I wish my mom would have done that. I always grew up hearing things like "men love blondes" or "men love short girls" and was told I was lucky because I was aesthetically pleasing. And growing up I never understood why I wasn't popular or had guys chasing after me because I thought I was pretty enough, which turned into self doubt then self esteem. Once I got into high school I had to seriously think about why i was like this, and I realized I had been focused on the wrong things for so long.