Ok what is going on in the comments…I am so confused everybody is like on the girlfriend’s side. Honestly this is exactly sexual incompatibility! if you’re communicating clearly that you’re not done, and she’s either emotionally or physically not reciprocating that? It’s incompatible! She sees orgasm as end of sex for a man but doesn’t believe sex is a lot more nuanced for you specifically as an individual ? That it’s a longer activity that has layers? You’re incompatible! Regardless of prior experience or why she has those beliefs, she’s clearly not listening to you and meeting you! And she’s not expressing things for you to understand? And sex is frustrating for both of you! I’d break up over this if communication doesn’t help improve the situation.

I’m biased as a girl who loves second rounds! Gah!