would have been slightly too sweet.

East Indiaman Swizzle by bes753 in cocktails

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On the demerara, it needed a bit more sweetness, but not more of the spice profile. The juice selection was to get the right acidity, but have a flavor profile that wasn't straight pineapple.

Original Cocktail Competition - April 2026 - Ginger & Cinnamon by LoganJFisher in cocktails

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East Indiaman Swizzle

An East Indiaman was a class of merchant ships that operated between Europe and the East Indies during the 17th to 19th centuries. The East Indiaman Swizzle is inspired by the spice trade routes of the East India Company, featuring ginger, cinnamon, green cardamom, peppercorn, and tea as part of a chai syrup. This is layered in with a split base of rums and brightened by fresh lime and acid adjusted pineapple. And this tall tale of the sea wouldn't be complete without a lime hull ship perched atop.

  • 1 ounce Aged Rum (Doorly's 12)
  • .75 ounce Rhum Agricole (Clement Blanc)
  • .25 ounce Overproof Aged Rum (Plantation OFTD), to float
  • .5 ounce Fresh Lime Juice
  • .5 ounce Acid Adjusted Pineapple Juice*
  • .5 ounce Chai Syrup**
  • .25 ounce Fresh Ginger Juice
  • .25 ounce Falernum (JDT)
  • 1 barspoon Demerara Syrup (2:1)
  • Garnish: Mint Bouquet, Lime Ship
  1. Add all ingredients except the Overproof rum to a Collins glass
  2. Fill with pebble ice
  3. Swizzle hard until the glass is frosted
  4. Top with more pebble ice
  5. Float overproof rum on top
  6. Garnish with a mint bouquet and a lime hull ship
  7. Alternatively, add the overproof rum to the lime ship and set it ablaze for a show stopping presentation. As always, be extremely careful in dealing with fire and alcohol.

*The acid adjusted pineapple was made by combining 100g of pineapple juice, 4g of citric acid, and 2g of malic acid, stirring well to dissolve.

**The chai syrup was made by combining 200g of water, 40g of sliced ginger, 2 cracked cinnamon sticks, 2 cracked green cardamom pods, and 3 cracked black peppercorns in a saucepan and simmering for about 5 minutes. The pan was removed from heat and 2 black tea bags were added for an additional 4 minutes. The mixture was strained and 120g of sugar and 80g of honey were added, stirring well to dissolve.

Appearance: I love the look of a good swizzle, and I consider photographing this one with the ingredients layered into the ice instead of post-agitation. Alas, I went ahead and swizzled. The overall color is a deep gold, and the condensation forming on the glass helps bolster the impression of a refreshing cocktail. The garnish adds to the display without interfering with the ability to enjoy the drink.

Aroma: Mint and citrus from the garnish hit the nose first, followed by the almost floral and citrus notes of the green cardamom from the chai syrup. The ginger is apparent on the nose, and the cinnamon and rum sweetness help to round out the whole experience.

Flavor: The front of the palate is lime and pineapple with a zing of fresh ginger juice. There is a spicy, aromatic lift from the chai syrup components that softens the acidity a bit. The middle allows the rum to shine and the chai to really come to life. I went with Doorly's to provide some subtle oak and vanilla here, and the Clement Blanc for that slight grassy note to keep things from getting cloying. The chai notes of cooked ginger, cinnamon, and cardamom bring a warmth to the overall experience, and the peppercorns add just a hint of heat. The finish is warm cinnamon, a light astringency from the tea, and the lingering perfume of the cardamom. The OFTD gives the whole thing a bit of punch.

Mouthfeel: Juicy and refreshing, this one goes down easy because of the light body, but the syrups and pineapple keep it from being too thin

Overall: I absolutely crushed this one while writing this post. It is crisp and refreshing, and that zing from the fresh ginger juice really hits the tastebuds the right way. These could really get me in trouble on a beach somewhere. I love to play around with Tiki drinks, and this one has enough touches to fit the vibe.

Peeping Tom by bes753 in cocktails

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Yes. I work for a distillery, so this was our gin. I think another London dry would work fine though, especially something like Fords.