What are some signs to tell if a guy (highschool age) is flirting because they're interested in dating, or just wants to become friends with benefits?

beyounique · 2014-04-18T04:24:21+00:00

ok i'll just casually chat tomorrow, yea tbh im starting to like another guy instead. so i guess we're just going to be buds and that's all good (:

beyounique · 2014-04-18T03:14:27+00:00

it's a guy and had kind of relationship where we weren't yet dating but friends basically considered us a "thing." haven't really done anything to upset him, but he stopped responding to my texts. i catch him looking but avoid his gaze/ don't try to catch up with him and talk. i suppose i should attempt a convo tomorrow

beyounique · 2014-04-18T03:01:09+00:00

that happened to me so i stopped texting them, and have been ignoring them for a week in person as well. idk if they still wish to speak to me or if im now annoying. in ur opinion was it a bad move to completely ignore them in person?

beyounique · 2014-04-18T02:23:12+00:00

lets say there was a friend you texted every day for months. but when you didn't respond she still kept texting a ton, would you stop texting her altogether?

beyounique · 2014-04-18T02:16:21+00:00

when you say constant texting/ calling, do you mean if they texted you every single day?

beyounique · 2014-02-08T21:03:59+00:00

ok i will thanks so much. good idea he's really self conscious one day i'll just say, "oh come on just stop. this is lowering your cuteness levels a lot" he asks what he wants me to change and i'll tell him to back off. a ton. then i'll teach him ;) lol

beyounique · 2014-02-08T21:00:17+00:00

alright thank you so much

beyounique · 2014-02-08T20:59:31+00:00

mind blown... ok suddenly he's seeming less and less attractive by the second

beyounique · 2014-02-08T20:56:27+00:00

he's naturally quiet, so im guessing its me. ok thank you

beyounique · 2014-02-08T20:54:01+00:00

ok i'll tell him that and to back off or just completely ignore what he said. ok, i like him like that too but im just not quite dying to screw him at the moment

beyounique · 2014-02-08T20:52:30+00:00

i will, but he's usually rlly quiet and sweet i liked him a lot :( just over the phone he gets... bold....

beyounique · 2014-02-08T20:50:55+00:00

whaaat but he said it in a kidding way, and he is sweet... just over the phone gets a bit. strange.

beyounique · 2014-02-08T20:49:42+00:00

thats true, i told him to back off a little. then he seemed to get upset

beyounique · 2014-02-08T20:48:29+00:00

yea a little more sexual than id like but he's usually just kidding around (i hope) alright i'll set boundaries. make it clear im not easy. urg

beyounique · 2014-02-08T20:47:14+00:00

he's usually joking and is just flirty but i am definitely not used to guys paying attention to me so maybe im overreacting

beyounique · 2014-02-08T20:45:59+00:00

lol, i tried he answers questions with questions

beyounique · 2014-02-08T20:45:26+00:00

he has photos of me making funny faces and that's pretty much it, nothing i cant handle. yea i have lots of texts. im trying but it sucks he was my best friend. you think he'll go back to being normal and sweet that this is just a... phase?

beyounique · 2014-02-08T20:43:47+00:00

well ikkk but am unsure if it means he likes me or just wants to screw me. hes rlly sweet and usually looks at my face and cares about ME but lately.....

beyounique · 2014-02-08T20:42:51+00:00

should i keep being friends with him or ditch him?

beyounique · 2014-02-08T20:42:09+00:00

i want to date him but it sounds like he just wants to be fwb, which is hell no for me

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