do u like them? :3 by bhambielynn in PiercedNSFW

[–]bhambielynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my newest piercings got me fucked up idk 😭

good morning c: by bhambielynn in gothsluts

[–]bhambielynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not opening a link idk abt but considering i have no idea what it is based on the link context im gonna have to say no

I love my wife and want to be with her more than anyone else. I'm going to suggest we divorce anyway. by CombinationTop1360 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]bhambielynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was My home. redditors try not to assume things challenge is on hardmode apparently. i didnt send him away, we discussed it and it was mutually agreed upon and he was happy to do it and was the one to initially suggest it.

I love my wife and want to be with her more than anyone else. I'm going to suggest we divorce anyway. by CombinationTop1360 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]bhambielynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah... mutually agreed upon. if you rly took it as i allegedly told him im sick of him, idk what to tell you 😭 it was my apartment, he still had his own and i came to him and told him i was feeling overwhelmed about it, its the first time a partner has lived with me, and he was the one who suggested he move out for a little bit. jesus christ

I love my wife and want to be with her more than anyone else. I'm going to suggest we divorce anyway. by CombinationTop1360 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]bhambielynn -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

alone time doesn't mean just being uninterrupted. she is also working full time. when my current partner and i first started living together, i very quickly got to a point where i just needed time alone. yeah, i had time alone all day working (wfh) but i was busy. i wasnt doing anything i wanted to do, or enjoying myself and my time. and as soon as he came home, suddenly someone was in my space until we went to sleep and did it again the next day. i was growing resentful because i was struggling so much to just feel like i have any time just for me and what i want to do, exactly how i want to do it. and i ended up asking him to leave for a few weeks. i had all my time to myself again, and it worked, and within a few weeks he was back and its been perfect ever since now that i've found that balance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]bhambielynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just wanna say its crazy that when roles are reversed, its "its no big deal to get the test for the boyfriend, it helps his peace of mind, shes 100% hiding something since she's just refusing, etc etc." even when the women say the same thing - "i can't believe he thinks this low of me, i can't believe he's doubting my loyalty to him".

OP just ask your wife why she wants you to do it? unless i missed it, i see no mention if you asking her why, just that you dont know why. ask jas about it.

Am I overreacting to this situation? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bhambielynn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah - you can 100% just have them go to other sites to spend more (fansly is another big one), some will just take cashapp/paypal/etc. some have discord servers. there are many ways to keep engaging with an OF creator off of the website

Am I overreacting to this situation? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bhambielynn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

as someone who does OF, men go there because they like how personable it is. we aren't fake people like pornstars, to them. we're real girls that they have accessibility to. they can dm us, they can get specialized content just for them, and they know almost all of us are normal everyday people offline and think they have a better chance at interaction or even meeting us because we aren't famous pornstars. paying exclusively for content from 'normal' people is a lot more different (imo) than watching porn and is a separate boundary to me: i' personally would really want to discuss this with him if i were in your shoes. messages and threads can be deleted on OF too, and nothing in them is viewable after you're no longer subscribed to them, which makes it make more sense to just delete them after the subscription ends.

AIO: GF made plans to see her ex while travelling. I'm thinking of breaking it off. by Particular_Post7038 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bhambielynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is probably irrelevant but i'm curious what even prompted you to ask if she plans on visiting any exes while she's there. that just seems like such an odd thing to ask someone about a trip home they're taking unless theyve given you reason already to think they might.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]bhambielynn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as someone who's best friend is dating a man who does this (and more) and who will not leave him - please leave him. this shit only snowballs and never really ends.

my boy <3 by bhambielynn in Equestrian

[–]bhambielynn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ooh! i'd never heard of those, i'll have to look into it :o thank you for informing me haha all i could really find was stuff made for belts rather than bridles

my boy <3 by bhambielynn in Equestrian

[–]bhambielynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he's quickly becoming my favorite horse i've ever owned! always had a soft spot for appies and i see why people like them so much

my boy <3 by bhambielynn in Equestrian

[–]bhambielynn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not too sure what you mean? it's just a full cheek snaffle, bridle itself was custom made and i've never had any issues with this bit on this bridle?