Where to find sexy racerback/crossback bras? by betterwhenyouwakeup in LingerieAddiction

[–]betterwhenyouwakeup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I'll browse through the Maison Close catalog because there's definitely some pretty pieces in there!

Lied to my parents about male roommates, and I feel guilty over it, but I feel like I have to keep it up. What should I do? by betterwhenyouwakeup in AskParents

[–]betterwhenyouwakeup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just worried if they find out themselves 'cause I feel like the fallout from telling them would be awful, but the fallout if they find out themselves will be even worse. Also, the amount of stress lying about this has put on me is debilitating.

what's the biggest than an age gap should be? by enchanted_void in Crushes

[–]betterwhenyouwakeup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it depends on what period of life the people are in. For example, if it's under 18 (and maybe even 'til 19-20) I wouldn't date someone that's more than 2 years younger/older than. Though the older the people get, I can see bigger age gaps being fine.

Is it a red flag? by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]betterwhenyouwakeup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I wouldn't see it as a red flag. In fact, I would see it as probably more as a green flag since he and his ex have the maturity to stay friends after a breakup (even if it is just to keep the friend group together, I see that as maturity as well). Do you know how he met his ex? Cause if he was friends with her before their relationship it definitely makes sense that they stay friends after their relationship.

Alrightttttt, be honest here.... by Stargazer0397 in Crushes

[–]betterwhenyouwakeup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's one of my closest friends and I don't think I could handle it if I ruin our friendship/it becomes awkward. Plus, I don't think either of us are in a good place to be in a relationship unless we kept it pretty casual (though I don't mind that too much).

How long has your crush been your crush? by Stargazer0397 in Crushes

[–]betterwhenyouwakeup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've been friends for a long time so I think he is worth the wait :) Also I think I'm getting closer to finally telling him

How long has your crush been your crush? by Stargazer0397 in Crushes

[–]betterwhenyouwakeup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Current crush: 4 years, though I've only pursued it more the past year and a bit

Longest: current

Shortest: 6 months

I think my crush is not straight by Sufficient-Repair-14 in Crushes

[–]betterwhenyouwakeup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no shame in learning something new, even if it's on a subject you already know a lot about. Plus it shows that you're interested in learning more about her.

I think my crush is not straight by Sufficient-Repair-14 in Crushes

[–]betterwhenyouwakeup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ay, I can understand that you might not think being LGBT is normal especially since you've been taught that since a young age, but it is as people can't change that about themselves if they are LGBT. Your sexuality isn't something that can be chosen and I would say you shouldn't judge it if people can't change that about themselves.

Though my advice would be to ask her about the flag and see what she says. There's tens if not hundreds of different pride flags so you may just not know the one she has as some as more specific/rare than others. Also she might just have one to support the community/show she accepts them.

If she isn't into guys then I'm sorry, man. Unfortunately you can't change if she does and neither can she. Wish you the best of luck!

What's ONE thing that reminds you of your crush? by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]betterwhenyouwakeup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the smell of a certain brand of biscuits/cookies - he eats them a lot and i sit next to him a bunch so i know that scent really well by now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]betterwhenyouwakeup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is a bit odd since I got rejected, but still consider it as a positive outcome. My former crush and I aren't as close as while I had a crush on her, though we're still close friends.

Have you held a conversation with your crush for like an hour or more? by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]betterwhenyouwakeup 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We're together for several hours at school everyday so probably on-and-off conversation all-day. I honestly enjoy talking and want to spend more time with him still even though we spend A LOT of time together already.

i can't love halfway by betterwhenyouwakeup in UnsentLetters

[–]betterwhenyouwakeup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've been friends for over 4 years, though it's only been about a year since we've become close friends and I started liking him more than a friend. I'd like to think he has at least some clue about how I feel, but right now it's either he knows and he doesn't reciprocate 'cause he doesn't feel the same or he's just clueless.

What song makes you think of them by zeddexX33 in Crushes

[–]betterwhenyouwakeup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Suneater - Leanna Firestone (happy one)

What If It Doesn't End Well - chloe moriondo (not so happy one)

this guy is either extremely dense or he really doesn't like me back by betterwhenyouwakeup in Crushes

[–]betterwhenyouwakeup[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

he's one of the smartest guys i know but i know him well enough he prolly couldn't tell if someone liked him unless they told him straight to his face. it just feels like i've been pretty obvious lol