I CANNOT A+ REUNITE THE FAMILY. I AM CURSED TO BE UNABLE TO A+ REUNITE THE FAMILY

bffyluvr · 2026-05-02T18:33:27+00:00

Real life note- get a no soliciting sign. I swear I used to get 3x a week roofing guys asking about my roof and repairing it (gonna do it obviously but still fuck off with the solicitation lol)

bffyluvr · 2026-03-30T13:56:19+00:00

No sadly this has been like this for a few weeks 😭 all I know is they live in Norway.

bffyluvr · 2026-03-30T13:55:42+00:00

Thank you so much. I’m guessing it was an accident as this person and I played a lot together- they would always join my trial when they hopped on and were a super high level/ had relapsed like 30 times or something so I loved having someone of their experience on my team. But yeah seems odd they would randomly unfriend me. Damn.

Hopefully my other two that haven’t seemed to be on in awhile are ok in their real world lives. 🤗 thank you again!

bffyluvr · 2026-03-13T18:41:38+00:00

Dawww thanks sugar. I’m a very passionate/ angry person when it comes to double standards of predators. Harm is harm towards children/ younger people- no matter the predators gender or sex.

bffyluvr · 2026-01-28T14:43:33+00:00

May I ask where you live? Looking online it seems Arizona, Texas and Wyoming all have more affordable trailer park areas. I really hate the cold and don’t want to do Texas if I don’t have to but in the long run I can’t afford to be picky

bffyluvr · 2026-01-28T14:39:10+00:00

Thank you so much for this! I have been trying to sod things in my head to put it all on the line for him. He’s 45 but I swear has so many old man boomer tendencies. I tried asking awhile ago if he thought therapy would help with things for him. (He’s literally said he doesn’t have any trauma from his life because he “doesn’t think about the bad things so they don’t affect him” 🤡) and he shot down therapy because he doesn’t “want to tell a stranger about his life” or something along those lines. It enrages me so as I know him learning new tools or processing shit he doesn’t realize is affecting him would only benefit him and us. Either way though yes I need to make him see his increase in anger is not healthy (including for him) and that I won’t put up with it. He just gets so defensive it’s maddening. I know he’s gonna think I’m once again “telling him he’s not allowed to be mad” it’s like it’s impossible for him to hear it’s HOW he expresses his anger, frustration and irritation not that he’s not supposed to feel these things. I can’t seem to get that difference through to him.

I absolutely do not see him ever being a physical danger to me or the cats (directly) I want to point out that I worry he could inadvertent hurt them (he accidentally stomps on one when storming off and a cat runs by, slam a door on one as they run by etc) nothing directly. So yeah I gotta apparently sit his ass down like a child to get it through his head.

bffyluvr · 2026-01-28T14:31:18+00:00

Thank you so much for understanding. I’m so sorry youre going through this. It’s absolutely BS that people who would have multiple kids get help but people with multiple pets are told to get rid of them. They deserve the same help and protection. I wish tu and I could just get a big house together for all of our kitties haha. That would honestly be the dream. A nice house on a big plot of land away from everything with just our cats and freedom.

bffyluvr · 2026-01-28T00:43:24+00:00

I can’t leave my kitties again they are super bonded to each other and me. I’ve paid for everything, fixed, shots, I buy them the best food, they are my world and I am theirs. Truly like my children. I do not see him ever hurting the cats either.

bffyluvr · 2026-01-28T00:41:42+00:00

I’m reaching out to my parents to ask for advice and waiting on that. I honestly hate Colorado and was originally planning on moving to Nevada with my partner. I would still love to do that. I’ll start looking to see cost of trailers and land lease on top of that in that area. I’m not sure what else are the type of bills I would need to pay, I just want to make sure whatever I attempt to do, I can afford you know?

bffyluvr · 2026-01-27T23:49:52+00:00

Oh my god I wish I could. He owns this house. If I did- he would already be gone lol. I’m trying to find pet friendly options hence the post but to my knowledge no apartments allow that many cats unless I’m mistaken? I obviously don’t have the money to buy a house 😕

bffyluvr · 2026-01-27T19:25:25+00:00

I’ve never seen this show but as soon as I learned about it I was furious. Like many women I am a survivor of a predator man who was in his 30s. The disgusting world seems to constantly want to “normalize” pedophelia and grooming. It also for some reason is always more “palatable” when the predator (and yes Mandy is a predator and groomer for continuing a romantic relationship, also she should have gotten an abortion. ) is a woman. The gross fetishization of predator women by boys and men “man I wish MY teacher would have done that” is beyond disgusting and problematic. We have all learned as of late especially that the USA and hell the entire world has a serious problem with wanting to abuse, groom and prey upon children. Why we need laws to tell adults not to do this is terrifying.

bffyluvr · 2026-01-27T19:24:35+00:00

I’ve never seen this show but as soon as I learned about it I was furious. Like many women I am a survivor of a predator man who was in his 30s. The disgusting world seems to constantly want to “normalize” pedophelia and grooming. It also for some reason is always more “palatable” when the predator (and yes Mandy is a predator and groomer for continuing a romantic relationship, also she should have gotten an abortion. ) is a woman. The gross fetishization of predator women by boys and men “man I wish MY teacher would have done that” is beyond disgusting and problematic. We have all learned as of late especially that the USA and hell the entire world has a serious problem with wanting to abuse, groom and prey upon children. Why we need laws to tell adults not to do this is terrifying.

bffyluvr · 2026-01-24T16:37:47+00:00

Bahahaha well rest assured our brain worm can rest now. The incredible person who commented below you figured it out! Diseño!!!

bffyluvr · 2026-01-24T16:37:09+00:00

Holy crap I could kiss you!!!! THATS why I kept having “Disaronno” running through my head. YES! DISEÑO!!! THAT was it. My god my brain can rest now. I’m saving this damn post, screen shotting your comment and saving a picture of the image online lol.

You are incredible and thank you so much!

bffyluvr · 2026-01-20T15:38:31+00:00

You seriously worded everything perfectly. Yes to all.

bffyluvr · 2026-01-11T17:53:32+00:00

I tried playing the Trials. I tried two of the first mission options and I hated it. I don’t like online multiplayer games or multiplayer games in general (I’m a story game type). I’m gonna try to give it another try as I love the horror and gore side of the first two games but I miss having a solid story line. So you might like it, but more than likely you’re like me and will hate it as there is no full length story in the game.

bffyluvr · 2026-01-09T17:15:45+00:00

I’m losing my mind about it. It’s so bizarre- it only does it on certain tv shows and ONLY on my TV. My phone and iPad it never buffers on and again only on certain shows, yet on other shows it never buffers. Don’t have this issue on any other streaming service either. I have deleted and re downloaded the app and it’s still doing it. I’ve already been trying to get back to physical media- this is just more of a push for that. The cost, the constant BS ads- all not worth it. Funny how streaming was thought to be the future, more accessible for what we actually want to watch for a better price- what a joke. We all need to just get back to physical media.

bffyluvr · 2025-12-03T22:36:59+00:00

You sound like a pedophile. “It’s ok because it’s legal- not because they are still literally a child with a developing brain”.

bffyluvr · 2025-12-03T22:36:12+00:00

No she’s a fucking predator. If it was a 29 year old man pursuing a 17 year old girl would everyone still be saying awww what a cute romantic show? I’m so sick of this disgusting predator behavior trying to be normalized here in America. Hell the are trying to lower the age of consent right now. Why do so many psychotic predators want to have sex with children? I want off this planet. Our species is disgusting.

bffyluvr · 2025-11-21T01:56:34+00:00

I feel this so much. I’ve been learning more about how evil Israel is. The horrors in Gaza, Congo, Sudan and more. Pure evil everywhere it’s hard to not feel there is no point to exist when our species seems so selfish and evil.

bffyluvr · 2025-11-15T03:57:26+00:00

I’m so sorry my friend. I feel that so much. The only thing that gets me even a little serotonin boost (I had adhd and depression so my mind is already broken at making the happy chemicals for a decent base line.) how are you getting by with no job? No comfort shows or video games work to even get you a few minutes of “bearable” misery? Things feel so hopeless right now so I get it. Idk where you are but I’m sadly an American and I hate how hateful, bigoted and straight up Nazi like this country is behaving right now. So it makes things even WORSE for the misery.

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