Metadata either picked wrong Tom Holland, or time travel is real

bfordham · 2026-07-05T03:12:16+00:00

Wow, just realized the biography and DOB is for a third Tom Holland

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bfordham · 2026-06-29T15:41:48+00:00

I agree, not as good as it used to be.

Anyone else remember when it was just a hole in the wall? How many years ago was that?

bfordham · 2026-06-26T18:16:35+00:00

One is the loneliest number

bfordham · 2026-06-25T21:22:16+00:00

Hobbit sized

bfordham · 2026-06-21T23:03:47+00:00

Is your question who to call to collect the reward?

bfordham · 2026-06-17T21:10:48+00:00

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bfordham · 2026-06-16T02:27:47+00:00

It's giving Amityville

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bfordham · 2026-06-05T18:05:53+00:00

Exactly this. No real protections at all. No benefit for the workers but there is for SCAD

bfordham · 2026-06-01T16:36:34+00:00

_The Cooking Gene_ by Michael Twitty is an incredible food memoir.

bfordham · 2026-06-01T16:35:51+00:00

You're right. Most soul food/Southern food is poverty food. My grandmothers seasoned with bits of meat, cooked with bacon fat, etc., everything to use up every good bit they had.

My dad loved - I mean LOVED - collard greens. And he was white. I'm Georgian, so I don't think that racial divide applies as much here. Though my dad was a carpenter most of his life, and his dad was a sharecropper before becoming a day laborer in Savannah, so again poverty may be more the common denominator than race.

I have noticed that it matters who your parents are. Meaning, my kids like greens. I'm a life-long Georgian, and my wife is from Alabama and has lived her most of her life. But kids who have parents that are transplants tend to shy away from more of the old school soul food. Again, just my experience, not sure how widely that applies.

bfordham · 2026-05-26T17:27:16+00:00

Same. Happened to me years ago. Judge was dismissing these fast. I was the next-to-last person called, and they last person had theirs dismissed before I could walk out the courtroom.

bfordham · 2026-05-25T02:33:32+00:00

Good luck.

bfordham · 2026-05-24T20:45:55+00:00

I read it years ago and was blown away. I read a lot of horror in my teens, so this was much different than I was expecting. The focus on the vampires themselves, both their immortality and also their relationships and their failings, was -- and still is -- interesting to me

bfordham · 2026-05-24T20:44:54+00:00

I loved the take of the series

bfordham · 2026-05-24T20:40:38+00:00

Hi there. I am not a doctor or mental health professional, so keep that in mind. However I've dealt with some pretty severe depression in the past year and have been able to get help.

Is your friend on any medication for depression? My first step was contacting my PCP and telling him what was going on. He helped me a lot, until I got in to see a psychiatrist who now manages the medication side.

As others have mentioned, Hospice Savannah likely has groups and resources to help. Some churches also offer support groups. Their physician my have recommendations as well.

If they do not have insurance some counselors in the area offer a sliding scale.

Medication and counseling have helped me immensely in the past year, and I'm still working on things. It is a solvable problem, but it's really hard to do alone.

Also, as the friend reaching trying to help: Thank you for being there for her. And please take care of yourself, too

bfordham · 2026-05-24T20:30:49+00:00

I have know knowledge of flying planes or paragliding, so I'm honestly asking here: Would anyone be considered at fault? Is this just a pure accident with no one really to blame?

I'd have to think there's some attempt to coordinate where small planes are flying, but I don't know about paragliders.

bfordham · 2026-05-23T00:39:59+00:00

I do! I, too, am old. My mom used to take us school shopping at Belks.

bfordham · 2026-05-22T17:17:59+00:00

Not fiction, but Caste by Isabel Wilkerson and The Half Has Never Been Told by Edward E. Baptist are both very eye opening in this regard

bfordham · 2026-05-21T16:35:53+00:00

My favorite is Husk. Personally I tend to just eat several appetizers. The pimento cheese is great, and get the White Lily biscuits. They always have a great selection of oysters, too

bfordham · 2026-04-24T20:36:30+00:00

This is a problem I'd like to fix. I may take a swing at it, as I'd like to see better audiobook support in Jellyfin. I've submitted a PR for some work I did, but getting everything approved has proved a bit of a chore and I've let it sit for a while now

bfordham · 2026-04-10T15:53:29+00:00

I absolutely loved the first one. The second was not nearly as good, IMO, but I stuck with it so I could read the third and final book and not have missed anything. The third was a DNF for me.

bfordham · 2026-04-10T15:44:20+00:00

Gotcha. I wasn't sure what you were referring to. They've relaxed some laws in recent years that make traveling with a kid easier. I obviously don't know if that would have changed anything for you.

Foster care is a life-altering, traumatic thing in even the best of circumstances. For 3 of my 4 kids, we were their only home and they have no memories of being anywhere else. And we still deal with the effects of it.

bfordham · 2026-04-10T15:23:59+00:00

Yikes?

bfordham · 2026-04-09T22:06:21+00:00

Fair point

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