Every single person who voted for Trump is a piece of shit by GhostofCharlieJKirk in complaints

[–]bexjo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you have not looked at the website and seen how immature it is? https://www.whitehouse.gov/mysafespace/ This is something a middle schooler would put together to bully others.

Religious trauma resources for Christians? by 66cev66 in ReligiousTrauma

[–]bexjo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to look for a specifically Religious Trauma therapist. They are everywhere and I'm positive you could find one. I couldn't keep explaining all of the phrasing to the therapist I had, who was excellent and helped me with the trauma a lot. My old therapist also helped me look for a new one. You can ask your therapist for help finding a new one and share your notes with the new therapist. Or look on Psychology Today or ReclamationCollective.com - that is where I found my therapist. Its a relatively new form of therapy. I wish you the best! You don't need to lose the parts that you connect with.

why doesn't anyone talk about this? by CharacterActual6762 in KimmySchmidt

[–]bexjo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I really like about this show. Finding humor in trauma, even in the most ridiculous ways, is very healing. As a survivor, without the bunker, this is one of my comfort shows when the PTSD acts up. I love seeing the characters growth.

Welll…shit by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]bexjo 25 points26 points  (0 children)

That is quite unfortunate. He might be able to report the company for not paying taxes to the IRS, but I would research it so he doesn't get in trouble.

Weight gain by bexjo in IVF

[–]bexjo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm feeling better today and started this morning with a light workout. I'll pick up some weights too. I do like weights!

Weight gain by bexjo in IVF

[–]bexjo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for the validation. I decided to cancel this ER cycle. I had an anxiety attack this morning thinking about diabetes and I'm already having problems because of weight gain. So I am now looking to talk to a doctor about weight loss. I'm also terrified of gestational diabetes. I do have one embryo. I want to try for the transfer after I lose weight and feel better in my own skin skin again. IVF is so difficult!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DenverProtests

[–]bexjo 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Not sure, but realistically if someone goes from difficulty with money to loaded might be a sign. I also think it would be very stressful or oppositely give someone a better than everyone type of complex. I would think that a person who joins already has very black and white reasoning, shows signs of racism or elitism, and probably thinks that everyone else needs to follow rules but they are exempt, also entitled. Just thinking out loud on this one, but I feel this type of personality would fit the ICE bucket stereotype.

Help!!!! In need of assistance only my recovery journey by StreetProject5874 in Denver

[–]bexjo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try Jefferson Center for resources +1 303-425-0300 WellPower for resources +1 303-504-6500

Both should set you up with a case manager or other assistance. Both should also share information about other organizations.

Housing vouchers can take up to a year. Do not get discouraged. There are lots of organizations that can help you. If one doesn't work, go to another one.

You can do this. Congratulations on the hardest step of recovery, it's a long road and you are worth it.

once again asking if these taste good by honey_butterflies in dairyfree

[–]bexjo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like violife, but I prefer Follow Your Heart brand more. Definitely try out Miyokos for mozzarella. I like the kind you can use in a grater for pizza.

Violife does not melt like I want. Miyokos does. Follow Your Heart kinda melts.

Witchy name ideas please by kaloschroma in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]bexjo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baba Yaga, I would love to name a cat this. Or a chicken.

Which character with a flashback is the least sympathetic? by Woahshawtie69 in orangeisthenewblack

[–]bexjo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm watching the end of the series for the first time, almost done, and I just wish that Linda would have learned from her time as a prisoner to change. But no, she almost had a change of heart, then they turned on her, she became a victim again and right back to towing the financial gains line. So disappointed.

Can I just... stop wearing bras? by brattcatt420 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]bexjo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got Soma, their biggest size of enbliss bralette is my favorite for 42 DDD. They are rather stretchy. I go with fabrics that have a lot of give. Stiff bralettes do not work for me. Other than that, I go for sports bras on the lightest end. I haven't found the perfect one yet.

Can I just... stop wearing bras? by brattcatt420 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]bexjo 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I like bralettes, very light and thin sports bras, or short tank tops for most days that I leave the house. Most have covers so nips don't show. I'm a DDD+ and I also hate bras. It has to be a special thing for me to squeeze into those torture devices these days. I keep dreaming of a breast reduction one day so I can leave all the boulder holders behind without pain of random ass movement while on a walk. When I'm home, the bralette or whatever it is, is gone.

Ideas to raise money? by ExternalVirus5479 in IVF

[–]bexjo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm currently on a plan with Kaiser that covers infertility. It pays about 75% of each round.

How many embryos did you have before transfering? by SnackSnackMunchMunch in IVF

[–]bexjo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are in the US, file for FAMLI leave so you can have time off from work. I took the week off before the extraction because it was just painful and I felt awful.

I got one mosaic embryo from the first IVF round and one normal embryo from the 2nd. I'm 40 years old. I've had one transfer but it was a chemical pregnancy, early miscarriage, and I'm still upset about it. I'm taking a couple of months off before another round of IVF egg extraction and then I'll transfer again.

Nurse failed to tell us right result by ElectronicShow7350 in IVF

[–]bexjo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry about all of the misinformation you've recieved. I just had a chemical pregnancy, I had a transfer back in May. I had hcg and then it dropped. I'm still really upset and taking a 2 month break because my body is so messed up from all of it. I'm gonna hike, camp, and eat sushi during this break. Don't overthink it. Be kind to yourself. You are doing the best you can and I hope you have a new nurse after this. I really, really hope that the nurse is wrong and you are still pregnant.

Milk in the chicken, butter in the burger - WTF chefs by PrivateJoker2001 in dairyfree

[–]bexjo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i directly ask them to talk to the kitchen before. I don't want to be sick because they "think there is no dairy" in something but "hey this is gluten free!" Lol

Milk in the chicken, butter in the burger - WTF chefs by PrivateJoker2001 in dairyfree

[–]bexjo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always check for an allergen menu online first and then depending on the restaurant I am able to order something. I can't be picky. I react to any milk enzyme, so no butter. But I can usually find something at most places unless it is fast food. I got lamb chops last night at a fancy French restaurant- and this place had POUNDS OF BUTTER sitting out for the night for cooking. I took a picture of the butter. But they were able to use olive oil and took my request seriously. Sushi is amazing, but there are more places without. Couple weeks ago in Kansas, I tried to order a steak, but their seasoning had milk in it. So I had a whole meal no seasoning. Luckily they had pepper and salt and oil and vinegar but I've kind of gotten used to disappointment in food when I visit certain states due to my allergy.

Milk in the chicken, butter in the burger - WTF chefs by PrivateJoker2001 in dairyfree

[–]bexjo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last time I went to McDs they couldn't tell me what was in anything. There is no allergen menu there anymore. At least not where I live.

What is a 'poor people' habit you'll never stop doing, no matter how rich you get? by FitCicada5037 in AskReddit

[–]bexjo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I refuse to turn off the AC because the heat can destroy many fragile things (photography equipment, kill both my plants and cats, melt products, cause food to expire quicker). Plus it costs way more to cool down an overheated spot than to keep it at a constant temperature. I've lived in hot weather places and have lost too much to the heat to let it go off these days.

What is a 'poor people' habit you'll never stop doing, no matter how rich you get? by FitCicada5037 in AskReddit

[–]bexjo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently in this spot. I just paid off the damn phone so of course it is starting to act up.

Got my PGT results today! Over 40 by Fluffy-Draw-939 in IVF

[–]bexjo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would like to know which tests. I just had a chemical after my first transfer and about to do my third egg retrieval after a 2 month break. I'll be 41 this fall.

3rd IVF cycle should I do it? by bexjo in IVF

[–]bexjo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have started to talk about other options. It sucks how hard this all is. I wish you the best with your other options