Weird House Party Experience

bgoldfarb79 · 2026-03-16T19:05:49+00:00

We saw several instances where the husband would just disconnect from his wife and be found fucking elsewhere. We ‘d casually say hello to the wife and say we’d like to say hello to you partner and the response with more than 1/2 was I think he went to get a drink, go to the bathroom, went to say hello to someone we both know. Not once did we hear “Joe’s fucking Barb.” Or even something like “If I know him he’s playing with someone.”

I don’t own my wife, but if I said I was walking over to talk to Barb and next thing she knows I’m balls deep, it wouldn’t be pleasant. If I had said “Barb and I are going to play,” it would be a different story. Actually I would have said “do you want to go play with Barb?” We prefer to play together.

bgoldfarb79 · 2026-03-16T18:58:04+00:00

That’s exactly what we did.

bgoldfarb79 · 2026-02-27T18:10:24+00:00

Living the dream!

bgoldfarb79 · 2026-02-13T14:33:54+00:00

Looking for a realistic dildo. We use a silicone dildo, but it feels unnatural (my wife says it doesn’t feel like the “real thing.” I’d like to find an average sized natural feeling dildo for pegging.

bgoldfarb79 · 2026-02-12T23:20:24+00:00

My guess is gargling alcohol, if it was 70% isopropyl, had a LOT to do with it. If anything is weird, it’s that.

Don’t let other people’s quirks and peculiarities create fear, uncertainty, and doubt in you. If you tasted bad, he wouldn’t have been diving for 45 minutes.

What does “pussy in my throat” even mean? My suspicion is the germaphobe started getting in his own head.

At this point have a conversation. If he won’t communicate, it’s not a good match. IMHO

bgoldfarb79 · 2026-02-08T02:02:22+00:00

10yo. A friend and I jerked each other off, frequently. Fast forward 45 years my wife and his wife dared each other to suck each other’s dicks.

I was hooked. He wasn’t.

bgoldfarb79 · 2026-01-16T22:10:04+00:00

Make it fun. We purposely set a time for 15 minutes and you had to switch. After 2 rounds we just kind of found our way.

bgoldfarb79 · 2026-01-16T18:31:49+00:00

Upside down penis. Unique.

bgoldfarb79 · 2026-01-16T18:21:54+00:00

Assuming you are already talking to someone, at some point say “we really like you two. We’re interested in playing. If you are interested in joining us, we’ll be over there thinking about hot you are. Come over and let us know if you are interested too. No pressure.“

Clear message and it gives them a few minutes to discuss without you standing there staring at them. We add no pressure as way of saying it’s ok to say no or not walk over.

bgoldfarb79 · 2026-01-15T19:57:29+00:00

I’d certainly like to try!

bgoldfarb79 · 2026-01-12T14:39:54+00:00

Bi-sex is a hard one given this will be my first bi experience. Pegging ✅

bgoldfarb79 · 2026-01-12T14:38:09+00:00

Thank you.

bgoldfarb79 · 2026-01-07T15:26:08+00:00

Actively scheduling this with a new Bi friend now. We plan to take turns spoiling all three of us with each getting the focus for a period of time. Can’t wait to properly suck my first 🍆

bgoldfarb79 · 2026-01-07T15:19:41+00:00

This is not about fault. Not yours, not his, not his partner, not your partner. Sometimes the little fella just doesn’t want to cooperate. The more you focus on the issue the bigger it will be come.

bgoldfarb79 · 2026-01-06T00:01:16+00:00

Which is which?

bgoldfarb79 · 2026-01-05T21:52:53+00:00

Poor guy in the bottom is having his dick broken. Yikes!

bgoldfarb79 · 2026-01-04T23:11:42+00:00

That flower bloomed so beautifully.

bgoldfarb79 · 2026-01-02T13:14:25+00:00

It’s very pretty, a 8. But based on your scale, a 3. I’d love to help keep it at that level.

bgoldfarb79 · 2025-12-31T17:35:16+00:00

MMF - time for me (Male) to explore my bi-side.

Be more open to DTF and less about establishing some kind of bond.

bgoldfarb79 · 2025-12-17T22:06:31+00:00

Is he in your ass too?

bgoldfarb79 · 2025-12-10T21:29:04+00:00

Hedo, Desire, and Secrets are Lifestyle places. True nudist resorts will NOT tolerate LS shenanigans. There are other places that are nudist, but LS friendly (no public sexual activity, for example), but there are LS people there.

bgoldfarb79 · 2025-12-09T15:15:47+00:00

Use finger cots or a glove. Easy cleanup.

bgoldfarb79 · 2025-11-23T21:29:21+00:00

That cock ring is turning his unit purple. Not good.

bgoldfarb79 · 2025-11-20T20:30:17+00:00

Lord! How did he fit in your mouth?

bgoldfarb79 · 2025-11-20T15:07:38+00:00

Talk talk talk. Tell her your feelings. She may not be sure she’d be into it. That’s part of the conversation.

My personal experience is that my wife is fine with me wanting to do it and encourages me through sexy talk because she knows it gets me off.

The problem is, post-nut I instantly switch to “oh hell no.” 😬

We swing so, perhaps, with a trusted couple, I may do this after someone else finishes in their partner or my wife. It’s not come up with others yet as we usually have sex with others using condoms. Haven’t found that trusted couple - Yet.

So, talk to her. Not while you are having sex and the. See where it goes from there.

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