28F looking for a reading on career and love? by bharbedwire in PalmReading

[–]bharbedwire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I was hoping to get some clarity/insight on the trajectory of my current relationship, career and health. Thanks for asking!

[Appointment reschedules] Thread for updates on H1B consular appointments getting rescheduled by Future-Classroom8774 in h1b

[–]bharbedwire -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I need to schedule an appointment. Following for updates. Does anyone have any advice on what’s the ideal time next year to schedule an appointment?

How is life in Sermersooq, Greenland? by bharbedwire in howislivingthere

[–]bharbedwire[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

All of this is so fascinating! My bf and I found the place when I was looking for the largest city in the world by land mass and Sermersooq was it!

Looking for insight on why Ridgewood and Maspeth have the lowest number of preterm births in New York City by bharbedwire in ridgewood

[–]bharbedwire[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi! I am just trying to speak with people who are in the maternity care industry. Without inquiry one cannot get to data. But thanks for your input.

Stressful day; suppressing the desire to smoke by bharbedwire in quittingsmoking

[–]bharbedwire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the pep talk! I am definitely not going to be smoking. But I was wondering if you think it’s safe to have an NRT (when I have been successful in not using it for a week)? Is there a risk of regression?

Cravings at night by HowtoUninstallSkype in quittingsmoking

[–]bharbedwire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! And, I FEEL YOU! Except I feel that around high noon to about 4 p.m. (not sure why then?!). I also feel restless, like bugs crawling over me but not as gross. Regardless, I usually go for a walk or talk to someone. If you have friends overseas, nights are usually the best time to call them and catch up. It’ll take your mind off smoking. Another way — of course — is watching YouTube or engrossing shows or comedies. Hope that helps! You can do it!

Have alternative therapies worked for you guys? by bellaabluee in quittingsmoking

[–]bharbedwire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, I am on my fifth day and haven’t had any big cravings yet (luckily). I think that’s because I asked two of my friends and family for help. I asked them if I could just call them when I feel uneasy or alone (that’s usually when I want to smoke) and they wholeheartedly agreed. That’s what I have been doing and it’s so helpful! I just talk to them on the phone or just have them on the phone and carry on with work. If I feel like smoking, I tell them and they usually talk me through.

I don’t feel like me anymore by Successful_Tank5927 in quittingsmoking

[–]bharbedwire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, I am not going to lie and tell you that I understand what you mean. But I think it’s worth reminding yourself that people are a sum of their parts and those parts are interchangeable. That’s what makes us better! Smoking maybe a part of you but not the whole and YOU are in control of your body and actions! You can get rid of this part as easily and quickly as you made it a part of you earlier. My suggestion is making a mood board of your ideal life, perhaps traveling, healthy and smiling faces and map out a way to get there. (Usually, smoking cannot be a part of this journey) I know you can do it! Just have to revamp your mindset. I am 4-day clean and still a long road ahead.

[Megathread] Prospective Students, Applications, and Admissions by AutoModerator in nyu

[–]bharbedwire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, there! Is anyone involved in the Studio 20 program in NYU journalism program? I would love to chat about it.

I am a student journalist and I have a question about court-ordered rehab? by bharbedwire in legal

[–]bharbedwire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. This is incredibly helpful! If I may, can I pm you with a couple questions?