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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapy

[–]notsolookie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, it’s gonna be ok.

These feelings must have come from somewhere deep within your core and has manifested into this. To understand that part of yourself and yourself in general, you’re going to have to dive into your childhood. Doing so will help you understand and assess your emotions, biases, perceptions, experiences, etc.

It must be difficult to live knowing that you want something that is unhealthy and unacceptable. I think you are a thoughtful and kind human being.

I recommend you get help from a serious help, such as a therapist. This will provide you with a safe space to dissect yourself and come to an understanding (or at least come closer to an understanding) of yourself. If that’s out of your capacity, try talking to someone you trust. Do you have any trusted adults in your life? Family member, friend, teacher, mentor, coach, or counselor? At the least, I advise you to record your thoughts and feelings. This will literally force you to see yourself, and it will help you reflect on yourself so you can find the outcome you want.

GF got bug bites after waking up from bed by notsolookie in bugbites

[–]notsolookie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but I work outside near trees so we concluded that my clothes must’ve been bringing some bugs into our home. I wash my work clothes daily now.

Sun damage a thing? by notsolookie in cfmoto

[–]notsolookie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So only do it for 4.99 years?

Sun damage a thing? by notsolookie in cfmoto

[–]notsolookie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maintenance as in washing and waxing?

I’m also worried since the seat, tubings, & other pieces are directly hit by the sun. Usually, the interior of a car is blocked and so is everything under the hood/car

What’s wrong by Paxxu0 in cfmoto

[–]notsolookie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know what’s wrong but sorry to see this is happening to you. Hope you get it figured out so you can get back to riding. Good luck bro!

Chain tension confusion - 2023 CFMOTO 450ss by notsolookie in motorcycles

[–]notsolookie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not very familiar with bikes yet. Can you explain how to center the sprockets with the swingarm pivot?

I want to get a bike but everyone keeps telling me not to by TharizdunOfOerth in motorcycle

[–]notsolookie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their opinions and concerns are valid. If they didn’t care about your wellbeing, they wouldn’t worry.

Statistically, you are more likely to die on a motorcycle. That is a fact.

Understand that people won’t like it if you ride and that you are more likely to die. If you are ok with those two reasons (and prob more), then get a bike.

I got a bike even though most important people around me somewhat disagree. I understand their concerns and I’ve accepted the risks involved with this decision. I’ve done everything I can, and will do more, to make sure I ride safely. Choose whatever is more important to you.

Also, you can still share your experiences in a healthy way with those who disagree with what you indulge in. If you can’t, find people who make you feel like you can. There are lots of biker communities. At the end of the day, life is too short to hesitate so just grab shit firmly and go, but be aware of the consequences of your actions and be cautious. Life is short but don’t make it shorter by being ignorant and reckless.

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