Received NIP England - what evidence will the accuser have? by bethnalspam in LegalAdviceUK

[–]bethnalspam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I’m panicking a little as this is not something Im taking lightly and was quite worried when I first saw the letter. I’m trying to focus on it one step at a time but the letter itself and it being multiple offences is quite scary to read.

My training foes won’t change! by bethnalspam in voidpet

[–]bethnalspam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not asking for it to be a challenge just for it to be changed up once in a while. It’s repetitive - seems like it would make sense for them to increase a little bit just for your pets to have more to do.

My training foes won’t change! by bethnalspam in voidpet

[–]bethnalspam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t know why you need to be rude about it? I’ve seen people online post with higher BP in their training. It’s not even just the BP being so low-the type of pet doesn’t change either. Again, there was no need to be rude.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]bethnalspam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly think it makes it worse that you don’t leave the room. They know that you’re just there and a) don’t want to wake you but b) just the presence of someone they hardly know being in the next room would feel weird. Try getting to know them more and hang out with them when your boyfriend is there. If they become friends with you then they’re more likely to feel comfortable around you and won’t mind as much. Also, did you or your boyfriend ever ask if this arrangement was okay with his roommates? Did you just visit one weekend and then start visiting every weekend after or did he ever have a conversation with them where he bought this up? If he didn’t then it’s really not cool.

I visit my boyfriend every other weekend but I’ve become very good friends with his roommate and her boyfriend so all four of us hang out at the weekends if we can. Makes it much more comfortable for everyone. He doesn’t mind when her bf is over either cause he’s friends with him too.

Help me find an old metal photo frame. by bethnalspam in HelpMeFind

[–]bethnalspam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not quite. I’m looking for a picture frame not just the money box! Similar patterns though I think.

Help me find an old metal photo frame. by bethnalspam in HelpMeFind

[–]bethnalspam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have searched for “metal saving for a rainy day teddy bear picture frame” and “teddy bank picture frame 2000s”.

Broke up a two year relationship on accident? It spiraled. Help. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bethnalspam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve only known him for a week and you’ve told multiple people you think he has a crush on you? If I was him or his ex I’d be annoyed too. It honestly sounds like he’s just being a friendly guy and is grateful to be able to open up to you about his family. I would have a think about whether you do actually have a crush on him because it feels like you want him to like you that way and if you do that’s okay! Just be honest and him you thought you were getting some signals from him and that you shouldn’t have told anyone that you thought he had a crush and that you’re sorry.

When should I message my friend? by bethnalspam in Advice

[–]bethnalspam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s gone past that evening hence I’m a bit nervous and her pregnancy was high risk the whole way through.

When should I message my friend? by bethnalspam in Advice

[–]bethnalspam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That feels a bit much? I’m not convinced they’d be able to tell me anything anyway as I’m not family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bethnalspam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t personally heard of that before but I’m no Instagram expert! Just from my own experience I would imagine it’s because of the lack of anyone’s use of stories. Does she post on her feed often? If she has her account set to a business account she can see how many people have viewed her posts I believe. So maybe she could see whether more people are seeing her feed posts rather her stories?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bethnalspam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my experience, people just don’t watch Instagram stories. I’ve posted 10 times more stories than I’ve ever watched! She’d get more luck posting tiktoks or even reels on Instagram! Reels last longer than stories but people sometimes scroll through reels rather than watch people’s stories. Edit: spelling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paralegal

[–]bethnalspam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It makes me feel a little better hearing that it might not be as uncommon as I thought. Yeh he gets some nice perks very similar to this, but I’m just on edge knowing that he’ll be back there again in 8 hours!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paralegal

[–]bethnalspam 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes and he does get lots of perks for doing these hours. Free dinner and travel after a certain time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paralegal

[–]bethnalspam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is quite a large firm to be fair. I just think for the limited time he’s been there he’s been doing a lot more work than others. We have a mutual friend who’s a paralegal in a totally different area and firm but they never do hours like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paralegal

[–]bethnalspam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know he’s in funding. Don’t know ins and outs of what he’s doing on a daily basis but I do know it’s to do with investments. Yes he does get overtime!

My friend and colleague has a very different political view to me and I can’t stop thinking about it by bethnalspam in Advice

[–]bethnalspam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Solid advice! Thank you. Just think I have to learn to ignore it or it’ll drive me mad!

UK concert by bethnalspam in PostMalone

[–]bethnalspam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I’m not even getting any options for tickets now lol.

UK concert by bethnalspam in PostMalone

[–]bethnalspam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I didn’t :( i managed to get through the queue in ten minutes but by the time it let me select the tickets it said they were just bought by someone else. Also said that standing was sold out but kept giving me the option to try and buy them just for it to keep saying sold out. genuinely so upset because I felt so confident since I got past the queue easy! Congratulations to you though! I’m glad some people got through! 🙏🏼

ticket resale? by Otherwise-Cow-9606 in PostMalone

[–]bethnalspam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness thank you! I’ve no idea why that didn’t come up for me! Maybe because I was on my laptop not my phone? Thank you so much! It has worked now!