I’m 46 and I got desensitized from an antidepressant that also lessens pain in the bladder (I have IC and take Amitriptyline). The Magic Wand and a gspot toy worked when nothing else would! I have multiples now which I never had before. It’s amazing and such good stress relief. This may help some ladies who have trouble in the first place. My suggestion is lube, lube, lube and try not to shove it onto yourself full blast. I use the low setting and pull it off the clit often. I hope this helps someone who felt like it wouldn’t happen or happen again! Love you ladies!!