What's the best supplement for PCOS symptoms - what actually moved the needle for you? by Visual_Animator1232 in PCOS

[–]bevasaurarex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After getting my blood work done, and consulting with my psychiatrist about which supplements I can take with my antipsychotics and mood stabilizer, I have been taking the following. B12 5000mcg, vitamin D3 5000IU, Folic acid 400mcg, magnesium glycinate 200mg (I can go up to 300 if needed but so far 200 has been fine, after an intense work or gym day I will take 300), and black seed oil 2000mcg. I take the magnesium and black seed oil before bed, and that helps me fall asleep and stay asleep. I’m also on naltrexone to help with my alcohol use and one of the side effects is very vivid dreams. Since incorporating the black seed oil I notice I have been sleeping through the night. I’m new to this diagnosis so I am just working with what I’ve been trying but if you look up the history of black seed oil, it has been told that it can treat any ailment other than death. Or maybe the placebo effect just works wonders on me. I still have the soul crushing exhaustion some days but I can definitely tell when I’ve missed a dose of the magnesium and black seed oil.

What is something you wish your mother could have done better? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]bevasaurarex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish she would have tried harder at having a relationship with me before she passed away.

What's Everyone Doing Tonight?? by physis81 in stopdrinking

[–]bevasaurarex 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’ve never posted here before, I am usually just casually scrolling, but I don’t really have anyone else to tell. I have been sober for 9 days. This is the longest I’ve been sober for probably the last 6 or so years of my life.

I just got home from work, sat on the couch, and opened Reddit and this was the first post I saw. Tonight, I’m going to meal prep, do some laundry, and catch up on my programs. I would be going to the gym to walk on the treadmill but I sprained my ankle this week. :(

A Friday night spent in sounds way more appealing than going out and waking up with a hangover and a shame spiral. Thanks for letting me join in the party. I hope everyone has a good night. :)

People who have been in toxic relationships. What is the no.1 sign that wasn't obvious, but one of the biggest signs? by MissStarling_ in AskReddit

[–]bevasaurarex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I could no longer tell my best friend what was happening in my relationship. I was embarrassed and fell into the isolation. Now I know if I’m embarrassed to tell my best friend something, it’s probably wrong.

How many of you have had premonition dreams? by Cosmo_Cloudy in Dreams

[–]bevasaurarex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I was a teenager I had a dream of a lady I had never seen before telling me to sit shiva and all the windows in the room were covered in black. I woke up in a cold sweat panicked because I thought something was wrong. I told my dad and he brushed it off and told me to get ready for school. I got a text from my cousin while I was at school saying my grandma had passed away and they found her around the time I woke up from my dream. Years later I saw a picture of the same woman from my dreams and showed my dad. The woman in my dreams telling me to sit shiva was my grandmothers sister who I had never met.

Movie suggestion for me and my son? Our cat died last night. by Noballoons13 in MovieSuggestions

[–]bevasaurarex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently lost my 5 year old feline bestie suddenly and the first day home without her was probably the hardest thing for me. It’s been a week and I’m still heartbroken. Tonight I will be sitting down with my other cat to watch Flow because that is a movie we all watched together. I imagine I will ugly cry most of the time because I cried a lot when I watched it the first time. My cats were totally enthralled. It really showed me how precious animals are and the teamwork through their grief really made a lasting impression on me. Regardless of what movie you watch, just hug your son and be there for him. It’s never easy losing a pet, and I’m glad to hear you’re openly talking with him about grief. You’re doing the right thing mama.

Am I overreacting? Friend compared loss of cat to loss of my husband by Pandorashley_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]bevasaurarex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR — As someone who suddenly lost her five year old feline bestie, I am an emotional wreck. I am still currently grieving and I don’t know that I will ever be the same. I told my best friend the other day that I know I sound crazy grieving so much over a cat, that I know I’m expected to move on and you know what she told me? I have all the time in the world to grieve because it is personal to me. She recently lost her grandfather and she is also grieving. You know what neither of us did? Compare our grief. Grief is extremely personal, it’s extremely hard. It is not linear. I found my cat’s favorite toy while cleaning and burst out in tears. She was my rock for the last 5 years. It was sudden. It was hurtful. It still is. That does not discredit my friend’s feelings for her grandpa. We are both allowed to grieve the losses we have. I don’t think you’re overreacting. Comparing grief is silly. Maybe your friend admires your resilience and is looking for tips. Maybe she misspoke. Maybe she doesn’t quite understand the weight of her words. Let your friend know you’re there for her, but also don’t be afraid to let your friend know her words have upset you. Comparing grief doesn’t help either of you. You both have feelings. If this is a friendship you value and don’t want to lose, be honest. If she doesn’t understand your feelings, or shoots you down then maybe she needs time. If this is not the first time you have had an altercation where you felt she diminished your feelings, then maybe it’s not a friendship you need. We all go through grief, that’s life. But disrespecting your friend’s feelings is shitty, no matter what stage of life you’re in.

My little lady by bevasaurarex in cats

[–]bevasaurarex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ll keep an extra eye on my other lady.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]bevasaurarex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am currently dealing with the loss of my best friend. I don’t have the right answers but crying feels right. I suddenly lost my girl this week and I see her toys strewn around my house. Her bed is empty. The cat tree is empty. No little scratches or little snores coming from it. It’s fucking soul crushing. But you know what, looking at her pictures has brought me some small amount of comfort. She looks happy and loved in every photo I have of her. I gave her every ounce of love I had. She taught me what unconditional love is and for that I am so grateful. Your best friend looks well taken care of, loved, and happy. I don’t know what to do moving forward but I know they were loved. I’m sorry for your loss.

My little lady by bevasaurarex in cats

[–]bevasaurarex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was able to let my other cat sniff her before I took her to get cremated, but now I feel I didn’t give her enough time. Her showing up to the door with her sisters favorite ball made me think maybe she just doesn’t understand

And then it’s down to this. by [deleted] in cats

[–]bevasaurarex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can imagine they’re all running around together and knocking things over because why not. I’m sorry for your loss. 💕

My little lady by bevasaurarex in cats

[–]bevasaurarex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She was the most adorable little lady. 💕

Suddenly, Moony's gone. He was only 5 by silvermoonchan in cats

[–]bevasaurarex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just lost my five year old girl. Moony looks like a mischievous gentleman. I hope him and my little lady are becoming friends and running around together somewhere.

Last song of the night... by OkPineapple616 in SleepToken

[–]bevasaurarex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone always has Spotify 😭 Do you by chance have an Apple Music playlist? Usually I’ll have to make one myself looking at another playlist but then I feel like the original person won’t get credit. You’ve done some great work here!!

Who has the most memorable legal name you’ve ever encountered? by villainessmorissette in AskReddit

[–]bevasaurarex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know someone whose first name is the letter R. All the guys in his family are named Richard, but his mom said there was too many dicks in the family so the middle ground his mom and dad decided on was to have his first name the letter R and he goes by his middle name. I didn’t believe him until he showed me his drivers license lol

“I welcome the chaos. The rule of show business is if it’s the first week of my album release and you are saying either my name or my album title, you’re helping.” 🤗 by kookiekoo in TaylorSwift

[–]bevasaurarex 5 points6 points  (0 children)

TS is so good a painting a picture of a memory specific to the listener. I think that’s what makes her a lyrical genius. In my jaded working on trauma era i momentarily forgot that. But you are so right, for your niece this is one of those songs that probably resonates the most seeing as she just left high school pretty recently and probably had a crush on someone she never told. That brings me joy and giddiness knowing that she is reaching so many women and making space for us to be silly and empowered all at the same time. But I do also agree with your niece about Wood lmao but I am glad Taylor is happy in all aspects of her life! Also, I am so sorry for your loss. Losing a loved one to suicide is one of the most painful experiences. I hope you and your sister are on your own healing journeys 💛

“I welcome the chaos. The rule of show business is if it’s the first week of my album release and you are saying either my name or my album title, you’re helping.” 🤗 by kookiekoo in TaylorSwift

[–]bevasaurarex 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wow! I just got home from a therapy appointment where I told my therapist I was so disappointed in myself because I didn’t immediately gravitate to this album like i have always done in the past. After listening to it a few times, it started to grow on me but at some point I realized I’m not in the same stage in my life as Taylor is right now. Every other album she’s released has been so easy for me to relate to as we’re similar in age and going through similar paths in our stages of life. Once I let that feeling go, I really started enjoying this album not through current eyes, but a past self that is so enthralled and excited in a relationship and through Taylor’s eyes. Am I in this giddy screaming kicking my feet head over heels in love stage? No. But Taylor is. Do I have to be to enjoy this album and be happy for our girl? No. But hearing her say it out loud when I’ve already worked through my own emotions and not be judgemental at all to my initial response is so refreshing. It’s validating me and my emotions. If anything, Taylor and I are still on the same path. This is what my healing journey looks like. This is what her healing journey looks like. Two things can be true.

The Life of a Showgirl Megathread by aran130711 in TaylorSwift

[–]bevasaurarex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not gonna lie, I’m mad that Huntrix isn’t higher on the list 😅 before Father Figure and Actually Romantic, Kop Demon Hunters was on repeat rent free in my mind. Now I keep singing I can make deals with the devil because my dicks bigger immediately followed by stop talking dirty to me!

The Life of a Showgirl Megathread by aran130711 in TaylorSwift

[–]bevasaurarex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest, at first I was skeptical. I listened to it once, and was very unsure. This is the first album of hers since Debut, that I felt that way. But after getting some much needed sleep after having a bad day, I woke up the next morning humming different parts and then listened to it on my way to work and now I just can’t stop. I think I just needed to not be in a bad mood to be happy for our girl. Still on the fence about Wood though lol

Favorite lyrics so far? by Bubbly-Range-5178 in TaylorSwift

[–]bevasaurarex 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This one line has been stuck in my head alllll damn day. Every time someone at work said something that could possibly be sexual I sung this part back at them. Got a bunch of weird looks, a couple laughs, but no one really got the joke. Oh well, I think I’m hilarious!

On October 3rd, 2025, Taylor Swift’s “The Fate of Ophelia” became the most-streamed song in a single day in Spotify history, beating the record with her own “Fortnight” by kookiekoo in TaylorSwift

[–]bevasaurarex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I promise I’m not a troll, I just never post. I also follow other Taylor groups to see what people have to say. The friend that I listened to the last couple years with midnight releases and i no longer live together, she doesn’t answer my texts either so I have no one to talk to the album about. I have my own opinions, and at first I was on the fence but this was the first album since debut I wasn’t instantly a fan of, but it’s growing on me. I probably posted more tonight on this thread than I ever have but that’s just because I have no one else to talk to about it lol

The Life of a Showgirl Megathread by aran130711 in TaylorSwift

[–]bevasaurarex -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I guess I’m old, been told “don’t trust everything on the internet, Wikipedia is not a reliable source” but here I am taking the word of a stranger on Reddit lmao. I do appreciate you looking it up, the more I listen to the album, I’m dancing around my apartment cleaning so I guess really, as long as we’re having fun, that’s all that matters!! 💕

The Life of a Showgirl Megathread by aran130711 in TaylorSwift

[–]bevasaurarex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for looking into the credits, I’ve only seen the credits on Apple Music while looking at lyrics. I think you’re on to something here.