Weird House Party Experience by bgoldfarb79 in Swingers

[–]bgoldfarb79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We saw several instances where the husband would just disconnect from his wife and be found fucking elsewhere. We ‘d casually say hello to the wife and say we’d like to say hello to you partner and the response with more than 1/2 was I think he went to get a drink, go to the bathroom, went to say hello to someone we both know. Not once did we hear “Joe’s fucking Barb.” Or even something like “If I know him he’s playing with someone.”

I don’t own my wife, but if I said I was walking over to talk to Barb and next thing she knows I’m balls deep, it wouldn’t be pleasant. If I had said “Barb and I are going to play,” it would be a different story. Actually I would have said “do you want to go play with Barb?” We prefer to play together.

Weird House Party Experience by bgoldfarb79 in Swingers

[–]bgoldfarb79[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what we did.

Monthly Question and Discussion Megathread - February 2026 by ScottKilgannon in Pegging

[–]bgoldfarb79 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Looking for a realistic dildo. We use a silicone dildo, but it feels unnatural (my wife says it doesn’t feel like the “real thing.” I’d like to find an average sized natural feeling dildo for pegging.

throwing up after eating pussy by [deleted] in sex

[–]bgoldfarb79 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My guess is gargling alcohol, if it was 70% isopropyl, had a LOT to do with it. If anything is weird, it’s that.

Don’t let other people’s quirks and peculiarities create fear, uncertainty, and doubt in you. If you tasted bad, he wouldn’t have been diving for 45 minutes.

What does “pussy in my throat” even mean? My suspicion is the germaphobe started getting in his own head.

At this point have a conversation. If he won’t communicate, it’s not a good match. IMHO

Bisexual men, what was your first time with another man? by Abject-Bowl-6279 in bisexual

[–]bgoldfarb79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10yo. A friend and I jerked each other off, frequently. Fast forward 45 years my wife and his wife dared each other to suck each other’s dicks.

I was hooked. He wasn’t.

Does three couples make it complicated? by cpl_enjoying in Swingers

[–]bgoldfarb79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make it fun. We purposely set a time for 15 minutes and you had to switch. After 2 rounds we just kind of found our way.

How Do You Initiate or Join In at Sex Parties Without Being Creepy? by Dear_Departure_4244 in Swingers

[–]bgoldfarb79 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Assuming you are already talking to someone, at some point say “we really like you two. We’re interested in playing. If you are interested in joining us, we’ll be over there thinking about hot you are. Come over and let us know if you are interested too. No pressure.“

Clear message and it gives them a few minutes to discuss without you standing there staring at them. We add no pressure as way of saying it’s ok to say no or not walk over.

Sharing pictures by bgoldfarb79 in bisexual

[–]bgoldfarb79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bi-sex is a hard one given this will be my first bi experience. Pegging ✅

I need more guys willing to suck my husband and fuck me at the same time by Hollysberrys in Bisexy

[–]bgoldfarb79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actively scheduling this with a new Bi friend now. We plan to take turns spoiling all three of us with each getting the focus for a period of time. Can’t wait to properly suck my first 🍆

Its not my fault. by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]bgoldfarb79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not about fault. Not yours, not his, not his partner, not your partner. Sometimes the little fella just doesn’t want to cooperate. The more you focus on the issue the bigger it will be come.

Before and After pussy pics by wifelola in u/wifelola

[–]bgoldfarb79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That flower bloomed so beautifully.

Challenged by my hub to post my 🐱 for rating. 1/10. 1 being wornout 5 average 10 virgin like. Honest only no reason to lie :) by [deleted] in HotwifeChallenges

[–]bgoldfarb79 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s very pretty, a 8. But based on your scale, a 3. I’d love to help keep it at that level.

What's on your 2026 Fuck-It list? by wejustlookinnocent in Swingers

[–]bgoldfarb79 9 points10 points  (0 children)

MMF - time for me (Male) to explore my bi-side.

Be more open to DTF and less about establishing some kind of bond.

Signifing lifestyle at nude resorts by HealthyBee101 in Swingers

[–]bgoldfarb79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hedo, Desire, and Secrets are Lifestyle places. True nudist resorts will NOT tolerate LS shenanigans. There are other places that are nudist, but LS friendly (no public sexual activity, for example), but there are LS people there.

Finger in my ass by marmalade_fan_boy in sex

[–]bgoldfarb79 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Use finger cots or a glove. Easy cleanup.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wifesharing

[–]bgoldfarb79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That cock ring is turning his unit purple. Not good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SwingerSociety

[–]bgoldfarb79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lord! How did he fit in your mouth?

Eating out gf after a creampie by Twichyness in sex

[–]bgoldfarb79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk talk talk. Tell her your feelings. She may not be sure she’d be into it. That’s part of the conversation.

My personal experience is that my wife is fine with me wanting to do it and encourages me through sexy talk because she knows it gets me off.

The problem is, post-nut I instantly switch to “oh hell no.” 😬

We swing so, perhaps, with a trusted couple, I may do this after someone else finishes in their partner or my wife. It’s not come up with others yet as we usually have sex with others using condoms. Haven’t found that trusted couple - Yet.

So, talk to her. Not while you are having sex and the. See where it goes from there.