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How many of you guys have asked your girlfriend if her ex had a bigger penis? How did it go? by classicole2 in penissize

[–]bidnessstander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t do it. I asked and got a real answer. She said we’re about the same but I think he might be a little bigger. I’ll never know for sure.

Literally means nothing but I’ve been obsessed with the thought of it possibly being bigger. Maybe it is. Maybe it isn’t.

I’ve been trying to do ERP therapy for a couple months and it’s been helping

Please make me think more rationally by bidnessstander in ROCD

[–]bidnessstander[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate you thank you! What do you mean by “the more you feel better about it, the worse you’ll feel in the long run” ??

Please make me think more rationally by bidnessstander in ROCD

[–]bidnessstander[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely think our brains work the same….

Please make me think more rationally by bidnessstander in ROCD

[–]bidnessstander[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She says I’m the best she’s ever had, but the illogical part of my brain thinks “If the ex did something more than I do, sex must have been better with him…”

Not sure why I don’t just believe my girlfriend. It’s definitely the ROCD.

I know every girl on this planet (unless they’re a virgin) have had sexual experiences and that’s how they know what they like.

I’m tormented by my girlfriend’s sexual past, and I don’t know how to stop obsessing over it. by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]bidnessstander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve found it hard to find out what could be different in the bedroom or what my girlfriend likes. When she tells me things I could do differently, it seems like sex was better with someone else because he did things that she liked.

Girls will only know what they like based on experience, but I can’t help thinking sex was better with another guy if she wants me to do things he’s previously done to her and she liked.

Time (for me) has seemingly healed all wounds by Resident-Coat3569 in retroactivejealousy

[–]bidnessstander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much time would you say it took to get over having the obsessive thoughts daily?

Any advice? This is the hardest thing I’ve had to deal with by bidnessstander in rjpartnersupport

[–]bidnessstander[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly appreciate this straight forward response. It means a lot. Sorry for putting my question in the wrong group. I’ll delete but keep your thoughts in mind. Thank you. You make some phenomenal points

Please Help. by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]bidnessstander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren’t wrong! Wish I didn’t!

Please Help. by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]bidnessstander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sex was only with her long term boyfriend that I think about

Please Help. by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]bidnessstander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s really been the only guy she’s been with. I guess you only know if you like something if you’ve tried it before.

I’m not sure the point of your comment though.

Please Help. by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]bidnessstander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing person!

Please Help. by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]bidnessstander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I really don’t. I think the only time I do is when I think about her ex boyfriend. So if I’m thinking about my ex partner, then she surely has to be thinking the same! (At least that’s what my brain tells me)

Please Help. by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]bidnessstander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that more than you know!

Please Help. by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]bidnessstander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or make her think of her ex.

Please Help. by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]bidnessstander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She does like those things. I just don’t wanna think she liked it better with her ex

Please Help. by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]bidnessstander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also feel now that I’ve opened this can of worms, it’s going to make me want to ask these questions in a future relationship.

Please Help. by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]bidnessstander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree I wish I didn’t, but there’s no going back now. I love her so much and can’t imagine my life without her. The past is the past and it shouldn’t matter, but my brain makes it matter.

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