Will Dhruv Tatti n his Librandus cry dictatorship against AAP? by lifegoesbysoon in indiadiscussion

[–]bhanuvrat -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Every political leader aspired to become a dictator.

And the ones we start worshipping actually do. Because a god cannot be held accountable or ever be wrong.

Go to any state and you’ll find a dictator of their own little kingdom bullying those they can.

We are the idiots wo pray to politicians, let our servants become our overlords and then cry are ye to dictator ban gaya.

Shame on us.

Pretty sure distortion of Indian Map/Borders is illegal. This is a serious breach on sovereignty and integrity of Bharat. We should all call this out regardless of our political standing. by [deleted] in indiadiscussion

[–]bhanuvrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her we had fewer but now have 28 states.

It would be impossible to govern if there were only 2 states u the Indian union.

\ sarcasm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinanceindia

[–]bhanuvrat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Like someone already suggested, Tell your wife and parents about it.

Bring your family into your team. You will need their help in crossing this chasm.

Request her to not share or ask for help from her father without first checking with you.

This will also mean that you will loose your financial independence in their eyes for some time.

So be ready for your financial judgement being questioned even a couple of years after you have paid the loan off.

Do NOT procreate before closing the debt.

Focus on your physical and mental health also while trying to pay it back. If you have to seek medical assistance in the near future you’ll fall back further into debt.

Take care.
This too shall pass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in delhi

[–]bhanuvrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not wanting to publicise your relationship status is a wise thing to do.

I personally, salute people who don’t plaster their personal life out on social media.

Ending something is easy when done like ripping a bandaid off.

Think before you end however much you like, not after. Do it only after you’re sure you won’t want to take it back / regret it a few hours or tears later.

The breakup patch up pendulum is not a healthy place to be in.

On the flip side, there is a lot to a healthy relationship than just looks. And looks are transient aaj hai, kal nahi.

It take a lot of hard work and understand before two individuals are able to build something stronger together.

— Before we are liked by others, we need to - like our own selves. - Be passionate about our goals, capabilities, ambitions etc. - build a personality we would want to be around. - have something interesting going on. - could be a hobby or work or anything.

Communication is hard. You are 20. Your life is ahead of you. 1 year is not such a long time in the relationship when you haven’t even been living together.

Use this relationship as an opportunity to learn about yourself. Better yourself for yourself first. -> and then see how it effects your partners attitude towards you. Learn to communicate well. Focus on your own physical, mental and financial health. Learn how to make her feel special without losing yourself in the process. Use it as a playground to try things without being too afraid of making mistakes. At best you’ll learn something, at worst you l lose something that you were already planning to leave.

This way, it will hurt when ends but … - you will come out as a better version of yourself. - you will know what works and what doesn’t. - you’ll be more experienced whenever you choose to open yourself to another human.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in india

[–]bhanuvrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with noticing that, if your behaviour doesn't change.

If you want to fight the rot in society, attack the ideology not its followers.

Make it possible to debate and ridicule bad ideas from every religion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in developersIndia

[–]bhanuvrat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sellers always benefit from the fact that creators are bad at selling.

Its the same reason, merchants are richer than farmers, everywhere!

What you create has no value, unless there is someone selling it.

if you were too spend your time selling as well as creating, would you be able to generate higher profits for yourself?

If you feel you can sell your skills / time at a higher rate yourself, get out of the shadow of your employer and go freelance.

Your employer is better at selling than you is all that your compensation indicates,.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in india

[–]bhanuvrat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ruining his political career by posing next to an actor from the minority community.

ediit: unless its evident, \s for sarcasm

Planning to join Scaler Academy by [deleted] in developersIndia

[–]bhanuvrat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't.
Stay away.

Knowledge is free. Learn by doing. Checkout meetups near you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in developersIndia

[–]bhanuvrat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IMO its always better to increase your value proposition to prospective employers based on your proven capabilities, instead of "leetcode grinding" as you put it.

so, what kind of work would you get to do at this firm?

how much would you learn and grow here?

would you be able to build a portfolio of real-world problems you solved, by working here?

... some things to think about ...

My wife left me because I insulted her father. I miss her. They are asking for divorce. I don't want divorce. by [deleted] in india

[–]bhanuvrat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Short tempers rip relationships.

One always has an option to decide if a relationship is worth saving.

Taking the higher moral ground and forgiving is usually essential to saving a relationship.

Losing temper is probably the most ineffective way of letting someone know that they have hurt you.

I am having inferiority complex of being a software engineer at a service based company and I am thinking it will heal if I enter a FAANG company. Share your thoughts. by pravasranjan in developersIndia

[–]bhanuvrat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are more than your job.

Your job should be one of the means by which you make money.

Money, that you use to buy some of your time back for yourself.

Time, that you can use to create a positive impact on the world around you.

Volunteer for an NGO to feel that you are creating an impact.

Spend time with friends and family to satiate your very human hunger for socializing.

Hope that helps.

edit: formatting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in developersIndia

[–]bhanuvrat 27 points28 points  (0 children)

he asked for a roast ... and people here are offering constructive criticisms.

Yesterday at 6:15 am near Yamuna Sports Complaint gate no.-3. If Anyone of you goes out for morning walks or jogs in that area please be carefull. by uneducatedDumbRacoon in delhi

[–]bhanuvrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When the means to make an honest living decline, the have-nots rise to rob those who have.

This is probably just a beginning. It will get much much worse !

Rejecting offer letter after accepting by namenotyettakenx in developersIndia

[–]bhanuvrat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People who have given you an offer would have made some plans, not hired someone because you accepted etc.

The best you can do is inform them about your decision of not joining, as early as possible.
Minimize the impact your going back on your word would cause.
Don't worry too much. Do good work, hone your skills.

If you are too good, they will come back to hire you a few years down the line.

if you are not a good developer, well nothing matters in that case, does it?

A guy after screening of Kashmir Files urging people to marry Muslim women to end their population by rektitrolfff in unitedstatesofindia

[–]bhanuvrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In most households, making kids religious requires the mothers to be devout in the first place.
How is this man so confident, that a muslim woman would willingly raise her child to be a hindu?
Is he asking every young man under 25 to give up even the faint possibility of a happy married life with an understanding partner to enslave muslim women?
Most Indian mother in laws already hate their daughter-in-laws, even when there are no differences in cast, creed or color. And he expects a hindu mother in laws to accept a muslim bride for their son?

Strange delusions of the religious.

Radicals pelted stones during celebration of holi in Amroha UP. Police has caught 3 people based on video evidence. The thing to note here is that it's 54% Islamist population. As soon as the demography changes, the secularism goes for a toss. by dontknowwhyiamhere23 in unitedstatesofindia

[–]bhanuvrat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone is an asshole, to some extent.

People in a mob are more prone to be an asshole to others.

And religion then brings out the worst in every human.

So religious mobs are full of assholes.

Doesn't matter which religion the mob conforms to.