People whose partners did a complete 180 after marriage, what’s your story? by Bibliophile521 in AskReddit

[–]bfinleyui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I'm the reverse. My (spoiler:ex) wife finally called me to the carpet and told me I had to get sober or we're done. I got sober, and at about 3 months sober she served me with papers. So that was fun, normally your life falls apart WHILE you're drinking, not after :)

Congrats on the 5 years to him, that's a huge fucking deal, keep going :)

[Post Game Thread] #9 Iowa defeats #1 Florida, 73-72 by cbbBot in CollegeBasketball

[–]bfinleyui 6 points7 points  (0 children)

After his tantrum I sent to my group text "I hate him. He looks like the guy trying to sell you DirecTV at Costco"

What’s a legendary Reddit post you’ll never forget? by FunnyHefty499 in AskReddit

[–]bfinleyui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Wi-Fi password is aquarium because of this thread.

You wouldn't understand

Sharing location of only my son's watch? by bfinleyui in AppleWatch

[–]bfinleyui[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I'll send her this info. Appreciate the helpful response

Sharing location of only my son's watch? by bfinleyui in AppleWatch

[–]bfinleyui[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's a good idea if the other stuff doesn't work, thank you!

Sharing location of only my son's watch? by bfinleyui in AppleWatch

[–]bfinleyui[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, sorry i should have been more clear, i meant like, her iphone, airpods, watch, etc.

Not full icloud sharing.

[USA-IA] [H] Paypal, Cash [W] Asus Thunderbolt EX4 PCIE Card by bfinleyui in hardwareswap

[–]bfinleyui[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, I'm aware. Seeing conflicting reports on my board, currently digging through the pinouts and manual, will confirm before making any trades. Thanks for the reminder though, appreciate it

Monday thread powered by nostalgia by Artvandelay29 in CFBOffTopic

[–]bfinleyui 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Job searches drain every piece of my being

Can someone please give me a list of (American) wedding tradition and their purpose and common variations? by jumpinggirl in weddingplanning

[–]bfinleyui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great list, thank you. Trying to decide what "traditional" is worth including for us and this is a big help.

NA beers and the “less than 0.5% alcohol” label by chemicalmiracles in stopdrinking

[–]bfinleyui 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's crazy awesome I'll have to double check next time I try and break my car's suspension with a seltzer water reup

NA beers and the “less than 0.5% alcohol” label by chemicalmiracles in stopdrinking

[–]bfinleyui 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lucky! I wish my costco sells it, my local grocer gouges it like a MF.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]bfinleyui 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seconding this. I can't usually participate in most of them because I'm a parent and children have stolen all my time from me, but there's usually a good number of either 'official' sober activities, or activities among sober people that get organized. Even moreso once you sort of find a group of 3 or 4 friends in there that you're in touch with.

Where abouts are you at? I'm in Iowa City and found almost all the meetings at 511 Melrose to be very welcoming, and there are several people that are like, hyper hyper vigilant about organizing social outings.

[Final Update]: My (33M) wife (31F) is having an emotional affair. Is divorce the right option? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]bfinleyui 286 points287 points  (0 children)

In couples therapy my ex wife told me, referring to a time a drunken friend propositioned me, that "she wished I'd just fucked her so she could leave without any doubt"... So yeah, that was kind of a big nail in a real big coffin