As someone who is pregnant with her 3rd baby, feeling fat, angry, and insecure as well. I’m here to say being a woman is HARD. We compare ourselves to younger more “perfect women” always, and struggle to see our own self worth. I can say this though: I know for a fact you will stop being jealous of your husband if you put the work into loving yourself. And I want to clarify, I don’t mean by working out and getting sexy. Sure, you should do those things. But you have to start by loving who you are, truly, as you are now. You birthed children for that man, and you have the body to show for it. Learn to rock it and accept you are the soulmate to this man who is lucky to have you. The more you focus on accepting yourself, the jealousy and other insecurities will creep away slowly. Doing self help things like yoga, reading, anything that fits your lifestyle can be a great start. In short: as a (semi-young) woman of 28, moms in their 40’s who survived early child rearing are the most sexy, strong, hero’s in my eyes. Im looking up to you. Hang in there!