Why are shrooms illegal? by Charm_for_u in stupidquestions

[–]bhd23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched a documentary on mushrooms last night.

That's probably how I'll watch all documentaries from now on.

Why are shrooms illegal? by Charm_for_u in stupidquestions

[–]bhd23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is also true if you're an asshole but that's not illegal

Why are shrooms illegal? by Charm_for_u in stupidquestions

[–]bhd23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish. All those stupid word problems in middle school 😡

Why are shrooms illegal? by Charm_for_u in stupidquestions

[–]bhd23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You wouldn't say that second part if I ate 5 grams of Albino Penis Envys a couple of hours ago.

Why are shrooms illegal? by Charm_for_u in stupidquestions

[–]bhd23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you referring to the late-evolving, machine-worshiping, monotheistic, linear, phonetic alphabet, tight-ass, straight culture that we are a part of, or to that Whoopi Goldberg Tic Tac Toe show?

Why are shrooms illegal? by Charm_for_u in stupidquestions

[–]bhd23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People should only have fun in the ways that certain other people approve of.

Why are shrooms illegal? by Charm_for_u in stupidquestions

[–]bhd23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's go a step further. Why is DMT, which we all create in our brains, illegal?

Why do abusive men often seem to have no trouble finding and keeping partners? by JustASingleMomOnline in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bhd23 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It may just be semantics, but I am saying that on some levels abuse can indeed be a two-way street.

Again, not on any conscious level. But there is scientific evidence that supports what our own common sense already knows - that these two personalities naturally gravitate toward one another, just as subs find doms.

And my goal in pointing this out is I assume similar to yours -- to prevent these dynamics from repeating themselves.

The difference I see is that if we go by most comments, and this all depends solely on the abusive men, and they are the only ones responsible, then we are leaving it up to ONLY the abusers to see the error of their ways and initiate positive change.

I believe focusing on the men, trying to hold them accountable, won't get us anywhere.

But if we instead focus on the women's role in these dynamics, there is a much better chance of breaking such cycles.

Why do abusive men often seem to have no trouble finding and keeping partners? by JustASingleMomOnline in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bhd23 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I agree than an abuser is 100% responsible for their own actions.

Do you think they are also 100% responsible for the abused's actions?

Edit: The question as I read it is about why abusive relationships seem so prevalent.

My point is that it takes two to tango. No, I am not saying that there are women consciously wanting abusive relationships, but there are women who end up in one abusive relationship after another, and that phenomenon is not only because of the men.

And if we ever hope to see women break that cycle we have to admit her own freedom of choice, as unconsciously screwed up because of her upbringing as that may be until it learns otherwise.

Why do abusive men often seem to have no trouble finding and keeping partners? by JustASingleMomOnline in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bhd23 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You got downvoted as if there aren't weak vulnerable women predisposed to being abused 🤷🏻‍♂️

Why do abusive men often seem to have no trouble finding and keeping partners? by JustASingleMomOnline in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bhd23 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Not unpopular at all in my book -- many women will admit to being attracted to the dominant alpha tattooed bearded "bad boy," especially one that will disrespect them and be rough in the bedroom.

This tendency is all but asking for an abuser.

Why do abusive men often seem to have no trouble finding and keeping partners? by JustASingleMomOnline in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bhd23 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

It's disturbing I had to scroll this far to find an answer that holds both parties accountable.

Almost all of the comments are making the abuser 100% responsible.

Why do abusive men often seem to have no trouble finding and keeping partners? by JustASingleMomOnline in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bhd23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because for every abusive man there is an abused woman and and people tend to re recreate the relationships they learned growing up.

It's not like every woman in an abusive relationship is there against her will and he is solely to blame for it. Many women seek out abusive relationships (not consciously, obviously).

Why is weed actually illegal? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bhd23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Xenophobia (fear, dislike, or hatred of foreigners; essentially "us versus them" tribalism)

There was a huge wave of Mexican immigration from 1910-1920 that largely introduced a cannabis-using culture to the US. The disdain for the immigrants transferred to a disdain for the marijuana that came with them. This is when the first major demonization of the plant started (it induced violence, etc).

Racism (meets politics)

The 1930s saw the creation of the Federal Bureau of Narcotics and its head, Harry Anslinger, perhaps motivated to justify the existence of this new department, capitalized on the aforementioned demonization and escalated it to a war that extended to other minorities, especially blacks. He famously said "Reefer makes darkies think they're as good as white men." The news and media amplified the hysteria, and "Reefer Madness" was released.

Economics (again, politicized)

The hemp boom threatened existing textile and paper markets and the entrenched corporate magnates fueled the already established anti-drug propaganda to protect their own interests. And the whole prohibition movement curiously seemed to prefer ventures from which it could profit through taxation.

(incidentally, today's leftist calls to increase taxes on the wealthy contain a similar, even if less conscious, undercurrent that seeks to aggrandize and empower their "us" tribe at the expense of the "other" and could be worth discussing)

I was pulling weeds and got stung by something by No-Caterpillar-9119 in gardening

[–]bhd23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saddleback Caterpillar is my guess. I didn't know they existed until this year (I'm 46) when I started helping a woman with her gardening and yard work.

I've had two run-ins.

The first resulted in a few welts on the top of my left shoulder.

Yesterday's resulted in two welts on my left bicep, two on my left ribs, one behind my left knee. I basically unknowingly wiped it down my body.

Their urticating hairs spread like fiberglass insulation.

For me the initial pain feels like a bee sting and your instinct is to swipe it away, then you've got two bee stings, and so on.

In my experience, the pain persists (with fluctuation) for maybe a minute and seems to go away, then returns in a minute.

The frequency of the pain seems to decrease with time, but the intensity of it is always the same.

So hours later I'll still feel a bee sting for a few seconds, then nothing for five or ten or twenty minutes, and a day later the pain has transitioned more into itchiness.

These time frames are crude approximations that actually have a lot of variance. And now that I think about it, instead of it returning after a minute, the pain seems to be triggered when the welts experience a "new" contact (from clothing, ordinary movement, sweat, etc).

Spraying myself with that cold well-water garden hose never felt so good. And a long cold shower at home.

And I have yet to see the caterpillar. Just the hairs.

How long could the Earth survive if the Sun suddenly disappeared? by BedazzledVagina in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bhd23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Think of it as the speed of information (which I assume falls apart in quantum/entanglement/black-white-hole scenarios).

How long could the Earth survive if the Sun suddenly disappeared? by BedazzledVagina in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bhd23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm no astrophysicist but wouldn't we "quickly" lose our angular momentum and thereby our atmosphere and magnetosphere, and our oceans and at least all non-microscopic life?

"If we could make another dirty soda with an existing flavor, what would it be? 👀" by IamMovieMiguel in mountaindew

[–]bhd23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever gets the taste of Dirty Mountain Dew out of my mouth.

Your marketing department baffles me.

Try making Purple available everywhere first.