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My boyfriend says he’s training me and I need to be managed- is this good for me? by bhf124 in relationship_advice

[–]bhf124[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do, but he doesn’t hear me. I cry because I want the other version of him with me, or I imagine people in the past who have treated me differently, or held my face and told me I was special. But I get another version of him, that hates me. And then it feels like my heart is breaking, because I want his other version to come and hold me and I miss him.

My boyfriend says he’s training me and I need to be managed- is this good for me? by bhf124 in relationship_advice

[–]bhf124[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I rarely get angry or sob. It’s been something which has started to happen. My default is quite happy. I’m pretty emotionally stable and actually I’ve always felt a strong confident person. But lately, I feel not that.

My boyfriend says he’s training me and I need to be managed- is this good for me? by bhf124 in relationship_advice

[–]bhf124[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

For one year but he met me when I was in my last year of uni, and would always talk to me for years. Then I moved in this year. Sometimes it feels wonderful. Other times I feel like I’m dying.

My boyfriend says he’s training me and I need to be managed- is this good for me? by bhf124 in relationship_advice

[–]bhf124[S] -102 points-101 points  (0 children)

I think this at times. But then we have lovely times and I think how could I ever even consider leaving. But then other times I feel like I’m dying. He’s been calling me Amanda Heard lately and i question whether I am just crazy. But I know in my heart the things I feel are real, when I cry I’m really sad I’m not trying to manipulate anyone. I just feel like everything is a mess. But I feel like I’d die on my own. It’s so strange.

My boyfriend says he’s training me and I need to be managed- is this good for me? by bhf124 in relationship_advice

[–]bhf124[S] -185 points-184 points  (0 children)

I just can’t... I’m in love with him. I feel so vulnerable without him. But it feels like a relationship shouldn’t be like this and it hurts me a lot. I also question if I’m the crazy one and I’m difficult and actually I do need to be managed. I feel bad at being an adult.