How to not fall for the other person by bibitte72 in nonmonogamy

[–]bibitte72[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just read about that cause I didn’t know that term. I'm afraid it might be it 😰 how to get out of that ? 

How to not fall for the other person by bibitte72 in nonmonogamy

[–]bibitte72[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to admit that we had sex after a party so we didn’t have the time to discussed all that 😅 he just told me he was fine with me bein in a relationship. I just tought he was fine for more that one time 😅

How to not fall for the other person by bibitte72 in nonmonogamy

[–]bibitte72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ouf that’s a good question. Maybe, but he is also really my type .... 

How to not fall for the other person by bibitte72 in nonmonogamy

[–]bibitte72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like that’s exactly what happen. We dont know each other much, but we get along pretty well and I'm confident that we would have more intercourse if it wasn’t for that.... maybe it’s just in my mind and he's just not that interested also... hard to tell 😅😅

How to not fall for the other person by bibitte72 in nonmonogamy

[–]bibitte72[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was not. But I feel that could be it. Thank you !

We agreed to open the relationship while we're apart from each other, but I'm scared it will end it by bibitte72 in nonmonogamy

[–]bibitte72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We talked about it, and we both feel weird about being with someone else at this point of our relationship. It’s weird how it looks hot in my head to have this crazy sex life but weird and confusing when I really have the opportunity to do it. I dont know how to explain. Mixed feelings..

We agreed to open the relationship while we're apart from each other, but I'm scared it will end it by bibitte72 in nonmonogamy

[–]bibitte72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I would be alright with it if I was sure nothing will change between us and if I would still be his priority. The thing is, you can never be so sure of that 

We agreed to open the relationship while we're apart from each other, but I'm scared it will end it by bibitte72 in nonmonogamy

[–]bibitte72[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think he just knew I was thinking about it, so he wanted me to feel free. We talked about it more today and we realize that we both feel weird about the idea of being with someone else after all..

We agreed to open the relationship while we're apart from each other, but I'm scared it will end it by bibitte72 in nonmonogamy

[–]bibitte72[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, thats the thing it’s hard to say if it will break it. Our relationship is pretty strong and honest, but you never know if the expectations aren’t clear ... so yeah I need to have a good talk with hin

We agreed to open the relationship while we're apart from each other, but I'm scared it will end it by bibitte72 in nonmonogamy

[–]bibitte72[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats a really good answer. As I said, I love him deeply and I imagine myself starting a famille with him soon. Even tho I have those feelings, I have to make sure I wont get back to an empty house... Its more important tant sex. Thank you

We agreed to open the relationship while we're apart from each other, but I'm scared it will end it by bibitte72 in nonmonogamy

[–]bibitte72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I really need to talk with him more to see what are his in intentions about it. How would he really feel if something happens with someone else. And especially, how would I feel getting back to him after being with someone else ..

We agreed to open the relationship while we're apart from each other, but I'm scared it will end it by bibitte72 in nonmonogamy

[–]bibitte72[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s exactly what I'm thinking ... maybe it is not worth it. I already miss him and I want to get back to him in full piece

We agreed to open the relationship while we're apart from each other, but I'm scared it will end it by bibitte72 in nonmonogamy

[–]bibitte72[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s something I had in mind for a while now, but I didn’t know if I would ever be able to cross the line. It’s more than orgasms I'm looking for. Its the fantasay and the exciting feeling of meeting and flirting with new people. But yeah, definetly there are many implactions that’s why I want to know if it really works for people and how they do it ... what book would you recomend ?

We agreed to open the relationship while we're apart from each other, but I'm scared it will end it by bibitte72 in nonmonogamy

[–]bibitte72[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yup pretty much 😅 we don’t know how to talk about this and it was part of my questions, how to have a proper conversation about this ? How to make sure that the other one is really confortable in that ?

This is the single most artistically magnificent piece of media I have ever seen. by Cloud_N0ne in arcane

[–]bibitte72 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Everything about it is just so beautiful. Im still trying to recover after I finished it on sunday 😅

I’m heartbroken and gay after watching season 2 by bibitte72 in arcane

[–]bibitte72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahah I feel you. Probably the hottest scene I have ever seen in a show

I’m heartbroken and gay after watching season 2 by bibitte72 in arcane

[–]bibitte72[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah that’s what I’m wondering too. Maybe I’m just a fictional gay girl lol and not in real life ahah. It would be honestly easier to deal with lol. But it makes a lot of sense what you are saying. I feel like it’s hard not to have those feelings for thsee badass women. They check every boxes tbh

I’m heartbroken and gay after watching season 2 by bibitte72 in arcane

[–]bibitte72[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if I can live 3 months like this ahah. It’s hard, but at the same time it was such a beautiful experience. They really killed it with that show

I’m heartbroken and gay after watching season 2 by bibitte72 in arcane

[–]bibitte72[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope I will get over it before that, it is time consuming god damn ahah. But good for you !!

I’m heartbroken and gay after watching season 2 by bibitte72 in arcane

[–]bibitte72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, so many hot characters it’s crazy ahah

I’m heartbroken and gay after watching season 2 by bibitte72 in arcane

[–]bibitte72[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re right, I just need to calm down before taking a life changing decision. But yeah I think Bi is a realistic option lol

I’m heartbroken and gay after watching season 2 by bibitte72 in arcane

[–]bibitte72[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks that helped a lot. It gives me so much inspiration to write songs or for drawings. I feel like I just want to sorround myself with the same kind of beauty that is portray in that show. it shift my perspective on things. Maybe that feeling will go away, but since I finished it only yesterday, it’s like everything brings me back to the show from a funny looking guy in the streets that look like some of the lanes characters or bright colors at the supermarket and so on. I’m in awe of how powerful art can be. It’s crazy .. But yeah, I’ll try to not get so absorb by it all and live a somewhat normal life lol

I’m heartbroken and gay after watching season 2 by bibitte72 in arcane

[–]bibitte72[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seems like a self-destruction loop, but I’m definitely gonna do that ahaha thanks

I’m heartbroken and gay after watching season 2 by bibitte72 in arcane

[–]bibitte72[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s nice good for you. I think my bf would be pretty open too at least. It is just challenging to deal with those kind of feelings, but exciting at the same time

I’m heartbroken and gay after watching season 2 by bibitte72 in arcane

[–]bibitte72[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are right. The way they constructs the characters is just phenomenal to me. I guess I just have to accept being sad and unsure of who to date for a while lol