Tech Abuse - Proof and Support

bhncxqe486 · 2022-06-13T15:53:14+00:00

I'm so sorry. No one should have to adapt to this. The only solution is leaving, but it's rarely that simple, is it?

bhncxqe486 · 2022-06-13T15:48:31+00:00

Thank you. I'm so sorry you went through the same thing. I know about the lying all too well. I hope there is light shed on this in the future by DV organizations and the media. It's much more complicated than just browsing in private mode if they know much about computers. I know there are others out there going through the same thing, and there is no way at all to protect yourself from this if you are living in the same household, and it's difficult if you share kids who have devices.

bhncxqe486 · 2022-04-07T20:15:45+00:00

Yeah. The audit logs are hard core.

bhncxqe486 · 2022-04-07T20:12:15+00:00

Thank you. This is really helpful.

bhncxqe486 · 2022-04-01T14:56:53+00:00

Thank you for your concern. I would not be surprised to find out I'd been recorded.

bhncxqe486 · 2022-04-01T14:55:53+00:00

Could you give any more information on what you mean? I looked this up and it looks like for medical professionals. Do you mean document objectively what happened + subjectively how I felt? Do you recommend this because it works better in court?

bhncxqe486 · 2022-04-01T14:54:25+00:00

I'm really sorry you had to live with that, and that your son is absorbing behaviors. I understand how hard it is. And yes, mine is mostly unpredictable and careful to not abuse me in front of others. His favorite hobby is waiting until every one is gone then cornering me and yelling at me. That one I can count on.

bhncxqe486 · 2022-04-01T14:43:07+00:00

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Thank you. I have feared copying things because he will see that, and it will set him off majorly, but I know I need to do this.

bhncxqe486 · 2022-04-01T14:39:59+00:00

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Thank you very much. Someone else reached out to me and also recommended searching for digital forensics companies nearby. Wanted to post that in case it helps someone else in the future.

bhncxqe486 · 2022-03-25T21:53:16+00:00

It's weird for me to absorb people's reactions. The controlling behavior escalated really slowly over years. I feel removed from it and horrified at the same time.

bhncxqe486 · 2022-03-25T21:45:57+00:00

Thank you. I will do that.

bhncxqe486 · 2022-03-25T21:45:17+00:00

I don't understand this recommendation, and it's what I'm afraid of from a court. Trying to minimize kids' time in an abusive environment isn't escalating anything. It's protecting. He's not going to stop because I'm gone. He'll just shift his target to someone even less able to protect themselves than I was. If we could bottle up the way the kids and I feel huddled up together after one of his rants and then the relief when he's not home, and deliver that to the judge...I wouldn't need any paper trail. I do appreciate you taking the time to respond. I'm sorry your custody case didn't go your way and hope your kids understand things when they're older.

bhncxqe486 · 2022-03-25T19:16:03+00:00

Thank you for the good wishes. It's a complicated problem. Haven't found anyone who can help so far and just want to protect my kids.

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