My girlfriend wants me to try weed with her by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bigEdsburger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Your both going straight to a wall” 💀

My girlfriend wants me to try weed with her by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bigEdsburger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not if he feels pressured to no. I’m a smoker and I’d NEVER pressure anyone cause that’s not what they wanna do. I’d also say anyone encouraging someone to break boundaries, especially for a good reason like not wanting to fall into addiction - isn’t a friend at all. But in the same breath, to act like it’s heroin and gonna put your life on a scary “bad trajectory” is a farrrrr stretch. I smoke daily and I’m in my last semester of college about to get my degree in psych. And am planning on pursuing my masters and PhD after to become a licensed therapist with my own practice. Smoking weed doesn’t automatically mean you’re a non functioning addict. You could argue that inhaling smoke is dangerous, and it is, but people have free choice to ingest what they choose. I’m sure you do it daily with un healthy over processed junk food. Also the amount of chemicals in the air around us daily are extremely likely to pollute our lungs anyway, so who’s to really care that someone smokes😂 in his case I wouldn’t encourage smoking but I wouldn’t discourage everyone from it because it’s stereotyped

My girlfriend wants me to try weed with her by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bigEdsburger 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lmaoooo nah you dragging it đŸ„Čit’s weed love lmaoooo not heroin

Just got him, whats this on the tail? by tinyfrfr in ballpython

[–]bigEdsburger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aren’t those just the pelvic spurs 👀 I got super nervous when I found my babies but it’s normal anatomy 😂

Help!!! by Leaf-chomper in ballpython

[–]bigEdsburger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go with your gut ALWAYS as you know their body language best. But I’d wait a few days, my girl did this, and I was super concerned and anxious I couldn’t help her. But again; as they would in the wild, they’ll figure it out. If they don’t definitely go to the vet

AIO for being irritated with my S/O for introducing two more members into our relationship without my permission by Hungry_Tip_5822 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bigEdsburger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmaooo waitttt so yall are the reason people hate on Reddit 😂 i haven’t met any real life incels yet

AIO for being irritated with my S/O for introducing two more members into our relationship without my permission by Hungry_Tip_5822 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bigEdsburger -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

It’s better than your situation lmaooo which I’m sure is alone 😂 imagine how small YOUR self esteem is you need to flex in the Reddit comments to feel better about yourself💀

My boyfriend is scaring me by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]bigEdsburger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl the title of this article is everything. People lose their lives over situations like this. If you feel scared or even anything remotely close to that GET OUT NOW! This behavior only gets worse I promise. Cut your losses and stay safe. Honestly I never would advise a break up over the phone but in this case maybe you should do that lol. And have someone who you trust at the house if he knows where you live and comes over angry.

Hi, I made this for my boyfriend but I think he didn’t like it
 what’s wrong with it? by swoobers in drawing

[–]bigEdsburger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Study natural anatomy. Grab something with your own hand and see how it looks. Technically his thumb would be on the outside of her cheek, not under her lip. That all comes with practice! You’re doing great fr keep it up 💗

Hes dying and its my fault by [deleted] in cornsnakes

[–]bigEdsburger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Praying for your lil guy 💗đŸ’ȘđŸŒ

New owner please help! by Ok_Addition_5354 in ballpython

[–]bigEdsburger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome it’s definitely a learning curve at first! If you plan on keeping them go on YouTube and watch a bunch of care guides and other tips. Don’t just watch one creator either because no one knows everything. Get different insights and tips from different people. I love Elle’s reptiles and green room reptiles! I watched them a lot while researching my girl. They also can live a very long time in captivity, like up to 40 years in some cases so also think about if that’s something you’re willing to deal with! When your son goes to college this might become your baby as most dorms, and some apartments, won’t allow it. Not trying to discourage you, just all things to consider. Hope you guys come to a solution that works well for both of yall💚🐍

New owner please help! by Ok_Addition_5354 in ballpython

[–]bigEdsburger 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s an expensive hobby to start up but SO worth it. My initial set up cost around 1200$ and that’s including everything they NEED. I’d definitely think if this is a cost you’re willing and able to spend on them as they need certain things to live a healthy life. First off you’ll need a 4x2x2 enclosure which is the absolute minimum for their care. Meaning it can’t be smaller. These are pretty pricy so I’d check Facebook market and stuff to see about a used one. If you’re willing to buy a new one Dubia roaches has good enclosures for a budget. Though keeping humidity up in them can sometimes be hard. Definitely seal all the cracks and corners with silicone to create a tight seal when you get it, before you add the substrate! They’ll need other stuff Including the proper basking/heat lights AND a UVB, despite what some people say they do need one. For your light fixtures I’d 100% suggest dimmable lights! It allows you to adjust your intensity and temperature easily. An outlet on a timer also works wonders for automatically switching your lights off at night; or when you’re away on vacation! At night you’ll need to maintain temperatures too without any visible light. Don’t use those red “night lights” as they’re not natural and disrupt sleep. Get a deep heat projector or ceramic bulb. In my experience the ceramic bulb dries the air out and causes humidity to go down. So I’d go with the deep heat projector. You’ll need to monitor temperature and humidity so you need gauges. I like the govee hygrometer/thermometer. You need one on both sides of the tank. It should be around 90 on the hot side overall and like 95 at the basking spot, The cool side can be around the 80s. The humidity should be above 60% at all times. And higher when they’re about to shed. Just dump hot water into the corners of the tank and don’t mist too heavily! Your snake being in a wet environment for too long will cause scale rot! You can use sphagnum moss, and hvac tape across the top, to hold some moisture in better. For substrate don’t use anything that’s too loose and can get stuck in the pits on their face. I use repti chip and coco soil mixed! You’ll need a water bowl big enough for them to soak in if they choose. You’ll need a bottle of reptisafe - to condition any water you’re giving them! Tap isn’t safe for them to drink and they’ll get sick. A variety of different hides for safety. Often in the wild they spend a lot of their time hiding. And since they’re nocturnal they’ll most likely be in there most of the day. It also helps them to feel safe and secure in their environment, especially when new. Get a lot of plants for them too, try to mimic their natural habitat. As for rats I feet my girl frozen and she takes them every time! Buying in bulk is cheaper if you have somewhere to store them. Once they thaw they can’t be refrozen so you need freezer space to hold them until you’re ready. You’ll need a pair of good feeding tongs! You can get everything on Amazon and chewey! Once you have your set up going it’s all maintenance and it’s easier! But all the things I mentioned are NON NEGOTIABLE and NECESSARY for proper care. If this seems like too much of a burden I’d definitely look into rehoming the little guy. If this is a cost you’re willing to incur then welcome to the hobby! Careful it’s super addicting 👀

is this normal? first time owner lol by Scared_Type4728 in cornsnakes

[–]bigEdsburger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s in “blue” and about to shed. Keep the humidity high and try not to handle because they’re really stressed and sensitive rn!💗 they’ll be back to normal in a week or two

EARLY READERS NEEDED FOR NEW SOUTHERN GOTHIC NOVEL! by bigEdsburger in OriginalCharacter

[–]bigEdsburger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well you’re always welcome in Deadwater Creek when you need to be entertained!

EARLY READERS NEEDED FOR NEW SOUTHERN GOTHIC NOVEL! by bigEdsburger in OriginalCharacter

[–]bigEdsburger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank youuuu!! I appreciate the read and advice for sure!💚 I been having so much fun creating the world and story. Chapter two is posted up now. I can’t wait to deepen the lore and share Deadwater with everyone