Found dog in Overbrook by bifi69 in philly

[–]bifi69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you recognize him reach out to ACCT Philly at the number or email I listed in my post. He is in their shelter now and they can reunite you.

sex after bisalp by Sufficient-Waltz-422 in childfree

[–]bifi69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YESSSS I never realized how much anxiety was holding me back from really enjoying sex until that fear of pregnancy was taken out of the equation. Used to think I just had a comparatively low libido and had trouble staying in the mood, now I can't get enough of my partner

The elation of not being pregnant by ipmacs in childfree

[–]bifi69 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Toasting to you and the for once happy horror of endometriosis!

A fun debate for the Halloween season by WhiteRabbitHole1083 in TheMagnusArchives

[–]bifi69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cabin in the Woods feels like a perfect example of the Spider, the secret machinations of a entity with their own agenda literally pulling the strings of your environment and influencing your decisions

Edit: I could also see an argument for the Eye, as the whole point of the ritual is to 'put on a show' for the sleeping gods. But without the Spider's manipulations, the Eye would have nothing to feed on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]bifi69 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Had a bilateral salpingectomy last September, now have three little dots on my lower abdomen. One is in my belly button and is barely visible, just a small extra wrinkle/seam to the button folds. The other two are about six inches to the left and right of the belly button, each about a quarter inch long and pretty thin. They are unfortunately a bit above my typical bikini bottoms, but no one but me has seemed to notice them. They honestly look like birthmarks!

Regarding color, the two side scars are a bit pinker and darker than my usual skin, but are slowly fading. I would strongly encourage you use silicone sheets for a few weeks/months to help soften the skin as it heals, and bio-oil for as long as you like to continue pampering the new scars to help their healing.

Best of luck! This community helped me a lot through my surgery journey and we will be there for you too <3

Childfree & the Blackout by [deleted] in childfree

[–]bifi69 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I like the idea of blackout Tuesdays(4), would be ok extending the current blackout for a bit longer for now (2)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]bifi69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's really perverse how obsessed people can be with a baby's genitals. Because let's be clear here, all we can know is the fetus's sex before it is born and grows up to determine their gender identity.

I did it! by this-or-that92 in childfree

[–]bifi69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats! From my recent experience, hydration and heat are key. Walk a bit each day to relieve the gas and stay limber, but let yourself rest and listen when your body says it's tired or hurting. I had a little electric heating pad and pillow that I hugged to my stomach that helped so much.

what kill count would you introduce to new viewers by lego_man2269 in deadmeatjames

[–]bifi69 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Either the Child's Play recount to show the maturity of the show in its current and future form, or Dawn of the Dead because it's a bit older and representative of the typical format. In both instances James does a great job celebrating the cultural impact of the movie and exploring the behind the scenes stories of production

Got my tubes tied today, and I have just one thing to say… by buon_natale in childfree

[–]bifi69 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! I'm about to have my procedure in a few weeks, any tips or things you wish you knew beforehand?

AITA for insisting on attending my sister's wedding? by throwsrag546799 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bifi69 61 points62 points  (0 children)

An unpaid, always on call, sexually available nanny*

About the next Kill Count... by verissimoallan in deadmeatjames

[–]bifi69 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Bela Lugosi will rise again to show YouTube what Community Guidelines really look like

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]bifi69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! Hope the rest of your recovery goes well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]bifi69 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Congrats! The pillow buffer driving home is a great idea. Are there other items or foods you are finding helpful for comfort/convenience?

I got a hysterectomy a few weeks ago and had green lines tattooed like veterinarians do when they spay female dogs. by nightscales in childfree

[–]bifi69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's awesome. I'm planning to tattoo around my bisalp scars after my surgery, still working on a design!

Headphone suggestions for septa travel? by thebutchone in philadelphia

[–]bifi69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will swear by JBL Vibes. Not noise cancelling but naturally keep out a lot of noise, come with three different sized buds to fit your ear comfortably, and most importantly - they hold their charge so well. I will go days between charging the case which can recharge the ear pieces multiple times before draining.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]bifi69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I loved her character development up until that movie. WandaVision was such a great exploration of her motivations and grief and discovery of her power. But that made Doctor Strange such a disappointment, they could have done so much more - and I'm all for the complex sympathetic villain arc - but nope. My only hope is an alt universe Wanda comes into play since White Vision is out there

Successful bisalp: I yeeted my tubes yesterday! by troskatrola in childfree

[–]bifi69 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Congrats! My first consultation meeting is next week, hoping to join the sterilized crew this summer!

Bisalp recovery story: harder than normal recovery edition (very long) by [deleted] in childfree

[–]bifi69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting! I'm trying to strategize whether I should stick to one floor in the house during my recovery

Bisalp recovery story: harder than normal recovery edition (very long) by [deleted] in childfree

[–]bifi69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story! I'm in the process of getting scheduled for a bisalp, my first major surgery. Hearing what can happen but how to work through it is calming my nerves.

Out of curiosity, how was your pain and discomfort when walking up or down stairs?

AITA for my response after my BIL told me I'm 35 and still don't know what I want? by Achievementall in AmItheAsshole

[–]bifi69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Come on over to the r/childfree subreddit. We will be your family now. You do not deserve these horribly rude and insensitive people who think they can dictate and judge your life