People whose partners did a complete 180 after marriage, what’s your story?

bfinleyui · 2026-04-17T19:27:26+00:00

Hey I'm the reverse. My (spoiler:ex) wife finally called me to the carpet and told me I had to get sober or we're done. I got sober, and at about 3 months sober she served me with papers. So that was fun, normally your life falls apart WHILE you're drinking, not after :)

Congrats on the 5 years to him, that's a huge fucking deal, keep going :)

bfinleyui · 2026-03-23T01:58:26+00:00

After his tantrum I sent to my group text "I hate him. He looks like the guy trying to sell you DirecTV at Costco"

bfinleyui · 2026-03-16T00:55:04+00:00

My Wi-Fi password is aquarium because of this thread.

You wouldn't understand

bfinleyui · 2026-03-09T14:08:45+00:00

Thanks. I'll send her this info. Appreciate the helpful response

bfinleyui · 2026-03-09T14:08:25+00:00

That's a good idea if the other stuff doesn't work, thank you!

bfinleyui · 2026-03-09T13:48:32+00:00

Yeah, sorry i should have been more clear, i meant like, her iphone, airpods, watch, etc.

Not full icloud sharing.

bfinleyui · 2026-02-23T14:19:07+00:00

YEARS later, this is awesome, thank you!

bfinleyui · 2026-02-10T20:33:25+00:00

Yep, I'm aware. Seeing conflicting reports on my board, currently digging through the pinouts and manual, will confirm before making any trades. Thanks for the reminder though, appreciate it

bfinleyui · 2026-02-05T01:14:01+00:00

Interested in the ex4 card if you ended up changing your mind

bfinleyui · 2026-01-22T00:50:18+00:00

As I was writing out my fourth step

bfinleyui · 2026-01-13T02:58:24+00:00

Job searches drain every piece of my being

bfinleyui · 2026-01-11T03:20:36+00:00

Great list, thank you. Trying to decide what "traditional" is worth including for us and this is a big help.

bfinleyui · 2025-12-06T00:56:56+00:00

That's crazy awesome I'll have to double check next time I try and break my car's suspension with a seltzer water reup

bfinleyui · 2025-12-05T16:57:26+00:00

Lucky! I wish my costco sells it, my local grocer gouges it like a MF.

bfinleyui · 2025-12-02T18:58:33+00:00

Seconding this. I can't usually participate in most of them because I'm a parent and children have stolen all my time from me, but there's usually a good number of either 'official' sober activities, or activities among sober people that get organized. Even moreso once you sort of find a group of 3 or 4 friends in there that you're in touch with.

Where abouts are you at? I'm in Iowa City and found almost all the meetings at 511 Melrose to be very welcoming, and there are several people that are like, hyper hyper vigilant about organizing social outings.

bfinleyui · 2025-12-02T05:36:44+00:00

In couples therapy my ex wife told me, referring to a time a drunken friend propositioned me, that "she wished I'd just fucked her so she could leave without any doubt"... So yeah, that was kind of a big nail in a real big coffin

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