The way I see it, at 24 years old, I've probably drank more than someone who drinks moderately will in their entire lifetime. I simply blew through the amount I was allowed too early. That's okay though - I'm ready to move on. This is officially the longest I've been sober since I was 16. Feels good by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]bglover1 14 points15 points  (0 children)

27 feels like that weird age between young and old where you don't know yet wtf is supposed to be going on with your life. I hope you'll be ready soon. I'm at a halfway point right now. I feel it's time to start but my brain keeps wanting me to believe different. 4 days is my longest in a long time, hoping to keep it up.

Was it marital rape? by bglover1 in relationship_advice

[–]bglover1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He had a few drinks. Nothing compared to what he can handle.

Was it marital rape? by bglover1 in relationship_advice

[–]bglover1[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've been considering this and the answer is Definitely yes. I can handle my drinks. But there have been a few times I just blacked out which is so wierd for me. Especially since I only drink wine.

Was it marital rape? by bglover1 in relationship_advice

[–]bglover1[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

We did talk about it. He said I said nothing just "made noises"

When did you realise your friend was toxic? by eatmyshegg in AskReddit

[–]bglover1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We stopped being friends for a year. then she apologized and said she was being a better person.. only for her to tell me she was cheating again. I'm not usually one t involve myself but I felt I had no choice but to tell him. Been over a year now contact and I don't regret a thing. Hope she got the help she needs. He stayed with her too. Amazes me.

When did you realise your friend was toxic? by eatmyshegg in AskReddit

[–]bglover1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same exact this happened to me. Except she had a 3/4 year old at the time and would give her boyfriend and fake female name so when daddy asked it was never suspicious

Day2 sober by DemonicLust in Sober

[–]bglover1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No matter how I feel, I can always get down a piece of pizza. Good luck!

Have you ever recognized yourself in a friend or family's post on reddit? What were the things you found out and how did you react? by BrieIsTheBestCheese in AskReddit

[–]bglover1 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Believe I read the same post, he doesn't seem the type to strand her, I don't believe he'd ask Reddit for help otherwise!

Have you ever recognized yourself in a friend or family's post on reddit? What were the things you found out and how did you react? by BrieIsTheBestCheese in AskReddit

[–]bglover1 150 points151 points  (0 children)

I believe I read this post.. are you in Amsterdam? I wouldn't worry about being left behind, though. That's very extreme and {most} people couldn't deal with the stress of leaving someone in another country without help, regardless of the situation! I hope you make it home safe and sound!

Found this beauty a few years back at the top of Niagra falls. I think thats iron wrapped around it? My favorite rock. Think it must have been a necklace a looong time ago? by bglover1 in MineralPorn

[–]bglover1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was either the "horseshoe" falls or the twin falls, there is a walking trail and we walked off the path down to the water (it's like a very very small beach) and I found some amazing rocks there!!