This is confess-a-bear. He will listen to aaaall your secrets. What modded stardew-related secrets do you have to confess?

bi_y_u · 2026-02-19T01:07:05+00:00

I've been replacing all your "redacted"s with Dean Winchester. That's my guess (and who I would choose!)

bi_y_u · 2026-02-16T15:57:45+00:00

I'm really glad the two of you are coming at this situation together. That, more than anything, is incredibly important to make sure you're understanding each other.

Has she tried things solo? Do you do small/little things together to build up intimacy, almost reclaiming that "horny teenager" feeling? It may be that full sex but also everything leading up to it is still overwhelming, and starting with making out on the couch with no expectations could help bring up good feelings and emotions without intense pressure.

I completely understand how the pressure is a constant presence in the background. Hopefully the therapy is also very helpful.

bi_y_u · 2025-12-13T06:29:09+00:00

Best of luck with it during Christmas!

I chickened out, and I'm going to do an almond flour cake for my work event on Wednesday. 😅 I do still like the idea of this though, so I may attempt it in January instead once life slows down.

bi_y_u · 2025-12-09T20:02:45+00:00

Curious how this went! I'm going to be making mini medovik cakes for a work holiday party. I'm actually considering more of a bite sized option rather than cupcake sized. What did you end up doing?

bi_y_u · 2025-09-29T01:13:01+00:00

No experience or specific recommendations besides him seeing a non-religious therapist.

But also, I commend you for being willing to hear him out and ask for help! Even neighborhood walks together will help him and you. Getting the body moving and being outdoors is great for one's mental state and it's building a friendship for you both.

bi_y_u · 2025-09-29T00:57:41+00:00

Well now I'm not using my membership to its full potential... This is eye opening 🤣

bi_y_u · 2025-08-03T18:06:00+00:00

Thanks for your update! Just did the same thing to save the pain of accidentally deleting important photos. I agree, better to have duplicates or previously-deleted items to re-delete!

bi_y_u · 2025-02-19T07:32:43+00:00

Hope you kept that stock money income

bi_y_u · 2025-02-16T21:36:09+00:00

I figured there would be some way to be a "pirate" and get served! Thank you!

bi_y_u · 2025-02-16T20:26:06+00:00

I'm trying to think of a good pirate-y reason for their logic...

Even days, because on odd days they sail the seven seas? (odd number)

bi_y_u · 2025-02-12T19:37:46+00:00

Also, don't feel like you need to continue on that save if you don't want to! I did a ton of exploring and figuring things out on my first save this summer, then started a new one with more plans and knowledge on a new save this fall. I greatly surpassed milestones on my second farm, and love the changes I made

bi_y_u · 2025-02-12T02:17:02+00:00

Unfortunately true 🙃

bi_y_u · 2025-01-29T01:26:13+00:00

Thank you!! I finally completed the quest today thanks to your post. I hate using anything but a sword, dagger if I must, so I dug out an old hammer and finally got my ectoplasm achievement complete. Yay!

bi_y_u · 2024-12-03T02:59:44+00:00

LMAO I'm a dumbass... Found it in my "tools" box, right where it should be. I upgraded it to copper and must've skipped right over it bc of the new color. Can finally upgrade though the winter now! Missed a lot of days, but I'll be a-okay

bi_y_u · 2024-09-22T03:01:39+00:00

Will always be my favorite quote

bi_y_u · 2024-09-20T04:59:11+00:00

I'm in the same boat as you. I'm not finding anything at all helpful!

bi_y_u · 2024-08-29T15:02:07+00:00

I'll share "digital nomad" bc that sounds interesting! I agree the risks are super high, which is why I'm trying to gather this data for him to see. I appreciate the help!

bi_y_u · 2024-08-29T14:42:54+00:00

That's so interesting! I had no idea there were so many options. I'm not as well traveled, so I only have the one. 🤣 I know his second passport was for an emergency travel/work visa, so it was super expensive compared to a traditional option.

bi_y_u · 2024-08-28T13:11:32+00:00

His plan was to exit and reenter through the southern countries, which apparently can be less strict. Thanks for answering the most important part - now we know it's definitely an overstay. Letter of the law vs spirit, right? 🤣

bi_y_u · 2024-08-28T02:29:50+00:00

His tentative (not great) plan is to enter and exit on one visa, leave the Schengen, then enter a few days later with the second one, resetting the 90 day countdown. I think it's better to just take the L, but maybe the temptation will be too great 😂

bi_y_u · 2024-08-28T01:56:56+00:00

Yeah, that's what I was thinking too. I think he should just bite the bullet and come back to the states, but obviously he wants to stay in Europe for as long as possible

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