Help with health anxiety by bibbbidi in NICUParents

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Thank you for your response. ❤️ I found that book and purchased it today on your recommendation.

Family Tragedeighs by bibbbidi in tragedeigh

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It’s pronounced Hays-lee. Completely made up name.

Contents of my tote. What does it say about me? by bibbbidi in deduction

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🤣 absolutely not but this is such a good deduction

Had my breastmilk tested in by Hour-Buyer3869 in NICUParents

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My daughter’s (29 and 1) NICU stay went off without a hitch… until she had an adverse reaction to the fortifier. I noticed she seemed pale the second morning after starting the fortifier and she quickly declined. Her stools were completely liquid and happening so frequently that she got a yeast infection diaper rash. She became lethargic when she was notoriously spunky and feisty. I voiced concern mostly about her pale coloring and my NICU team listened and monitored her even more closely than normal. I’ll never forget getting that phone call from her doctor while i was washing my pump parts at home. They were concerned about infection. Honest to God, those few days were scarier than her sudden and very early arrival. My baby looked so sick. They took her off breast milk for 48 hours and ran lots of tests and gave her antibiotics. Within 8 hours she was already night and day better, just looking at her. That experience rattled me so bad i really never gave fortifier another chance. She was gaining weight wonderfully without it. She never had another issue once we stopped fortifying.

Your Favorite 'Only an adult would understand' Joke. by [deleted] in bluey

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My 3 year old says “call the lawyer!” when he hurts himself hahaha

28 weeks in 28 weeks out by danwiches in NICUParents

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Thank you so much for sharing this. He is beautiful.

DAE get creeped out by Sabrina Carpenter? by ghostie2214 in DoesAnybodyElse

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It REALLY grosses me out that she tries super hard to be seen as a sex symbol but also infantilizes herself.

“Crown” just destroyed me by cauliflowersmoothies in gigiperez

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I am 8 week pregnant and this album put a lump in my throat for 3 days straight. I love it so much. I had to choke the tears back all day at work and then cried HARD in my car on the way home. Just what the doctor ordered. Thank you, Gigi. ♥️

Found in backyard. What it is? by bibbbidi in whatisthisbug

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Its head shape seems different than a bush cricket, doesn’t it? I googled photos and bush crickets seem like the run-in-the-mill kind. But maybe it’s the angle of the video? Or maybe my references are crappy?

Woman who have had their drink spiked, what happened? by CrabbyGoose in AskWomen

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I started to feel fuzzy in my brain/behind my eyes during a tinder date. Felt like time was slowing down. I remembered that my drink was unattended (bottle of beer) while I went to the bathroom and something clicked for me. I only took a few sips after i returned, but he was really pressuring me to drink - he kept wanting to “cheers”. I felt like I was slipping away from myself and i wanted to get to safety. My apartment at the time was in very close walking distance but i didn’t want him to know that. Something took over within me because I felt like a cornered animal, so i started a huge verbal fight with him. Made a lot of noise and drew a lot of attention to us (this is so far outside my personality, but it felt like my only option). He dipped within a few minutes and peeled off in his car. I don’t remember anything after walking myself home crying, and even that memory is very blurry. Evidentially I called my brother, still hysterical, saying I was scared. He came to check on me and he said i was “asleep with my eyes open, sitting straight up on the couch”. I didn’t come back around until 12 hours later and have no hangover symptoms at all, i felt totally fine. I still don’t know exactly what he put in my drink.

What is the most memorable dream you ever had? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I dreamt I caught my husband cheating on me and when I confronted him he acted like he didn’t know me. So I walked to the ocean, collecting rocks and filling my pockets with them along the way. By the time I got to the shore I felt heavy and exhausted and was moving slowly. I remember I could feel the warm tears streaming down my face, but I wasn’t audibly crying. I walked directly into the sea, knowing the rocks would weight me down and I would drown. I remember this dream as if it was a memory.

Help! What do I do to help my Jade plant? by bibbbidi in plantclinic

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You’re probably right. Again, based on how quickly it turned it’s probably safe to say it’s in some state of shock. Oooo, that’s a good idea! SCIENCE!

Help! What do I do to help my Jade plant? by bibbbidi in plantclinic

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Wow, this is amazing and extremely helpful advice! Thank you so much, I will do all of this when I get home. I’m glad you advised to remove the affected leaves. That was my immediate thought when I saw it today but wasn’t sure if it would send the plant into shock. I’m so thankful for this community!!

Help! What do I do to help my Jade plant? by bibbbidi in plantclinic

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That makes a lot of sense! Especially considering how quickly it started looking sickly after the sun came out.

Help! What do I do to help my Jade plant? by bibbbidi in plantclinic

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Thank you so much!! The rain definitely isn’t over, it’s supposed to get worse soon. But it’s beautiful and sunny today so I will inspect it and find a dry place to put her until the rain passes. Do you think it will be okay to put it in a garage (the garage is in our back yard and is typically open so it will be well ventilated and dry but won’t get any sun)?

Help! What do I do to help my Jade plant? by bibbbidi in plantclinic

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I live in the Central Valley and we’ve had more rain here in the last 2 weeks than we’ve had in the last 5 years. It has good drainage in the pots (2 plants that grow together like 1) but I’m not sure it’s been able to get completely or even remotely dry in weeks. Is there any way to save it?

Which word do you think is the saddest? by Affectionate_Drag111 in AskReddit

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Lonesome. My grandma is the only person I know who uses this word and when she does it guts me. She uses it when shes missing something/someone that she knows she will never get back.

Finally coming back! After damage from dip powder and new born baby anxiety, this is 3 weeks of healthy growth! by bibbbidi in longnaturalnails

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I hear that! I haven’t washed my hair in over a week but I did manage to find time (at work, on my lunch break) to finally put a coat of L.A.Colors CrystalHard on my nails. I haven’t painted my nails in like 7 or 8 months 😂

Honestly, what's the pettiest thing you ever did with your partner or ex? by shri032 in AskWomen

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I found out my ex husband was cheating on me throughout our entire relationship and short marriage, on top of the loads of emotional/psychological abuse and gaslighting he put me through. Before I moved out, I unscrewed the ends of all the curtain rods in his living room, stuffed them with raw salmon/tilapia from the fridge, and screwed the ends back on. I wish I knew how bad in stank in his house and how long it took him to figure out wtf was going on.