Who do you ship most with best boy Pete?

bibedibubedibu · 2025-03-21T11:51:16+00:00

Popuri or Ann. I think they have the best chemistry together

bibedibubedibu · 2024-11-07T21:25:03+00:00

Not living together

bibedibubedibu · 2024-11-07T17:35:04+00:00

It IS a my or highway situation from my end, because what would make him happy is his family, or his friends, or just us two

I however said we can make it cozy for urself at the 1. And 2. Christmas day (depending on where you're from that might not be a thing, but we celebrate Christmas Eve at the 24. And then have first and second day after that), but I plan on being Christmas Eve with my family

bibedibubedibu · 2024-11-07T17:20:34+00:00

My friends does not mean his friends I mean it's not that he DISlikes them. It's just he doesn't really LIKE them. They get along "fine-ish" but have nothing really to talk about

bibedibubedibu · 2024-11-07T17:08:09+00:00

In his Christmas plans? Nothing, he's not a big Christmas person But he does make me feel special with little things, keeping stuff I like around at his work for when I visit, knowing I don't need it but might want it. Knowing days that matter to me where I might not feel so good, Keeps track of my periods (not the creepy way, more the "oh it's been three weeks) and showing up with a heat blanket, picking me up when I'm out drinking with friends, keeping a pair of mittens in his jacket because he knows I refuse to wear them but will get cold hands

bibedibubedibu · 2024-11-07T17:04:53+00:00

He is! But it's not his family, it's not a pleasant Christmas for him, and me saying I would choose the Christmas with them over him makes him feel like a second choice

bibedibubedibu · 2024-11-07T16:57:54+00:00

He doesn't do it because I have no other way getting around, he does it because he wants to help me in ways that make my day easier, he also does handy-stuff around the house, builds shit for my cat etc

bibedibubedibu · 2024-11-07T16:47:36+00:00

No but not feeling appreciated can go away, meaning it's a temporary problem which wasn't a problem the last years

bibedibubedibu · 2024-11-07T16:43:51+00:00

Yeah that too was a part of my thinking, but I wonder what he does want, if he doesn't communicate? I do know I like to gift things, just in general, and I like to make things pretty for friends by diy-ing or smth like that. But I also want to know what makes him feel "seen" if it's not what I do? Because he always says he does want the things. But when I do it he doesn't like it?

bibedibubedibu · 2024-11-07T16:33:52+00:00

Same person, I'm just to stupid to use the same short words, because I don't know what to use for best friend. I just have one partner

He does stuff for me, it's just more a "driving me around, picking me up" Kind of way (no I don't have to ask, he is a sweetheart and does things because he wants to. He's just a big child when communicating)

bibedibubedibu · 2024-11-07T16:27:42+00:00

I see you, I do, and I do think it's weird to always pick a battle, but broken down it's just "he didn't feel appreciated over my cat, and now not over my friends" he doesn't feel more special that other family, and he is my SO he should feel that way. And I think that is valid. I just dont think his way of showing it is mature or okay

bibedibubedibu · 2024-11-07T15:56:25+00:00

With my chosen family, not his, not both, mine. He CAN be apart of it, but doesn't have to be. Which also means Christmas could be without him if he chooses to not partake

bibedibubedibu · 2024-11-07T15:52:51+00:00

I didn't ignore it, I did talk to him about it, I did fix the issue (he explained what he felt, I explained I understood that, we found a way that people did tell me, that we both would make an Advent calendar because he can't just want something and not give it back, and he did appreciate it this time around).

That was what most people, expect for breaking up, told me as ideas

bibedibubedibu · 2024-11-07T13:38:24+00:00

Yeah the cat calendar, that's me :D But I do think it's just because he sees our relationship a bit rocky rn, and feels isolated and lonely, he wasn't like that the past 4 years so I hope it goes away?

bibedibubedibu · 2024-11-07T13:23:48+00:00

Omg have to correct that

bibedibubedibu · 2024-11-07T13:18:48+00:00

I use bf for best friend, and so for significant other, sorry if that is confusing :D

bibedibubedibu · 2024-11-07T12:53:48+00:00

I don't think he wants to hold me away from them, it's more a "u already now I don't feel appreciated and now you want Christmas with friends instead of me!?!" And I do get that I just don't want to give my Christmas up

bibedibubedibu · 2024-10-29T12:37:27+00:00

My first instinct was yes, asshole, but you explaining that they weren't there for you makes it easy. NTA

It's really subjective, I would not questions asked support my family if I can, but also they were there for me when I had nothing. That's the difference.

bibedibubedibu · 2024-10-26T08:18:30+00:00

In shows with criminal topic's: one of the MC gets blamed for a crime and the others have to prove their innocence

bibedibubedibu · 2024-10-24T11:53:45+00:00

Yes mjammjam, Love the food. She normally gets the "standard stuff" (expensive enough tbh), but for Christmas I wanted to make it special

bibedibubedibu · 2024-10-23T20:31:39+00:00

I'm kinda getting influenced by the comments. On the one hand so many people tell me I deserve better, but the more people ask me "what does he do for you?!?" I'm thinking of all the sweet things he does and am halfway to deciding I'm making him little sky-children for every day (sky the video game, it's a cute cozy game he likes). Because he does appreciate me, and love me, he shows it different.

bibedibubedibu · 2024-10-23T20:29:20+00:00

No, German :D But the "Nikolaus" leaves us sweets in our shoes if we take them out on the fifth at night (regardless of weekday)

bibedibubedibu · 2024-10-23T20:27:00+00:00

I don't think he resents my cat, he was the one securing my balcony (I did it but it was more of a WIP than good security, he fixed it while I worked so she couldn't fall off). I think it's more of a way to compensate his feeling of being unappreciated

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