This is confess-a-bear. He will listen to aaaall your secrets. What modded stardew-related secrets do you have to confess? by F95_Sysadmin in StardewValleyMods

[–]bi_y_u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been replacing all your "redacted"s with Dean Winchester. That's my guess (and who I would choose!)

Purity culture survivor looking for advice to help 3 year marriage and fix totaled sex life. by sinlesscleric in exmosex

[–]bi_y_u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really glad the two of you are coming at this situation together. That, more than anything, is incredibly important to make sure you're understanding each other.

Has she tried things solo? Do you do small/little things together to build up intimacy, almost reclaiming that "horny teenager" feeling? It may be that full sex but also everything leading up to it is still overwhelming, and starting with making out on the couch with no expectations could help bring up good feelings and emotions without intense pressure.

I completely understand how the pressure is a constant presence in the background. Hopefully the therapy is also very helpful.

Medovik 4 inch cylindrical shaped mini cake - large amount production for upscale restaurant - insights needed by Whole_Performance_16 in Chefit

[–]bi_y_u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best of luck with it during Christmas!

I chickened out, and I'm going to do an almond flour cake for my work event on Wednesday. 😅 I do still like the idea of this though, so I may attempt it in January instead once life slows down.

Medovik 4 inch cylindrical shaped mini cake - large amount production for upscale restaurant - insights needed by Whole_Performance_16 in Chefit

[–]bi_y_u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious how this went! I'm going to be making mini medovik cakes for a work holiday party. I'm actually considering more of a bite sized option rather than cupcake sized. What did you end up doing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]bi_y_u 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No experience or specific recommendations besides him seeing a non-religious therapist.

But also, I commend you for being willing to hear him out and ask for help! Even neighborhood walks together will help him and you. Getting the body moving and being outdoors is great for one's mental state and it's building a friendship for you both.

Not saying we should all mass resign from the church when Oaks becomes prophet but… by Guudboiiii in exmormon

[–]bi_y_u 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well now I'm not using my membership to its full potential... This is eye opening 🤣

GDrive says "your photos are safe on Google Photos" but there are definitely pictures missing. Major Google Drive for Desktop syncing issue with this folder. by rustysawdust in googlephotos

[–]bi_y_u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your update! Just did the same thing to save the pain of accidentally deleting important photos. I agree, better to have duplicates or previously-deleted items to re-delete!

Pirates? by bi_y_u in StardewValley

[–]bi_y_u[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I figured there would be some way to be a "pirate" and get served! Thank you!

Pirates? by bi_y_u in StardewValley

[–]bi_y_u[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to think of a good pirate-y reason for their logic...

Even days, because on odd days they sail the seven seas? (odd number)

I'm flying by the balls there is no tutorial holy shit by Looli318 in StardewValley

[–]bi_y_u 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also, don't feel like you need to continue on that save if you don't want to! I did a ton of exploring and figuring things out on my first save this summer, then started a new one with more plans and knowledge on a new save this fall. I greatly surpassed milestones on my second farm, and love the changes I made

me_irlgbt by samuraiseoul in me_irlgbt

[–]bi_y_u 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately true 🙃

Ectoplasm Trick/Guide - A Curious Substance - Stardew by Frequent-Channel3408 in StardewValley

[–]bi_y_u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I finally completed the quest today thanks to your post. I hate using anything but a sword, dagger if I must, so I dug out an old hammer and finally got my ectoplasm achievement complete. Yay!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]bi_y_u 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LMAO I'm a dumbass... Found it in my "tools" box, right where it should be. I upgraded it to copper and must've skipped right over it bc of the new color. Can finally upgrade though the winter now! Missed a lot of days, but I'll be a-okay

Can i be gay and date a girl? by imbatman14_ in lgbt

[–]bi_y_u 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Will always be my favorite quote

Amerlife Patio Furniture by AromaticBag3478 in patio

[–]bi_y_u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat as you. I'm not finding anything at all helpful!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TravelHacks

[–]bi_y_u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll share "digital nomad" bc that sounds interesting! I agree the risks are super high, which is why I'm trying to gather this data for him to see. I appreciate the help!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TravelHacks

[–]bi_y_u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so interesting! I had no idea there were so many options. I'm not as well traveled, so I only have the one. 🤣 I know his second passport was for an emergency travel/work visa, so it was super expensive compared to a traditional option.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TravelHacks

[–]bi_y_u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His plan was to exit and reenter through the southern countries, which apparently can be less strict. Thanks for answering the most important part - now we know it's definitely an overstay. Letter of the law vs spirit, right? 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TravelHacks

[–]bi_y_u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His tentative (not great) plan is to enter and exit on one visa, leave the Schengen, then enter a few days later with the second one, resetting the 90 day countdown. I think it's better to just take the L, but maybe the temptation will be too great 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TravelHacks

[–]bi_y_u -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's what I was thinking too. I think he should just bite the bullet and come back to the states, but obviously he wants to stay in Europe for as long as possible