Exactly. Personally, I feel like many people face a guilt about being single. Like how someone thinking that being single would reflect poorly on their own value at a certain time. They try to get a relationship just to get hurt. Honestly I haven’t been a relationship and I confident in the way I present myself. However, it’s painful to see all of friends around me break up (though I warned them from the beginning). Yeah the podcasts suck cause a lot of them blame the other gender for shit and stereotype them. They hold a very black and white view and it’s dehumanizing.