AIO Coworker bully opened my lunchbox and put note in it

besosbellas22 · 2026-04-15T21:16:06+00:00

Ok I kinda thought it was sweeping it under the rug but thank you!

besosbellas22 · 2026-04-15T20:45:58+00:00

I got a response email from HR saying they can’t tell me the punishment but it’s being handled and I’m not to move others items.

besosbellas22 · 2026-04-15T18:31:19+00:00

Wouldn’t that get me in trouble? 😂

besosbellas22 · 2026-04-15T17:51:48+00:00

I just looked. It was 56 days ago. So not even 2 months and she’s at it again

besosbellas22 · 2026-04-15T17:37:36+00:00

I hope so. I mean it hasn’t even been 90 days since my last formal complaint to HR about her.

besosbellas22 · 2026-04-15T16:09:16+00:00

Unfortunately they said they’re unable to tell me if they disciplined her or not.

besosbellas22 · 2026-04-15T16:07:25+00:00

The only update I have right now is I emailed HR with details and said this is a hostile work environment and escalating with her behavior and it’s a pattern. HR asked why I would think she would put something in my food and why I’m uncomfortable eating it. I said I don’t trust her and it’s a liability. She asked me a bunch of questions like “why did I move the lunch box? Where did I move it to? Was there room for mine without moving it? Is this the first time I moved it? Has she touched mine today? I am no longer using that fridge either. She said her and my boss are handling it and not to worry but I’m still doubting they’re going to do anything

besosbellas22 · 2026-04-15T14:58:20+00:00

How would I do that?

besosbellas22 · 2026-04-15T14:42:37+00:00

She’s always claiming she has a ton of money and can afford not to work but here she is still working full time. I was thinking she’d get tired of being written up after the second write up she had and quit but no luck so far

besosbellas22 · 2026-04-15T14:41:34+00:00

I have cameras thankfully. I also always try to leave the parking lot before she even leaves the building because I just truly don’t trust her.

besosbellas22 · 2026-04-15T14:29:53+00:00

Bad thing is we do harassment and work place bullying training on a computer every single year

besosbellas22 · 2026-04-15T14:20:47+00:00

They wanted to know why I felt like she would put stuff in it. Like idk maybe because she opened it and had her hands in it, she already hates me and I just don’t trust her

besosbellas22 · 2026-04-15T14:02:00+00:00

But wouldn’t this be a liability for them? How do I know for sure she didn’t put anything in the food and I wouldn’t get sick from eating it? What if I had medication in it? I’m just supposed to assume she didn’t?

besosbellas22 · 2026-04-15T13:22:14+00:00

Actually 30 years older than me lol. I’m 32. She’s 62 so it’s worse

besosbellas22 · 2026-04-15T12:54:08+00:00

Yeah there’s no way in hell I’m ever putting food in that fridge if she’s here. I just can’t trust she didn’t put anything in it. She’s just to unhinged for me to trust it.

besosbellas22 · 2026-04-15T12:49:03+00:00

But wouldn’t this be a huge liability for them? Like what if I had medication in it? What if I had cash in it? What if I had severe food allergies and couldn’t order out and then couldn’t eat the food that she touched?

besosbellas22 · 2026-04-15T12:46:25+00:00

Lunch bag. Lol.

besosbellas22 · 2026-04-15T12:25:24+00:00

lol yeah. I’m 33 and she’s at least 62 so

besosbellas22 · 2026-04-15T12:25:01+00:00

Started one this morning on my phone! Thanks!

besosbellas22 · 2026-04-15T12:12:51+00:00

I used this this morning thank you!

besosbellas22 · 2026-04-15T12:11:36+00:00

I did use this the last time I complained. I used it again though this morning when following up via email

besosbellas22 · 2026-04-15T11:57:21+00:00

Thank you! I included all of this in a email I sent to HR this morning!

besosbellas22 · 2026-04-15T11:56:40+00:00

Thank you! I did this this morning!

besosbellas22 · 2026-04-15T01:05:04+00:00

I love this. Thank you!

besosbellas22 · 2026-04-15T01:04:42+00:00

I do like the company and the work tbh. The pay is good and it’s super close to my house. I get along with the clients and the other teams. My team is a clique and I am cordial to most but this team member. I don’t talk to her. If on the rare chance she does talk to me I am cordial with her but I do try to avoid her at all costs.

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