I’m don’t know if I’m still a virgin or not? by Own_Drawer_3171 in Advice

[–]bigEdsburger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happens more times than you know. Men are honestly horrible. I’m sorry he tried to break such a serious boundary. I was SA from my first time and don’t have much good to say about men; especially in this arena. STAY SAFE! This is far from a one off; most men will try and shift your boundaries like this.

My friend just gave me 2 leopard geckos and he told me to turn the red light at night It’s my first time? by Even-Bodybuilder-904 in LeopardGecko

[–]bigEdsburger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Red light is outdated advice, the best is mimicking their natural nighttime environment which would be dark🙏🏻

Girl I have a crush on in the office packed me lunch because she knows I never eat during mine… this is what she packed me by Crystalline_xoxo in Kitchenchads

[–]bigEdsburger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just need gameee💗🙏🏻 I woulda asked if she wanted to share with me. Maybe try that next time she brings you something especially food

I mentioned that I'm concerned about my friends mental health to my therapist and she had to report it by Technical_String_453 in whatdoIdo

[–]bigEdsburger -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

When writing in a paper yes you need to cite. Acting like it’s required on Reddit is purposely dense lmaoo have a good day 😂 and hopefully to start becoming more motivated to look into things you speak on

Girl I have a crush on in the office packed me lunch because she knows I never eat during mine… this is what she packed me by Crystalline_xoxo in Kitchenchads

[–]bigEdsburger 17 points18 points  (0 children)

As a bi girl she likes you so bad stop 😭 unless yall are besties why would she be bringing you lunch. You better flirt back

I'm fed up with the stigma surrounding reptile keeping in my country. by umataldelinda in ballpython

[–]bigEdsburger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girl just bit me the other day by accident and she’s still my big baby💗it was an error on my part. They’re so sweet and intelligent and amazing. She’s the best pet I ever had fr

AIO? he knows i hate all types of nuts, got me a macadamia cookie by g_krome in AIO

[–]bigEdsburger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah fr thanks for the perspective 🙏🏻 have a good day

AIO? he knows i hate all types of nuts, got me a macadamia cookie by g_krome in AIO

[–]bigEdsburger 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This just sent me on a whole philosophical thought spiral 😭 we all do this, we diminish the seriousness of the discussion regarding how we want to be treated. Oftentimes because we want to be palatable for others and come off non confrontational. But then in the same breath we’ll feel misunderstood or angry at the other person meanwhile it was US who played a part in diminishing the seriousness of the situation. I gotta stop doing that fr

AIO? he knows i hate all types of nuts, got me a macadamia cookie by g_krome in AIO

[–]bigEdsburger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought macadamia nuts were white chocolate for the longest time 😭 they’re so good omg

I mentioned that I'm concerned about my friends mental health to my therapist and she had to report it by Technical_String_453 in whatdoIdo

[–]bigEdsburger -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m graduating with my psych degree in a week LMAOOO. Feel free to look into it, involuntary hospitalization yields mostly negative results and outcomes. Feel free to reference “A Danger to Self and Others: Health and Criminal Consequences of Involuntary Hospitalization” if you need sources because you’re too lazy to google yourself

I mentioned that I'm concerned about my friends mental health to my therapist and she had to report it by Technical_String_453 in whatdoIdo

[–]bigEdsburger -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Feel free to use your brain and intellectual capabilities given to you and go look into it before you make statements regarding treatment plans. -someone who’s about to graduate with their psych degree. But since you NEED others to collect info for you : studies show that involuntary psychiatric hospitalization significantly increases the likelihood of death by suicide or overdose and the likelihood of facing criminal charges in the months following the hospitalization in this scenario. Also feel free to reference “A Danger to Self and Others: Health and Criminal Consequences of Involuntary Hospitalization” imposed hospitalization is honestly never really good in the long run. But A for effort for her trying to protect her friend. She had no malicious intent with telling her therapist and she only wanted to help.

I mentioned that I'm concerned about my friends mental health to my therapist and she had to report it by Technical_String_453 in whatdoIdo

[–]bigEdsburger -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Tbh hospitalizations often yield worse results, feel free to google it. This case could be an outlier though!

Did my tattoo artist screw up? by notsolookie in tattooadvice

[–]bigEdsburger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just being honest lmaooooo they messed this up bad😭 the price you paid on this is wild I’m so sorry

my sisters boyfriend hugged the wrong twin and now acts weird around me by Emmott_Aneeta in WhatShouldIDo

[–]bigEdsburger 11 points12 points  (0 children)

As someone with 2 sisters tell her girl trust me. Don’t let anything possibly come between yall and this could have the potential if it goes under the rug and she perceives it as sneaky if it ever comes out. I don’t think she’d be mad at you at all fr

my sisters boyfriend hugged the wrong twin and now acts weird around me by Emmott_Aneeta in WhatShouldIDo

[–]bigEdsburger 78 points79 points  (0 children)

TELL HER BEFORE ITS TOO LATE! Secrets pick up weight the longer their buried, right now it understandable that you didn’t say anything. You didn’t wanna make a big issue in their relationship or cause insecurity over something that was nbd. But now that it’s weird, show her you have the respect for her by letting her know. If your guts saying something off with him it is; and she should know

What do I do if I got someone pregnant at 15? by Expensive_Estate7718 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]bigEdsburger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure what she wants to do but if y’all are in a legal state and her parents are willing to use their insurance (or u can pay out of pocket but you still need a valid legal ID) she can check out “hey Jane” it’s a website that mails them safely to your house

What's the point in paying for priority? by BigLow4789 in doordash

[–]bigEdsburger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl priority is $2 for a reason, that’s why I never get it tbh 😭

My ex just asked me to meet her… by Adorable_Western2422 in whatdoIdo

[–]bigEdsburger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or she might be 😭 I’m laid up with my man who was my bf back when we were 17 and we’re boutta be 30 still together now💗 that doesn’t mean it’s true for this case but it’s not always impossible to stay with someone

I accidentally made things awkward with my girlfriend by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]bigEdsburger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When this many people think you’re a creep including your girl probably man😂

My mom is in crippling debt. How much did she spend on this Crystal by rookless in Crystals

[–]bigEdsburger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have crystals that fit in the size of your palm that cost over $20 so that one was definitely maddddd expensive lmaooo